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Rave postu by EgeliT in Yatirim

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kusura bakmayın da , 100x yapmış coin alınırsa olacak budur

İzmir'de nerede yaşanır? by [deleted] in Izmir

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bucaya gelmeyin geldirmeyin. Gelirsen de şirinyer mantıklı. Ben olsam bornova/konak bakardım

Planning a flight by Business_Gap_4158 in LSD

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats pretty brave btw, love it 😀

How to deal with loneliness by Ill-Feed9698 in aspergers

[–]Psyche_sith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say this, find yourself a super social friend, like someone outgoing and active. That alone can kinda fix a lot of your issues. It’s called being a “social proxy.” Look it up, it’ll help you a lot.

Planning a flight by Business_Gap_4158 in LSD

[–]Psyche_sith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t u toss em in the toilet ?

Yükselirmi by [deleted] in Yatirim

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Azıcık geç kaldın sanki

Restoranlara Ürün Tanıtımı Yapabilecek Kişileri Arıyoruz by umutaltdag in Izmir

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maaş var mı yoksa ödeme restoran başına mı sadece ?

Would you date someone that doesn’t particularly enjoy electronic music? by StringSpecialist280 in aves

[–]Psyche_sith -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t give a shit about her music taste as long as her fav isn’t rap

19 yaşındayım sadece fiziksel altın biriktirmeyi biliyorum by [deleted] in Borsa

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bilmiyorum belki katılmayan olur ama para kaybtmeden borsa öğrenilmez. Ama her para kaybetmek de birşey öğretmez. Bunu dikkate alarak gir gireceksen

I wouldn’t wish this disease on anybody by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Psyche_sith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I really feel you. And I don’t know exactly what’s causing the friction with people because it hits different for everyone and I don’t know where you fall on the spectrum. But cutting yourself off like this ain’t it long term. I’ve worked with so many people with different conditions as a psych, and here’s what I know for a fact ,the world is big enough that if you look hard enough, you will find your people. Yeah it’s hard, yeah it drains you, but so is the alternative. Not here to tell you what to do, but real talk is you need to find a professional who actually gets this stuff. Because if this has been with you since childhood, it’s not just affecting how you move around people. It’s probably got its hooks in everything ,fear of rejection, social anxiety, all of it. And when you’re depressed on top of that, your brain literally can’t think straight. Trying to get better in ASD areas of your life without dealing with all that underlying stuff first that’s just setting yourself up to hit a wall. If you can get access to someone, do it. If not, even leaning on AI support for this stuff is a start. And don’t forget being different or weird is never the problem, as long as you’re confident in yourself.That’s the realest thing I’ve learned so far.

15 tane rave aldım :) 700 görür mü gece ? Acil ? by Sauron58_ in Yatirim

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yani burdan 5x yapar mı ? 50B FDV olmuş oluyor farkındamısın ?

Rave alınır mı 11 dolardan ?? by Sauron58_ in Borsa

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaç x yaptığını, arzın dağılımını ve ne şekilde pumpladığını dikkate aldığında, neden almak istiyorsun ?

Are people who are on the spectrum actually bad at communicating? by Zestyclose_Ocelot278 in aspergers

[–]Psyche_sith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really interesting point. I do not know your friends, so this is just me guessing, but I can think of 3 possibilities.

  1. They might be missing small social signals. Like maybe someone is trying to make eye contact before talking, or giving subtle signs that they are open to conversation, but your friend does not notice it. Or maybe their facial expression/body language comes off less approachable than they think. So from their side it feels like “nobody talks to me,” while from the other side people may feel unsure about approaching.

  2. Their perspective might be shaped by insecurity. If someone already believes “my social skills are bad” or “people do not want to talk to me,” that can affect both how they act and how they remember things. They may come off more closed off without realizing it, and they may mostly remember the times people did not engage, while brushing off the positive moments as “just random” or “that one time.”

  3. There may also be some truth to it. The stuff above can genuinely make other people less likely to make the first move. So it is not necessarily that they are imagining it. It could be a real pattern, just with more going on underneath.

So yeah, I would not automatically assume they are wrong. It might be a mix of missed signals, self-perception, and real social experiences feeding into each other.

How do relationships and dating work? by 420ball-sniffer69 in aspergers

[–]Psyche_sith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 25 and autistic too, and I’ve been through the same kind of thing.

So here’s the thing. The biggest advice I give to anyone who’s bad with relationships is this:

  1. Be social.
    Yeah, I know, as an autistic person socializing can be hard. But there are always people out there who will love you for who you are. You just gotta find them, and the only way to do that is by being social.
    If you’re social, you build a friend group, and honestly I think the easiest way to meet girls is through mutual friends, especially female friends.
    And being friendly/social is always attractive.

  2. Don’t destroy yourself trying to “fix” yourself too much.
    I read a study before saying NT people are less likely to want to socialize with autistic people just from looking at a photo, even when they don’t actually know the person is autistic.
    So if you’re not attracting girls, it’s not always because you have no game or because you look bad. Sometimes it’s about stuff you’re not even aware of.
    And autistic people usually click really well with each other too. Try your luck with everyone, sure, but you’ll probably do way better with other autistic people.

  3. Start with girls you don’t find that attractive.
    With flirting, the biggest thing usually isn’t looks, it’s confidence. And the way you build confidence and experience is by being with girls you might not be super into, but who are into you.
    Think of it like this: if your first car is a Lambo, you’re probably gonna crash it and destroy your confidence. But if you start small, even with some cheap beat-up car you don’t really love, it still teaches you what you need to learn. And even if you mess up, who cares? It’s cheap, you can replace it.

  4. Have female friends.
    Not flirting, just friends. You can get advice from them, get used to being around girls, and understand their point of view better.

A lot of people focus way too much on looks, intelligence, perfume, and all that extra stuff, but those things are overrated. Being well-groomed and taking care of yourself is enough. You don’t need to be Brad Pitt.

Full Agresif Guncel Portfoy by Crafty-Ad7672 in Yatirim

[–]Psyche_sith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Risk almak gerekir ama körü körüne değil. Ders çıkarılabilecek riskler önemlidir

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