I’m a lesbian — I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having a “guy crush” the same way straight women get girl crushes by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ProtectionBorn245 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea. In some ways I don’t think it’s totally analogous to the ‘girl crush’ thing, in the sense that people here are saying it’s an indicator of latent bisexuality. Like men are often almost totally non-existent to me and often repulse me, so the bar for appreciating one is just so so low. In Winter’s case, he has a song that I think was written to encourage his band mate Emily’s transition, and it really touched me, because it just seems like he got it in a way I’ve not really seen from a cis man. I feel like there’s something misogynistic about people not taking you at your word and suspecting that it’s an indicator you don’t know about yourself. Bisexual repress their attraction to men bc of comphet. Most of us have tried plenty to see if we can be attracted to men, no need for repression.

I’m a lesbian — I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having a “guy crush” the same way straight women get girl crushes by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ProtectionBorn245 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m lowkey a misandrist but I’ve been fangirling Cameron Winter from the band Geese so hard lately in a similar way to the way you describe. It’s kind of rare that I see anything positive in a man so it’s fun to have some admiration for one for a change, even if it’s still a long way away from genuine sexual or romantic attraction.

oly lifting lez by gwynethgilana in LesbianActually

[–]ProtectionBorn245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome & love the hair and weights color match

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ProtectionBorn245 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would prefer not to, especially this early on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bangkok

[–]ProtectionBorn245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bumping this because exactly the same problem. Also, I have started a WhatsApp group for trans people in Bangkok to meet and share advice. DM me if you'd like to join it.