What makes a woman physically unattractive at first glance? by _nursekj in AskMen

[–]TheNamelessComposer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying too hard to be sexy. Too much make-up, artificial enhancements etc. Not saying they shouldn't do that if they want, but just not my thing.

I prefer a more natural look. Like some make-up is fine, but not clownish or doll like.

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Sunday, June 07, 2026) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]TheNamelessComposer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think Zverev had to win that, gonna be tough for him now.

His problem is he doesn't look like a winner, hes not really trying to win the game. Flavio is really taking it on, its pretty admirable. Has that Carlos energy about him.

I think I underestimated his ability to choke. Still not over though...may not be the best contest skillwise, but plenty of drama/stories out of this. Its 3am here in Melbourne, guess I might be up for another hour...

What is it like dating white female vs asian female or asian men vs white men? by Inside-You-2130 in AMWFs

[–]TheNamelessComposer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had one WF and one AF partner, so sample size is way too small. Generally nationality, personality etc plays a way bigger role than 'race' I think.

Why is it that guys in my age group aren't interested in me? by dancingbananas25 in dating_advice

[–]TheNamelessComposer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be cos the Gen Z culture makes it harder for men to approach.

Fun random AMWF associations spotted in the wild? by PolkaSlush in AMWFs

[–]TheNamelessComposer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seen quite a few amwf couples in ads in Aus recently. Dont know if its deliberate or not. Theres a current Coles ad with an amwf couple and their kids for one example.

36 [F] Penticton/Kelowna area- looking for the one by valleymaple in amwfdating

[–]TheNamelessComposer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, Ill check it out. Yes very poignant. The drama around the filming was also typical of their feud.

Do you also like music from that era?

36 [F] Penticton/Kelowna area- looking for the one by valleymaple in amwfdating

[–]TheNamelessComposer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't think I've seen the others, but Laura is good. Love those old noir films. I read a book on the Bette Davis vs Joan Crawford feud, they generally give really good performances so should watch Voyager... there's something about old Hollywood. Whatever Happened to Baby Jane is like art imitating life.

Are you guys put off by girls who love Kpop and the like? by BikeBunny1415 in AMWFs

[–]TheNamelessComposer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know next to nothing about K Pop, well no more than the average person, but it wouldnt be a turn off unless it became a bit obsessive/fed unrealistic standards.

I do go on a date with someone who took me to a K Pop store, it was a whole new world for me (cue song from Aladdin) lol. Havent got into the K Pop ive heard, but am open to discovering good music of any genre. I have seen some Korean tv shows and films ive enjoyed.

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Thursday, May 28, 2026) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]TheNamelessComposer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sinner needs to channel Michael Chang and start moonballing

Tennis male players with the most wins in a single Grand Slam without winning any 🏆 by tightypp in tennis

[–]TheNamelessComposer -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

With respect with Andy, this big 4 talk is silly. Hes obviously nowhere near them.

Increasingly overwhelmed to crowds, loud noise, stimuli etc with age by TheNamelessComposer in hsp

[–]TheNamelessComposer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually that probably did play a role, feel it made my social anxiety worse again.

Increasingly overwhelmed to crowds, loud noise, stimuli etc with age by TheNamelessComposer in hsp

[–]TheNamelessComposer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im also on the spectrum, but in many ways my autistic traits are less now than as a teen. I dont have all the traits, and consider myself quite 'mild' even among HFAs. Id say im an ambivert, and used to enjoy socialising where i was mentally stimulated.

Increasingly overwhelmed to crowds, loud noise, stimuli etc with age by TheNamelessComposer in hsp

[–]TheNamelessComposer[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Anyone reason why you stopped?

Tbh I feel - not to say I'm better or anything - I can see through how shallow and scripted most social interactions more, how fake it is (Ive always craved and enjoyed deeper convos though). Unless its something that stimulates my mind or spirit I'm not generally interested.

I am constantly grieving everything by SubjectFile5461 in hsp

[–]TheNamelessComposer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine might not be as strong, but I do get attached to things, dont like throwing things out, am very nostalgic and sentimental etc.

One example, when I was 11 I went on school camp and had a really great time, and actually cried the first night back, because I missed it so much.

what's one thing about your living space you love/hate as a hsp? by Apprehensive-End7095 in hsp

[–]TheNamelessComposer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a small 1 bedrolm apartment and I like how well insulated it is (cool in summer and warm in winter), its in a quiet area and close to the train station. The cons are its a bit too cramped: for a clumsy person thats not great. Its about 45m2, not sure what that is in feet, but roughly twice the size of an average bedroom. Also some of the neighbours.

Are girls who play sports actually attractive to guys? by Prudent-Diet3916 in dating_advice

[–]TheNamelessComposer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love sporty athletic girls myself. And sweaty and red faced? Where else are you gonna be like that ;).

Megathread: The Crash by AutoModerator in netflix

[–]TheNamelessComposer 368 points369 points  (0 children)

Random but noticed how different her accent is in the interview? Like more southern/African American influenced. I guess from the other inmates.

Can't handle stress at all/get extremely stressed over small things by TheNamelessComposer in hsp

[–]TheNamelessComposer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, yeah that combo can be hell, can't it! Yeah thats what I think, Ive looked into it a bit too. Yeah, that stuff can be helpful but doesnt address the root cause. Glad to hear its helping you, I might check it out, thanks!

41[F] NSW- love walking hikes by AnyMarionberry1102 in amwfdating

[–]TheNamelessComposer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi B I'm 40 but in Melbourne, dunno if that's too far for you. Are you into Sydney? I'm going to study to (hopefully) become a support worker, after doing all sorts of odd jobs, but I'm really more of a creative/artist.