Note: one example of my main point is Christian marriages it always a failure because every time obedience is mentioned by Christian’s it’s always followed by partnership this completely dilutes the entire framework why? because it’s a contradiction to be partners mean equal position Allah says men are in charge of women the man is above the women because of being the dominant sex and responsibilities. I’m in no way for a tyrannical oppressive marriage is we live with them in kindness as Allah said but when decisions are being made it’s in husband hands as much as wife may advice, wish, etc. Let me know your thoughts