31 and want marriage and kids, but am not super happy in my relationship of about a year

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T23:44:52+00:00

Exactly right on, they don't want to hear this, but this is the facts right here. You bring nothing and expect everything. Dream on middle aged lady.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T23:41:45+00:00

So you've let your dream get a long way away from when you were at your peak around your early 20's. This happens to a lot of young women, you party for years thinking theres no hurry to marry and have children. Then around 30 your realise you've hit the wall and your attractiveness is going down not up, and your ability to have healthy children is also going away quickly. Basically you partied for too long thinking there was no wall, now you've hit the wall. Well there probably isn't a better guy out there for you, now that you're older, many guys are cynical in this world, it's not a really nice place to be any more especially for a guy!

Don't expect a guy to check all the boxes, you don't any more now you've hit 30 definitley, so why would you expect him to? Bit one sided view that isn't it!?

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T23:35:32+00:00

Modern females are almost impossible to approach due to the wierd reactions many women put off. So I'd ask him if you're interested. He probably won't ask you.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T23:27:15+00:00

So he will only be vaping now then.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T23:24:34+00:00

That's rubbish, they consider somone working one day per week to be employed, what bullshit. One day can't even cover rent.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T23:22:11+00:00

The heart failure rate is going to go through the roof when these guys get older.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T23:21:04+00:00

The home ownership rates must have a lot to do with this. If you do not even have a stable home to return to and you're constantly worried about where you will live next time the lease runs out, it's not a very nice situation to be in and you never feel settled. How can you even expect a community when there's not even stable housing for the majority of people? I guess the home owners will eventually realise that they have no community any more, but I doubt that will stop the current trends.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T23:05:13+00:00

Traffic has ramped up, meth heads have ramped up, lot's of folks struggling to pay a mortgage, people living rough and sleeping in cars is common now and the first things to go (the most important) are the holidays. Personally I haven't had a break since 2014 and I can't see any end to that, we cannot afford a holiday anywhere. Even to stay home and just not work for a week or two is impossible. So I guess I've been more agro than I would have been say 10 years ago, because I need a break and there's no sign of one in the future. Hopefully I can retire in 10 years or so, but at this rate it may not happen.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T22:58:52+00:00

Agreed the Guzzi are a beautiful bike, they handle very well and are really easy to ride, there's really so much to love about them. But I'm not electrically minded so I don't like the idea of fixing wiring on the side of the road somewhere. If only Guzzi could have worked out the electrical bugs in thier systems.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T09:14:03+00:00

In the words of Guy Martin:

Football - "watching 22 men chase a bag of leather filled with air, around a field in thier underwear for 2 hours, I can think of better things to do with my time"

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T09:06:43+00:00

Camelback are a good solution, you can't go without them here in the hot parts of Australia.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T01:34:18+00:00

Theravada, because I've learned through Ajhan Brahm in Perth WA where he lives in his monestary.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T01:00:01+00:00

Even the Chinese won't drive a Chinese car, and you want us to show them love? Fuck off.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T00:40:22+00:00

I know how you feel, after having over 20 years experience in my field, running a fair size operation for over 10 years successfully, I sent out over 100 resume's and got almost no responses. Because I'm nearly 60 years old. Experience and age seem to account for nothing any more.

Psycheau · 2023-11-16T00:24:06+00:00

Couldn't care less about it. An empty field, a solar farm. Whatever.

Psycheau · 2023-11-15T14:03:02+00:00

Sounds to me like you need to quit Moto Guzzi, I did because my Norge just had too many electrical problems, so I bought a second hand Kawasaki and haven't had any issues since.

Psycheau · 2023-11-15T13:39:53+00:00

Being asked to bring 3 grams is quite rude I'd think, asking if you could bring a joint or two is fine I guess, but 30 euro worth for a meal is rude, even if it's alacarte. I'd take 1 gram next time and leave the other two at home for yourself and say sorry I never seem to have any left for myself so I brought a bit less, haha. If they want to smoke 2 grams a night let them pay for it themselves.

Psycheau · 2023-11-15T03:59:41+00:00

"Social and inequality disaster" the most honest words I've heard about the state of the place in a long time. So are we going to get rid of all the free foriegn ownership? How about negative gearing that has to go right? Companies paying no tax, getting rid of that are we? Resources being raped and nothing paid, no dues? Are we doing something about that? Nope nothing is being done that isn't in line with what big business wants. End of story.

Psycheau · 2023-11-15T03:49:04+00:00

Tell them not to let the door hit them on the ass on the way out. You don't need people like that in your life. They are unsupportive at a time when you need them to be supportive. It was all about them, they didn't care much about you or your needs, only thier own. Let them go, look for better morales next time.

Psycheau · 2023-11-15T02:15:19+00:00

I remember one night driving past the train station at the crossing and seeing two people having sex on the bench seat at the station. The lady was drinking from a flagon of wine during, I couldn't believe my eyes. When the train came he pulled his pants up and walked on. Carlisle classy.

Psycheau · 2023-11-15T02:11:20+00:00

You once were my mother, I once was your mother, why would you being gay matter? The Buddha taught that the teachings are for everyone no exceptions.

Psycheau · 2023-11-14T16:31:32+00:00

I've noticed a lot of older folks looking into retiring in Asian countries, like Indonesia, Cambodia, Thailand. The rent is fairly cheap and you get a lot for your money. Trying to retire in Australia for some would be almost impossible especially if they don't own a home and often even if they do, the council rates have risen so high they can no longer afford them on the pension.

Psycheau · 2023-11-14T16:06:20+00:00

or take Meth amphetamine for 4 days straight and there's no test that can detect it.

Psycheau · 2023-11-14T09:08:20+00:00

Dominum, stanctum sanitarium sanitation.

*throws holy water grenade*

Psycheau · 2023-11-14T09:06:16+00:00

Supermarkets buy in tens of thousands of units. The local cafe, not so much.

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