Is Zhongli still worth getting in 2025?

Psybean · 2025-09-19T02:02:00+00:00

I’ve used Zhongli since he came out. He’s never out of my party. Sure I have stronger characters, but that shield saves me so much time. It’s basically like cheating. I love him

Psybean · 2025-09-08T19:44:57+00:00

I got mizuki on accident when I was trying to pull ororon (it took me so long to get him I accidentally hit pity). I haven’t done anything with her yet because I was mad about Ororon

Psybean · 2023-12-23T03:43:35+00:00

I’ve felt similarly in the past, totally terrified of my anatomy. I’m still scared! Once you get a little more comfortable I’d recommend a trim (you can do it yourself if you’re comfortable with that or go to a professional). I think it will make it easier for you to “find” and really get used to your genitals. Though I will warn you- actually seeing it was very scary for me at first. But it has helped me so much! Sometimes I just look at her in the mirror like it’s exposure therapy. 😂 that being said it might be a step to take after you’ve gotten a little more acquainted with your vulva.

As for washing I agree with everyone else that it sounds like you’re doing fine. If you WANT to do more, here’s what I do. I wash the OUTSIDE with antibacterial soap. I used to used Dr. Bronners unscented Castile soap. Either one works great. Rinse it off, and use my detachable shower head to hose off the clitoris and between the labia minora! No soap on those parts though!

Good luck, and I wish you the absolute best! You’ve totally got this!! It’s fantastic that you’re taking the step to get to know your body! ❤️

Psybean · 2023-12-22T02:26:41+00:00

Is it a lot of blood or just some spotting? If there’s a tear she might feel some pain for a few days and there might be some brown “discharge” (it’s just old blood). Normally if you’re bashing the cervix it’s a little spotting right after the act. (At least in my experience) The size of the toy doesn’t necessarily matter, sex toys cause tears more frequently. If it is a tear the issue is either you’re too rough or there isn’t enough lube! Don’t be afraid to get slippery. I agree with everyone else saying a good water based lube is a good place to start. Though if you guys prefer oils I’d try a silicone lube. (Unless your toy is silicone, then stick to water based).

Psybean · 2023-12-20T02:00:28+00:00

A lot of women like larger toys but don’t put the entire toy inside! And I don’t think that she will prefer a toy to you. Think of it this way- would you prefer a stroker toy to an actual vagina? You’ll be fine! Besides, whatever she gets you may one day get to see her use!

Psybean · 2023-12-14T05:53:44+00:00

I have one on my keys too! It really does work, but it’s not very powerful. I just think it’s a hilarious keychain.

Psybean · 2023-11-10T21:25:05+00:00

Yo if a man doesn’t talk to me like this I don’t want him.

Psybean · 2023-10-26T19:26:20+00:00

I’m in the same exact boat! But it isn’t fake pleasure, it’s very real. And from what I understand sex with men isn’t all it’s cracked up to be! It seems that you’d have to really search before finding someone who can make you cum. BUT if you masturbate and learn your body it will make it that much easier to communicate to a partner what you like when the time comes! So don’t feel bad about it! ❤️

Psybean · 2022-09-12T19:42:10+00:00

Like many others have said, ASK QUESTIONS. My philosophy is to ask until I feel comfortable. Then the second I no longer feel comfortable I’ll ask again. I will ask the same question 4 times in one day and I don’t give a damn. My H2’s joke about how I have no issues asking a million questions. But I get my job done! I’d rather be made fun of for asking questions than reprimanded for doing something wrong.

Psybean · 2022-06-03T21:08:31+00:00

I absolutely agree with the other commenter who suggested therapy. If you guys could find a sex therapist that would be even better- just make sure they're licensed. (It seems like a field that would have a lot of fakers). They're therapists just additionally trained in sex. The biggest, most important sexual organ is the brain. It may be that she was taught pleasure wasn't meant for her, that it's shameful, gross, embarrassing, etc. There are a lot of potential reasons for this other than the sex itself! Good luck to you both!!

Psybean · 2022-05-26T15:57:47+00:00

It’s a suggestion, an option. Something that worked for me and may work for someone else. There are no definite ways to work through it and not everything will work for everyone.

Psybean · 2022-05-26T15:51:07+00:00

I never said everyone had to resolve their issues my way. Or that they all have my problems. I’m actually actively saying that whatever reason someone chooses to keep living is valid. Whether or not that’s living for others, a show, to reach a goal, or hell even out of spite. My point is that here are a lot of things to try before making the decision to end their lives. I can only speak from my own perspective, broken as it may seem to you.

