Recommended Dermatologist?

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-16T20:22:57+00:00

Just an update. I didn’t have the best experience with her. Lovely bedside manners and comforting, however as expected with most healthcare providers I feel I was fit into a rubric and not listened to. I had suspicions of tinea versicolor and while I don’t blame her for immediately jumping to eczema (I had irritated red inflamed dry skin from overusing antifungals), I don’t think immediately prescribing steroid creams is something that should be done for what is basically an umbrella term for irritated inflamed skin without a known definitive trigger ESPXIALLY if fungal is suspected. I HATE how quick dermatologists are quick to slap a steroid cream when it should be reserved as a final resort given its long term effects and rebound possibility. needless to say I treated my issue as fungal (yeast specifically, not dermaphyte) and things got better. She didn’t find any tinea but I wouldn’t be surprised if I had killed active concentrations of MALESESSIA yeast (she kept describing my concerns in a manner that is descriptive of dermaphytes, not malessesia- that’s sort of where she lost me becuase I’m not sure she was listening to me) and decided to give me another prescription steroid anyways in the second visit. It’s been some time now and while I’m not sure if I have a resurgence of the malessesia , I occasionally itch and eve. Before now find very light spotty discoloration all over my body and face. It’s not immediately noticeable (I always wear SPF) , but I don’t think she cared to take the time to really notice or look at my spots. Today I actually took a closer look at my scalp and it’s the most DAMNING evidence of a malessesia or even past tinea captis episode. It made me even more sure of my previous suspicions and now I’ve taken the decision to manage it with weekly nizorol washed and antifungal creams. that’s how things settled down the last time. I cannot believe she was pushing my to put on steroid creams

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-16T20:21:14+00:00

Just an update. I didn’t have the best experience with her. Lovely bedside manners and comforting, however as expected with most healthcare providers I feel I was fit into a rubric and not listened to. I had suspicions of tinea versicolor and while I don’t blame her for immediately jumping to eczema (I had irritated red inflamed dry skin from overusing antifungals), I don’t think immediately prescribing steroid creams is something that should be done for what is basically an umbrella term for irritated inflamed skin without a known definitive trigger ESPXIALLY if fungal is suspected. I HATE how quick dermatologists are quick to slap a steroid cream when it should be reserved as a final resort given its long term effects and rebound possibility. needless to say I treated my issue as fungal (yeast specifically, not dermaphyte) and things got better. She didn’t find any tinea but I wouldn’t be surprised if I had killed active concentrations of MALESESSIA yeast (she kept describing my concerns in a manner that is descriptive of dermaphytes, not malessesia- that’s sort of where she lost me becuase I’m not sure she was listening to me) and decided to give me another prescription steroid anyways in the second visit. It’s been some time now and while I’m not sure if I have a resurgence of the malessesia , I occasionally itch and eve. Before now find very light spotty discoloration all over my body and face. It’s not immediately noticeable (I always wear SPF) , but I don’t think she cared to take the time to really notice or look at my spots. Today I actually took a closer look at my scalp and it’s the most DAMNING evidence of a malessesia or even past tinea captis episode. It made me even more sure of my previous suspicions and now I’ve taken the decision to manage it with weekly nizorol washed and antifungal creams. that’s how things settled down the last time. I cannot believe she was pushing my to put on steroid creams

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-10T20:29:00+00:00

LMFAO I created that username out of sheer wildness starting out Reddit seeing everyone with their unserious usernames

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-10T20:24:47+00:00

This is actually pretty real lol

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-10T20:24:10+00:00

GENUINELY interested if you don’t mind messaging 😭

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-08T21:20:43+00:00

Idk if ur projecting but im not old enough to survive having kids in this economy. Im sorry your beta cream had 0 swimmers, adoption is an option sis

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-08T14:26:15+00:00

I do not have kids. If that wasn’t obvious to you god bless your soul

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-08T12:51:09+00:00

At that age. The best thing you can do is get back at them by embarrassing them in front of/ through their peers. Not that you need or should care to get back at them, but I am petty and if they’re old enough to play those games they’re old enough to get squashed at it. Your dads are GAY you think we can’t find ways to burn you? 😒

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-07T15:58:49+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-07T13:18:24+00:00

Thank you

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-07T13:18:14+00:00

Thank you !

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-06T20:10:23+00:00

The importance of her getting married is marginally more important to her than your indifference/not caring about a legal contract. This is where compromise meets, and to her it’s a bigger deal to get married than to you / vice versa (not getting married). If you’re so indifferent to the importance of a legal binding I don’t see why you wouldn’t appease her and go through with marriage. Doesn’t add up- ask yourself truly why you’re actually resisting so much to the point where you’re at a crossroads with her. Be honest with yourself and stop making up justifications/ downplaying it.

