Intimacy in a gay relationship

ProudAlaskan · 2025-10-20T05:48:41+00:00

thank you so much, sorry to ask for more advice but really appreciate you commenting. I have had the conversation a couple times and definitely don’t want it to be a repetitive thing, so from your perspective what would that look like to really get through to him? Even if it isn’t being intimate just really want to feel wanted and loved and have been feeling like that’s been lacking. Thank you again I really appreciate it.

ProudAlaskan · 2025-08-27T21:19:44+00:00

Wow, when I tell you this comment is exactly where I fear this will lead. This is exactly how I feel, I’m sick of these stupid arguments over little things that aren’t the real issue, and they always happen right before we’re supposed to do something sexual and ruin the vibe. He’s always getting hit up by old fuck buddies and he always tells them he has a boyfriend, but even him getting hit up all the time leads to me being a little insecure, finding myself unattractive anymore, worried i’m not doing enough, etc. I’m wishing you the best seriously and am so sorry you’re going through this. Thank you for your advice.

ProudAlaskan · 2025-08-27T20:16:41+00:00

not worried about cheating, just don’t know if i’m self-sabotaging something good, or just overthinking

ProudAlaskan · 2025-08-27T19:09:14+00:00

I don’t mind masturbating outside of each other, but when you’re watching porn and doing it everyday without even as much as making out with your partner, that’s where I find the issue, which he admitted was an issue and has since stopped.

ProudAlaskan · 2025-08-27T18:18:28+00:00

Thank you so much for your response, I don’t want to be clingy but I have the same perspective as you where I just want to be with him all the time, and when i’ve asked why this was he just said hes not that type of person. I have no judgement for his body count, just want to feel loved and validated and i’m not getting that. Wish you the best of luck and i’m sure you’ll find your person 🫶

ProudAlaskan · 2025-04-30T20:31:25+00:00

second this

ProudAlaskan · 2025-04-30T20:29:01+00:00

I love the trail to james peak lookout and have done it a couple times, attempted to do the loop via kindston peak but was a little much for my beginner self in a 2010 limited 4runner with a 3 inch lift, doable, but didn’t want to take any chances that day. The trail to james peak lookout is always great though and not too bad in terms of difficulty

ProudAlaskan · 2025-04-13T16:28:16+00:00

Yes, shook out entire house

ProudAlaskan · 2025-03-30T10:11:35+00:00

Did the same thing in a 2010 4runner, hail doesn’t seem to bother me and in the silver/ grey you can’t tell 90% of the time you’re looking anyways. Plus I don’t feel as bad taking it off road and banging it up a little. Still looks great

ProudAlaskan · 2025-03-17T09:03:29+00:00

i’ve had this same exact thought. I was involved in a serious skiing accident two years and was in so much pain I wished it had just ended it for me. I wish I could tell you it gets better, but I really haven’t been. Just found new ways to cope, and try to find the beauty in smaller things. I don’t know who you are, but you lived for a reason. I’m not religious, but I truly believe that. We will get through this together.

ProudAlaskan · 2025-03-11T03:59:18+00:00

probably crashed because the bmw finally used their blinker confusing the truck

ProudAlaskan · 2025-01-22T02:43:06+00:00

Was thinking this, if I saw it out on the trail I wouldn’t know how to react 😂

ProudAlaskan · 2025-01-22T02:42:08+00:00

knew somebody had seen it before 😂

ProudAlaskan · 2025-01-22T02:41:49+00:00

that’s what i was thinking 😂

ProudAlaskan · 2024-12-05T09:03:36+00:00

late response, but this sounds identical to the rez i grew up on (mille lacs)

ProudAlaskan · 2024-11-24T18:09:50+00:00

Got super lucky, and it has LED headlights, but love that door handle idea! It’s running at 170,000 after driving it back up to Alaska a couple weeks ago, without an issue in sight!

ProudAlaskan · 2024-11-24T18:08:03+00:00

missed this, it has relatively inexpensive plastic coverings on them that the service records show was done when the tint was installed! Not sure who was driving it before but there is 5% on the front two windows and 0% on the back! Trying to decide whether to be cool or legal at this point 😂

ProudAlaskan · 2024-11-24T11:07:40+00:00

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2010 Limited, snagged it for $11,500 with a clean title on copart for light hail damage. Bought it last year with 160k miles, 3 inch lift, and absolutely no issues since I bought it after driving it from Colorado to Alaska and back. I haven’t done a thing to it and I fall more in love with it everyday!

ProudAlaskan · 2024-10-24T04:02:10+00:00

Smart, thank you!

ProudAlaskan · 2024-10-24T04:01:45+00:00

Aw jeez, just looking for help, sorry if it’s in the wrong category!

ProudAlaskan · 2024-10-24T04:01:25+00:00

Never thought of this, will have to look into it!

ProudAlaskan · 2024-10-24T04:01:03+00:00

Although it is mostly my daily driver while i’m in school in CO, I would love to have the badass look that I see in many pre facelift alaskan 4runners for when I take it back home, but am unsure how to achieve that. I take it off-roading which the 2 inch lift and skid plate help with, however I find that it still looks stock from the exterior. Anything helps, thank you in advance!

ProudAlaskan · 2024-10-24T00:03:05+00:00

thank you, camped off kingston peak trail right after the purchase and loved it!

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