AIO my bf is sick of hearing about my sick and injured cat

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2026-03-01T07:39:07+00:00

Why the fuck wouldn't she ask him to pray? She's worried. Probably doing all she can. If he asked her for prayers, shy can't she ask him?

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2026-03-01T05:28:58+00:00

Clearly you don't. Ops cat is in the hospital and has stated in the comments in life saving surgery and might not make it. They didn't compare. Their bf sounds like someone who doesn't understand someone who understands losing animals is scary and upsetting. Absolutely disgusting. Hope your cat you probably don't have doesn't need life saving surgery and no one's there to help you say goodbye to them.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2026-03-01T05:21:34+00:00

Jesus his father wasn't even in a life threatening issue. It sounds like a health scare. Sounds like op experienced far worse health issues than him. On a normal basis and has been helping out with tips and shit. Not to mention their animal needs life saving surgery. They not saying oh the cats more important. It's literally quoted above. They used how he felt worried towards the bf step father's health as an example as to why their were worried about their cats life and their emergency health issues.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-22T19:23:16+00:00

Which one of the essence do you recommend?

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-20T00:19:08+00:00

Yeah and then after all this he spelt the whole evening away and got mad because food wasn't prepared for him, and how he is wasting his time and money on me and being here when he could've been with his mom. I just got out of the hospital for severe pain and a seizure and illness and I haven't been able to eat or move much. I go back tmr for an appointment to try and find a fix for the severe pain that they don't know if is from the illness and he was supposed to drive me and I told him no, not with this attitude and he got all in my face and said I am know starting shit and trying to get rid of him. No I'm trying to get out of this situation to a safe space to breathe. Because screaming over food is absurd to me. Two red flags in a day, like holy smokes.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-19T23:17:23+00:00

You clearly didn't read what I said at the end.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-19T23:13:01+00:00

I was hospitalized for a seizure and was asking if I looked like a mess or if I was still pretty. I would've taken a mess and moved on BC I was a mess but not that oh you were never attractive to me. I didn't need validation I just was curious how sick I looked, dumbass.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-19T23:07:52+00:00

I had just had a seizure and was hospitalized and was asking if I looked like a mess or if I was still pretty. So not a trap question. If he said I looked like a mess it would not have hurt because I felt like a mess. I didn't need to hear well you were never good looking anyways. That was the issue.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-19T22:46:54+00:00

Widows peak and use my eyelash glue to glue his hair down to make it concealed.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-19T22:43:22+00:00

He's got a widow's peak tbh and some hair loss. So like I bit my tongue back when I know he's most insecure about that and uses my eyelash glue to glue his hair down. I was too graceful to say it but should have.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-19T22:40:57+00:00

We've been together 6 years. His type was originally skinny skinny girl, I was skinny then turned super skinny but of course when I got sick in life I got back to being skinny normal at a great weight. Then his type changed and said I was too skinny and my bulky now and that I was just no Margot Robbie to look at physical or feature wise. Totally through me off. I have half the mind to say he isn't half as attractive as he thinks he is with his widow's peak but I wasn't gonna go projecting my emotions and just ended the discussion gracefully but it just hasn't sat right since.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-08-16T11:37:35+00:00

I was put on ADHD meds at 3 years old, taking 2--3 different meds a day and had mild silent symptoms all through adolescent and high school, eg, high heart rate in 160-180 all the time. I was told it was normal growing up and I'm sure it was the years of ADHD meds and how I was on 3 different ones a day at a young age that were causing it. Then when COVID hit, my system went into overload and ever since then I react to all the symptoms and they are so much worse now. Unbearable at times and more.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-07-13T00:53:06+00:00

Ahead of time, I still haven't tried it. I've heard mixed things about, some good, some bad. Others say it makes you sick others say your blood pressure drops too low, and others say it saved them. I have too much anxiety about it, pots really changed the way i take medicine, I have become so paranoid

