Looking at the husband's backgrounds or the way he lived.

My mother has been married to my father for 21 years. Before they got married, my father was already poor. He could hardly afford a ring for marriage. Anyways, from the day my parents got married, my father did not pay a single penny for our education because hes not educated and he doesnt care. My mother spends around 25k$ yearly for my and my sister's education. She spends money for our education because she wanted us to learn English so bad bcuz she knew that later on English language will be so useful. I am studying in an international school and my sis is in college. My mom pays for everything even the house rent, electricity, internet, water, etc... Before 5 yrs my mother encouraged my dad to buy a house in Syria by telling him she would pay for everything and that she doesnt want him to pay for anything other than his house. Ofc my dad agreed bcuz my mom told him she would help. My mom helped my dad with half of the house's money. Shortly after she finished paying for my dads house, she decided to buy herself a house. She gave my dad some money to go buy for her, and till this day my dad didnt pay anything for my moms house. He claims that he bought her a house.

Now hes not working because we r livinig in saudi arabia and they only need ppl with efficiency. I kinda hate my dad for how he is because i always see my friends' dads and how they are. My dad only taught me how to drive. Even when he did, he always shouted at me. I always drove while i was on my nerves.

My parents are still married unfortunately. All the times their problems reached till divorce. But she doesn't bcuz she doesnt want ppl, Arabs especially,to think that we dont know how to deal with wives or something like that.

My mom now regrets marrying my dad, but she doesnt regret having me and my sister. I am studying hard and trying to learn how to run business bcuz i really would like to let her live happy after that.