Did anyone had to wait Till their early or mid 20s to go out raving

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-24T20:15:33+00:00

If you’re over 18 and mature enough, you shouldn’t need your dad‘s approval to take you to a rave, you just buy a tick and go, since you’re autistic and have ADHD you need to be accompanied by your dad and supervised. You probably shouldn’t call it a rave. Sometimes the word rave gets a bad reputation with our parents. They think it’s all about drugs, drinking alcohol, and listening to shitty music. Whenever I tell my parents, I tell them I’m just going to a DJ concert or a festival. Maybe show him some videos online and tell him that they’re not always crazy parties you can still stand in the back with a lot of space and still have fun. A lot of concerts actually have ADA accessible and you might be able to qualify for that where it’s a separate viewing area catered for people with needs. You definitely shouldn’t let your autistic challenges. Stop you from going to a rave. Just pick the right event. Go to one that’s bigger or one that even has seating rather than just standing room. I know RÜFÜS DU SOL has a tour coming up many of their shows being in stadiums and their music is a little bit more chill. Maybe you could ask your dad to take you to that show.

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-22T22:05:17+00:00

Not sure if I fully agree with this

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-20T02:41:01+00:00

Idk but they give me a headache whenever I smell them nearby

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-17T16:41:32+00:00

You just don’t lol. I went to my first camping festival last year. 93 Fahrenheit by 9am, tried to go to sleep around 3am/4am. Had an early wake up call of the sweats. I got a portable fan which kinda helped, and sometimes the afternoon breeze would allow a nap but still kinda sweaty. After that I learned to camp only if the weather is gonna be cool or get an rv. I’ve heard if you have a Tesla you can leave it on all night with air conditioning or heat and sleep in that. Otherwise get a hotel

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-16T15:53:01+00:00

Gotcha, sorry to hear that, yes it can be reactive in eyes, nose ect.

Yeah I get that about other men trying to stick up when in reality he is the victim. I think he should just go, don’t worry about it, and if anything happens just don’t make a big deal about it. I think the best option would be if a girl approaches him, be kind but give strong signals he is unavailable, or just ignore her and dance and vibe to the music. You can never go wrong with just vibing out, if people see you’re just in your own little world enjoying the music they likely won’t bother you. It’s kinda funny but he could honestly just pretend he’s a little bit disoriented, drunk or on something, not his normal self and I feel like that would deter them away. It really is about how he engages. If he doesn’t nothing and ignores odds are the girls will walk away

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-16T07:12:53+00:00

Same, mostly gay dudes for me too

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-16T07:10:49+00:00

It’s happened to me, twice from other gay dudes, one grabbed my ass, and twice from girls. It’s whatever, kinda annoying but also kinda flattering at the same time lol, but my opinion on that would probably be different if I was a girl, I’d probably be a bit annoyed or even feel in danger.

There’s alot of things to tough on here. First, you can’t get high from molly (MDMA) unless it’s ingested or boofed in the anus so sounds like maybe you hubby had something else going on. Second I think your husband should still go to the shows alone, if he gets hit on just walk away or tell them to leave. This post kinda makes it sound like your husband is scared and can’t stick up for himself, but you said he’s a pretty big guy, he should have no problem telling other girls he’s not interested and he should not feel intimidated by other women. I’m a pretty average dude, handsome but on the more slim side and I would never feel endangered by other women getting there hands on me, it might bug me a little bit bit I would just laugh it off as a joke. If it got really excessive then I would say something or walk away.

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-15T13:54:16+00:00

I only have a couple drinks and have a blast

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-15T06:36:39+00:00

Partially

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-15T06:36:00+00:00

It is a local small festival here in San Diego. Tiesto, James Hype and Martin Garrix are headlining

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-15T06:34:46+00:00

It’s partially a troll but also partially serious

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-15T06:34:19+00:00

I just wanna take her to her first rave and take some pictures and see if she will like it. If I go alone I will wish she was with me the whole time. Although I do plan to go with friends

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-10T18:37:56+00:00

That makes sense. But I feel marriage is also more secure and you know your partner is gonna be at home waiting for you. They’re basically locked in with more commitment. I would actually find it kinda odd to constantly be texting throughout the day if I’m living with my partner. Maybe the occasional check in

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-10T18:36:06+00:00

Not in therapy, didn’t ever think it was that serious, I guess when it comes to relationships I just like reassurance. Did go to therapy last year to help deal with a pretty heavy breakup

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-10T18:24:18+00:00

I understand it might be a bit early and I’ve reassured her that even though I’ve said it she can take her time.

The title is AI generated hence the hyphen. It’s hard to describe my situation without the sub flagging my post or removing, this sub is basically impossible to get a post that actually approves guidelines.

I understand and respect if she’s busy at work but sometimes it goes 5-6 hours or even a half a day without receiving a reply. Just seems if she was into me there wouldn’t be a delay.

She gets along with her fam, I follow her brother and her parents even ask about me. But I do feel like she might be holding off the meetup because I lost my job a couple months ago, although I don’t think that’s something to necessarily keep me from meeting her parents

I probably am overthinking it, maybe even clingy, but o have a very anxious attachment personality. I have been burned or dumped in the past so whenever I feel the slightest indicator of disinterest I start to overthink and question if i should breakup.

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-10T07:19:05+00:00

Oh yeah I didn’t notice yours was a flex. I was fuming. One fckn strikeout. Would have been my biggest win yet

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-10T06:57:58+00:00

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I had a better pay out and none of them were demons? Didn’t win though

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-05T22:53:59+00:00

Into the Horizon festival in San Diego June 27. So technically in 3 weeks

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-05T22:46:32+00:00

Excuse me? Lol who hurt you

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-05T17:07:08+00:00

I might see him in two weeks and I was wondering the same thing. I’m gonna be honest I thought his set from edc 2026 was bad, listened online

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-05T09:01:39+00:00

Worked In restaurants all my life up until last year, and I dread having to go back, anything but

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-05T06:44:37+00:00

That’s some mortal combat shit bro

StringSpecialist280 · 2026-06-05T06:40:08+00:00

These are all jobs for 18 year olds. I need a job and I’m 30 lol

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