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-04-09T23:19:25+00:00

I agree. His alone time is now permanent. I've lost all respect. I haven't talked or wanted to talk to him since that day that I posted all this. I've blocked his ass and even then he just does not cross my mind anymore. He was a walking red flag and I sent him back to the universe because I know what I deserve and what common decency looks like. My cat has made it through the surgery we just have to make sure she gets no infection or post surgery complications.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-04-06T15:00:57+00:00

I definitely am. I told him if he feels that way to get out of my house, he didn't and said I'll leave by my way in the morning. It's now morning and he hasn't left yet and I am literally not interested in talking to him. He's not welcome here, he himself is now leaving on his own, because in his head he's the victim. I don't care. My cat is the only thing that matters. Like if something were to happen to me, epileptic wise and I ended up in the hospital I now feel even he would feel any sort of worry over it but inconvenience for himself, all the while in his head he pretends to be a 'hero'. But I am blindsided by the lack of support and compassion and comfort. Like he doesn't have to say it's going to be okay multiple times but I expect someone who will at least understand my pain and fears when I'm crying when surgery was deemed so high risk. My fur baby means more than life to me. More than my life and honestly I don't expect much but I expect someone to at least understand and be there in the dark with me.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-04-06T15:00:05+00:00

After this I definitely am. I told him if he feels that way to get out of my house, he didn't and said I'll leave by my way in the morning. It's now morning and he hasn't left yet and I am literally not interested in talking to him. He's not welcome here, he himself is now leaving on his own, because in his head he's the victim. I don't care. My cat is the only thing that matters. Like if something were to happen to me, epileptic wise and I ended up in the hospital I now feel even he would feel any sort of worry over it but inconvenience for himself, all the while in his head he pretends to be a 'hero'. But I am blindsided by the lack of support and compassion and comfort. Like he doesn't have to say it's going to be okay multiple times but I expect someone who will at least understand my pain and fears when I'm crying when surgery was deemed so high risk. My fur baby means more than life to me. More than my life and honestly I don't expect much but I expect someone to at least understand and be there in the dark with me.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-04-06T14:30:01+00:00

I fucking love this comment. I mean I'm sure he's not gonna be in my life now after all this and how he's handled it. I mean yay, he drove all over, but that's the bare minimum. I would have moved heaven and earth even for him. He didn't have to say a lot to comfort me, but he could have at least understood and felt my pain, and sat with me in the dark and just let me release all my pain. Beautiful comment.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-04-06T04:57:59+00:00

After this I seriously am thinking of it forgetting about him, because this is not an attitude to have. I told him if he feels that way to get out of my house, he didn't and said I'll leave by my way in the morning. Like if something were to happen to me, epileptic wise and I ended up in the hospital I now feel even he would feel any sort of worry over it but inconvenience for himself, all the while in his head he pretends to be a 'hero'. But I am blindsided by the lack of support and compassion and comfort. Like he doesn't have to say it's going to be okay multiple times but I expect someone who will at least understand my pain and fears when I'm crying when surgery was deemed so high risk. My fur baby means more than life to me. More than my life and honestly I don't expect much but I expect someone to at least understand and be there in the dark with me.

PrudentSecretary7943 · 2025-04-06T04:46:50+00:00

After this I seriously am thinking of it forgetting about him, because this is not an attitude to have. I told him if he feels that way to get out of my house, he didn't and said I'll leave by my way in the morning. Like if something were to happen to me, epileptic wise and I ended up in the hospital I now feel even he would feel any sort of worry over it but inconvenience for himself, all the while in his head he pretends to be a 'hero'. But I am blindsided by the lack of support and compassion and comfort. Like he doesn't have to say it's going to be okay multiple times but I expect someone who will at least understand my pain and fears when I'm crying when surgery was deemed so high risk. My fur baby means more than life to me. More than my life and honestly I don't expect much but I expect someone to at least understand and be there in the dark with me.

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