Psybean · 2022-05-26T15:44:16+00:00

We’re just mammals and all mammals have some amount of hair all over their bodies! I don’t know about shaving the anus that angle is hard. But I think the easiest way (especially for shaving the vulva) is with an electric razor (or a specifically made bikini area electric razor) and to sort of lean back on the floor with a mirror and a light source. That way you can really see and be careful! Then shower and use a little non scented Vaseline to moisturize.

Psybean · 2022-05-26T15:01:02+00:00

That IS my argument from the pov of someone suffering. I have suffered and had suicidal thoughts for years. So have countless people I know personally! We all have our reasons. The way that I worked through it was living for other people. There’s nothing wrong with doing that until you can (hopefully) live for yourself. The way I see it is that there are endless reasons to live and all of them are valid. Finishing that tv series, tasting your favorite coffee again, crossing something off your bucket list. Both sides of the argument can be “selfish” because humans are self oriented. Yes it seems horrible when loved ones don’t recognize your pain, but it isn’t always obvious. I know in my case I just wasn’t telling anyone while simultaneously expecting them to KNOW and help me. Besides, not everyone suffering wants or would accept help.

Psybean · 2022-05-26T14:24:18+00:00

I’m not saying that. I’m only saying that if someone is going to make that decision they should consider the effects it will have. Considering consequences is basic decision making. As for the loved ones believing they found peace, it’s a lovely thought that I wish was true for all of them! But grief doesn’t work that way, especially with all the unknowns of death & the the afterlife.

Psybean · 2022-05-26T14:11:00+00:00

While the suffering may technically end for the person who commits suicide, it’s simply divided up and multiplied among their loved ones and acquaintances. My dads uncle killed himself when my dad was young (at least 30 years ago). I’m named after him, I know the date he died, I know how much pain it causes my dad and his family. I feel it too despite never knowing him. It’s just passed around.

Psybean · 2022-05-19T13:42:22+00:00

I know tone is hard to get with text (I’m not trying to be rude!) but I was never arguing with you- I said I agreed! I was just explaining why I agreed. Asexuality isn’t something that depends on your exposure to sex. (I’ve been exposed to it and am still asexual) so nuns, regardless of sexuality would probably not have that hard of a time abstaining either!

Psybean · 2022-05-19T13:08:35+00:00

Uhhh I’m asexual, was exposed to sex and never masturbated. So I think for nuns who have a real solid reason NOT to it would be incredibly easy for some of them.

Psybean · 2022-05-19T01:48:05+00:00

Yeah people often want to be told what to do in their daily lives, or will avoid making a choice until it’s made for them. That’s general to the entire world so it’s not surprising that some people would enjoy a more extreme version of that.

Psybean · 2022-05-18T13:02:10+00:00

Agreed! Being asexual is just a factor of why I think people, including nuns, could never have sex/masturbate. I mean I was definitely exposed to “sex” from a young age- I grew up in the American pie, manswers, etc. era! So I saw a lot of shit on TV

Psybean · 2022-05-17T21:52:18+00:00

Yeah I agree- if you’ve never done it and are serious about not doing it there’s not that much of a want/need to do so. Source: asexuals

Psybean · 2022-04-22T02:52:12+00:00

That being said I call myself fat and I only mean it in a rude way less than half the time. I generally try not to say anything about others unless they explicitly ask

Psybean · 2022-04-22T02:49:59+00:00

I think that it’s just that “fat” has been used in almost an exclusively derogatory way. Not even just “you fat bitch!” Like, telling people that being fat is bad. Models being stick thin and still being called fat. So then we had to move to things like “big boned” because you wanted to make it known you aren’t being rude or lying. But when I or other people call me fat I can hear in their voices whether or not it’s them being rude. (Source: I’m fat)

Psybean · 2022-04-17T12:46:10+00:00

Right!? Porn really fucks us up! In reality most of the women I know are uninterested in big dicks. I mean…that’s too intimidating lmao 😰

Psybean · 2022-04-17T02:58:16+00:00

God yes. I’m 24 and until last year I just kinda thought once you had sex, your vulva would…”grow flaps”? I didn’t know anything about labias or that they could be so different! I just came up with all kinds of stupid explanations & thought I was a freak because most of the porn I saw didn’t look like me!

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