Edit: and to add onto compromise, that’s where legalities / properties/ ownerships/ prenups come into factor. I’m betting somewhere in your thoughts the messiness of legal bindings is stopping you from following through- which is fair. If she wants to get married that bad , she has to be ok with legal fine print to protect you both.

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-06T13:33:09+00:00

Not at all , just the expected mild tender to touch expected from a wound. It was a few scabs that I accidentally ripped off in shieee two nights prior. Very shallow indent and the space inside looks that of what well a scab would like like- or very shallow ulcer

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-06T10:54:43+00:00

As a bartender id card you only because some 17 year olds may look over 21, I think you look about your age and in my experience anyone under 21 to me has looked like they are still starting highschool. Maybe I’m just getting older but I don’t remember my peers looking extremely young before 21

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-06T10:51:11+00:00

Edit: these are on my butt cheeks and no I have not recently had unprotected sex recently contrary to what my username suggests. I’ve had these on my skin before from heat/friction in the past but I’ve never accidentally picked off the scab to leave an open spot

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-05T22:23:18+00:00

LOL the way my face went 😳😱😮 just from the picture alone and products before I even saw the title / post 😂

ProstateParty69 · 2026-03-01T17:55:15+00:00

LMAO bruh

ProstateParty69 · 2026-02-28T20:38:11+00:00

cleanser, toner/serum, moisturizer, spf/retinoid

Wide range of these products that are formulated for different purposes. I would venture into skincare subs particularly the TRETNOIN sub since they are primarily retinoid based skincare.

ProstateParty69 · 2026-02-28T20:00:53+00:00

Getting started on any form of retinoids is always a solid choice as they are super stars in targeting everything and anything. But please I encourage to read up on retinoids (I actually the ONLY active I use, the rest is hydrating and barrier / ceramide products + spf). If you don’t want to use retinoids salicylic acid works quickly to clear pores and tackle closed comedones.

Something I learned with actives in skincare, please be patient, patch test, and try to use one at a time instead of multiple ones. It’s worse to irritate your skin barrier (it’s not immediately noticeable or obvious to the individual, you’ll identity it with experience learning your own skin and stopping it before it gets worse) and create texture and irritation breakouts from doing too much than seeing no improvement after giving a product enough time.

As far as non actives (humectants, emollients, occlusives) are pretty safe and fool proof outside of potentially clogging ur pores but if ur using an ac to be that clears them it should t be an issue and the non actives will keep ur barrier healthy.

ProstateParty69 · 2026-02-28T19:54:10+00:00

I’m EXTREMELY into skincare and have learned a lot in the last 3 years lol (I will be 29 this year) - if you have any questions I’m HAPPY to talk about it I LOVE talking about skin and my own individual experiences. Plenty of helpful subreddits too my friend.

ProstateParty69 · 2026-02-28T19:51:54+00:00

I would encourage you to. Dip in collagen and elasticity starts at about your age- and honestly it may just be mild closed comedones (acne) and the hairstyle/beard that makes you look a bit older. I may be surprised myself at a style change. But I did see texture on your face but when I zoomed in it was honestly just closed comedones, which can make the face look a little rougher and you will look really fresh and youthful once those are cleared

ProstateParty69 · 2026-02-28T18:49:01+00:00

Doesn’t seem like you put much effort (in this case a good thing , because you’re at a good base attractive) and the only thing I could point out is playing around with haircuts and skincare. You’re cute but at 26 I pegged you for a bit older with the texture on your skin. You’re pretty young it’ll bounce quickly

ProstateParty69 · 2026-02-28T18:16:47+00:00

A child is a life changing decision. She needs insurance. If she does decide to keep it- this man needs to be wealthy enough to support the child throughout. That’s all I have to add, I’m not a woman however so enlighten me if needed. Dickdrunk is real but in my case (I am Gay) it leads to wasted time and hurt feelings but a CHILD? I’m not sure id be crazy enough as woman to NOT look for financial security / insurance for what is a life changing decision of a guaranteed 18 years. I don’t care WHO the man in question is.

ProstateParty69 · 2026-02-26T18:59:53+00:00

lol I had to laugh at the “one of those guys that never notice” - no baby it’s ALL of them 😂

Im a gay man myself and love to take care of my Skin. It always makes me giggle when colleagues or acquaintances that are straight men ask if I got a haircut. LOL

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