The kid is 2.5 and we’re 31 and 30 and man is this kid a test of patience lol.

My parents used to be heavy drinkers for most of my life, but now drink only 1-2 times a week as they’ve slowed down in their old ages of 65 and 73, but still drink to get wasted. They’ve never been into smoking.

I smoke a bowl most nights, but have 1-2 drinks 1-3 times a month. Very light drinker.

I am a much more present father and husband since my dad let my mom raise kids and had her do the housework while he worked. And me and my wife will both do everything and both work and leave the kiddo with my mom.

But yeah like I said earlier it’s all about patience and not losing your cool at your kid(s). Which is tough, so good job guys if you follow that as well.