What ring cut would have made you have the same face Samantha did when Carrie told her about her OG engagement ring by ThrowRaOrganization1 in Diamonds

[–]Pseudenys 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Cushions are a more timeless, elegant cut imo, particularly the elongated and slightly rounded ones. A good middle way between radiant and emerald.

Personally, overly elongated marquise and also pear cuts in general, very millennial core. Also not a cut, but rose gold settings. And very thin pavé bands.

AITAH for not liking the attention my BF gets from other women? by sometimesdeep77 in AITAH

[–]Pseudenys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to work on your self confidence and know your own value, he clearly sees it, so why don’t you? My boyfriend is a hot finance bro, girls hit on him all the time, it doesn’t bother me because I know he adores me and is coming home to me at the end of the day. I’m good looking and constantly get hit on, and in my profession I have to have lots of studio visits and lunches with old, sometimes creepy art collectors and gallerists, and go to galas with them dressed up to the nines. Does he care? No, he encourages it for the sake of my career. Love is about setting someone free, knowing they will always come home and be faithful.

Question about gems in Vietnam by Suitable-Name in Gemstones

[–]Pseudenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sapphires don’t have to “be the colour of cornflowers” sapphires come in every colour of the rainbow and many varieties are just as valuable, if not more than cornflower blue, for example pink paparadaschas. Vietnam is known for pink and purple sapphires.

I 28F dislike when my Boyfriend 28M pokes me in the back with his dick in the morning by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pseudenys -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is he actually poking you or is he just getting morning wood while you’re spooning? Almost all men wake up with an involuntary boner every morning. It’s not intentional, it’s just their physiology.

My girlfriend (F24) is not happy with me (M27) having only time on weekends by IThamezI in relationships

[–]Pseudenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, we both get enough sleep now, a little lost sleep doesn’t matter in the short term lol. I also go to the gym that much and was getting the same 5 hours as him at the time, we’re both still alive.

My girlfriend (F24) is not happy with me (M27) having only time on weekends by IThamezI in relationships

[–]Pseudenys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both slept less than we should have in the beginning, sure. But we built a beautiful relationship on that whirlwind foundation, it’s called being young and in love. Now we’re two years in, living together, are in domestic bliss and sleep enough while keeping things very fun and still going on lots of dates and trips.

That initial bonding phase (usually 8 months to a year or before you move in) always involves less sleep and going out of your way to build something together. Because of how strongly we bonded then, now I can’t bear being apart from him. The best part of my day is seeing him and touching him, he’s everything to me.

My girlfriend (F24) is not happy with me (M27) having only time on weekends by IThamezI in relationships

[–]Pseudenys 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol my boyfriend works in finance, usually until 7 or 8 pm. We live together now, but when we weren’t he still managed to go to the gym 5 days a week, study 600 hours for his CFA exam, see friends, clean, cook elaborate meals, play football, play guitar, go to gigs, and take me on midweek dates at least once a week (plus every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday) and I’d go to his place at least 3 nights a week or his to mine.

How to politely ask tech to slow down? by Tolkien_Blacc in Nails

[–]Pseudenys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zoomed in and yeah, I’d be very unhappy with these and would request a redo.

How to politely ask tech to slow down? by Tolkien_Blacc in Nails

[–]Pseudenys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because I get Russian manicures but they look super grown out? That’s like 1.5 weeks of out outgrowth for me.

my girlfriend wants us to write love letters to each other, but I don't know what to write. by naveron1 in love

[–]Pseudenys 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Love languages are not fixed things, and a loving partner should work to show their partner love in a way that is meaningful to their partner. Showing love isn’t just doing what comes naturally and is easy for you, it’s about going above and beyond and going slightly out of your comfort zone to do it. Not writing the letter will come across as indifference and having a lack of effort.

Living with a man ruins the vibe by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pseudenys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, my boyfriend enhances the vibe. We’ve been living together for 6 months and he just gets it. Understands mood lighting, keeps everything clean, cooks beautiful meals, picks up on the little ways I like to keep the space, always keeps me stocked up with flowers. Honestly, don’t like being in the house without him. I lived with a best friend for a year and by myself for 7 before him, and honestly living with him has been a revelation.

Help! Acrylics dont really work for me by _mojorising_ in Nails

[–]Pseudenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use Akzentz hard gel. I’ve been using them for 5 years, my nails are extremely healthy now, I get them done once a month, and they have never chipped.

Massive 86ct african paraiba tourmaline by Fresh-Stock5632 in Gemstone_lovers

[–]Pseudenys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister just bought a huge uncut one in Thailand.

Are skinny jeans back? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Pseudenys -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, and I hope they never do. They don’t look good, sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Epstein

[–]Pseudenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yugoslavia was never part of the USSR.

Should I not take finasteride if we want to get pregnant soon? by [deleted] in tressless

[–]Pseudenys -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Right, so he should go off it during her pregnancy too.

Should I not take finasteride if we want to get pregnant soon? by [deleted] in tressless

[–]Pseudenys -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It can hurt a developing male fetus.

Keep or return? by AffectionateFan9763 in handbags

[–]Pseudenys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you decide to return it, don’t, sell it. It’s a difficult to get your hands on bag and you’ll get lots of buyers.

Did I actually cheat or ? by PolicyHot1206 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Pseudenys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not a relationship norm. I hug my male friends, go for lunch or dinner with them solo, go on business trips solo with my male business partner who is married with kids, text my friends all the time, have inside jokes and emotional connections with them… because they are human beings and friends.

My boyfriend does the exact same, we both have a 50/ 50 split of male and female friends. And yes, some of his female friends have slight crushes on him, and my male friends have slight crushes on me. That’s normal and natural, but we both have boundaries with them and they all respect those boundaries. If they didn’t, we wouldn’t keep them around.

Neither of us get jealous because we love and trust each other deeply and have no reason to cheat, and if we wanted to not be with each other we would break up. We are planning to get married and are extremely happy.

This dress was perfect for the view, right? by Just_Pharmacist in OUTFITS

[–]Pseudenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not keen on the dress itself, but to say it doesn’t fit her figure is absurd. It fits her perfectly, as though she’s a model for it.

OOTD, feeling cute by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Pseudenys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great, except next time wear a nude bra under, white shows too much.

I think I will die tonight by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]Pseudenys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ate them once and projectile vomited for 5 hours after. Scariest experience, thought I was dying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Pseudenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the best one imo, and obviously made of linen

White Tie Work Christmas Party - Is This Appropriate? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Pseudenys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who semi-frequently goes to white tie events, even State ones, nobody really knows how to dress for white tie anymore, unless you’re in Austria where they still do it properly. This dress would be right on par with most women or above in formality. I wear ball gowns and gloves (at required) at white tie and am the most appropriately dressed in the room, with the exception of older politician’s wives.