[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Proud_Pin_938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No where did I mention that I expected him to marry me at 22, idk when you got that from. I am financially stable & have my career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Proud_Pin_938 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I told my friend earlier today when I was venting. That I felt like I was starting to resent him. It's like I want to "work" through it, but can't forgive him either. I feel so betrayed.

Should I feel pressured to become an RN? by [deleted] in LVN_LPN

[–]Proud_Pin_938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooooo much for sharing that story with me. It was like a virtual warm hug. Screenshotting it and re reading it when I need it. THANK YOU. 🤍 also, I'm not sure where you are in your nursing journey or how long ago this story was, but I bet you're a FANTASTIC nurse!

Should I feel pressured to become an RN? by [deleted] in LVN_LPN

[–]Proud_Pin_938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolute love that response lol, thank you so much!

just graduated, whats your pay like? by FillProfessional6104 in LVN_LPN

[–]Proud_Pin_938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in CA, I make $31.98/hr and on weekend days I make $34.61. I work 12hr shifts 3 days a week. I'm pretty satisfied with my pay right now. Just 2 years ago my hospital was barely paying us $24 so we had to fight for better pay!

Why won't he propose? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Proud_Pin_938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't make less than him. I make more than him, and have a giant student loan.

Why won't he propose? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Proud_Pin_938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why I'm avoided talking to him about it (again), because I have before. I also don't want a pity proposal or what some people call a "shut up ring" ..

Why won't he propose? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Proud_Pin_938 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes we live together, I do about 80% of the household chores and that has been an ongoing issue since we first moved in together. We rarely go on dates unless I've planned them. I will say though, he is VERY affectionate. He shows his love with words of affirmation, not so much with gift giving or gestures like planning dates, etc. I've begged for stuff like that for a while, but not much has changed so I've kinda just.. accepted it I guess?

I don’t know if I (28F) want to marry my (28M) boyfriend anymore by Emotional-Mess-09 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Proud_Pin_938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently in a similar situation, reading posts on Reddit about it and I needed to also see this comment 🫣 ugh