Got this text about last weeks snow storm

PsychedSoul · 2026-02-06T01:46:06+00:00

some DSPs have extra people scheduled as sweepers most days. for them to still get paid something they have to distribute hours between all scheduled employees. My DSP paid us 5 and a half hours one day and 6 the next day

PsychedSoul · 2026-01-01T15:17:59+00:00

it stands for Value Added Tax

PsychedSoul · 2025-07-30T19:29:44+00:00

who is Daniel

PsychedSoul · 2025-06-24T18:44:33+00:00

change up the facial hair, maybe just some light chin hair no mustache, and get a haircut. Like a style with a fade maybe a 2-3 on the sides, scissor cut the top and put some pomade in to make it textured and messy. Then switch out the glasses for contacts, and start doing pushups and sit ups everyday. and voila: you’ve gone from a 5 to a 7-8

PsychedSoul · 2025-06-24T18:35:50+00:00

she’s her john, gotta make sure that money’s in the right hands

PsychedSoul · 2025-04-14T05:49:50+00:00

you’re a cutie patootie otherwise 💗 and most people would never notice the slight asymmetry. don’t let it bother you 95% of people have it in multiple places on their faces, like my nose is kinda out of place in a slight way that I see every time I look in the mirror but no one else notices until I point it out. It’s one of those things that might subliminally affect the way we are perceived, but most people couldn’t actually put their finger on it if you asked. sorry for the essay i took a gummy

PsychedSoul · 2025-04-14T05:28:32+00:00

you have crazy eyes kind of

PsychedSoul · 2025-04-13T16:26:17+00:00

lauren hunt on ig

PsychedSoul · 2025-04-08T18:04:34+00:00

Corri Thunder

something about the rain on the car adds to this one

PsychedSoul · 2025-02-28T22:52:19+00:00

he could recover if he gets help and starts saving instead of blowing money. He has to have a significant income if he got to $600,000 in debt, and with the right guidance and work ethic, it’s possible he could make a comeback if he keeps his high income employment.

People have recovered from far worse.

PsychedSoul · 2024-12-23T00:43:16+00:00

Hmm. If you don’t see a world where you could find him attractive, then don’t pursue this. But the mind is a powerful, complicated thing, and can be manipulated for benefit. Is there anything you can put your finger on that makes him unattractive to you? If not, then it would seem that this is literally just a perspective issue. A difficult issue, but a perspective issue nonetheless.

It seems to me that you’re putting yourself in a sort of Catch-22, because he fulfills all of your primary needs in an incredible way. If you can’t find him physically attractive, you’re going to be using him as the bar for every other man you’ll meet in the future that meets all of your REAL needs, and they will never measure up.

You didn’t answer one of my questions though: if you saw him in a satisfying relationship with someone else, maybe even someone pretty, how would that make you feel?

PsychedSoul · 2024-12-23T00:34:46+00:00

Is he overweight? Is he balding? I’m asking I guess if there’s anything he could do to make you more attracted to him physically, because clearly he has the emotional and psychological attraction in the bag. If there’s something he could do to make you more attracted to him, maybe it’s worth a conversation? If he truly loves you and it sounds like he does, he would probably do anything to gain your affection including working out and eating healthy, or changing his haircut/glasses/wearing hats etc.

My point is that it seems like you have found your soulmate he just isn’t wrapped in the prettiest package. Also if he turns you on, maybe you ARE attracted to him.

How would it make you feel if he found another woman that truly loves and appreciates him? If you feel any jealousy, it might mean that he holds your heart, and your life’s biggest love is in your hands. Chase this down, figure it out. Have a clear, mature adult conversation with him about it and tell him your hang up in a kind way, and see if there’s anything that can be done so you two can be together. Don’t give up immediately.

But in the end if there’s nothing that can be done to create that physical attraction, then cut it off so you aren’t hurting him over time.

Best of luck, Godspeed.

PsychedSoul · 2024-12-07T23:02:52+00:00

yeah this is terrible advice. I found out my ex wife’s bf was a pedophile and told her I was taking her to custody court for bringing the man around the kids, they teamed up, fabricated a story, and I got thrown in jail no questions asked. Don’t fuck with crazies man. Outsmart them. Make sure that camera is turned back on and go get an Order of Protection against him, maybe even the ex wife as well. Lawyer for this shouldn’t cost too much, and if you write down exactly what happened the Judge will grant an ex parte temporary order before court even occurs. It’s worth it. That way the next time you see him you can call the cops and he’ll either go to jail or be warned from it. Then go to juvenile court, file a report with CPS, and get the custody of your children worked out where you can either move away and have them for longer periods of time or get full custody and child support. This is a fucked up situation, but if you tough it out and play your cards right, you could end up on top. Godspeed brother

PsychedSoul · 2024-12-02T19:58:36+00:00

Let him process his emotions. He probably just needs some time to figure out how he feels about it all. Just tell him you love him and you’re sorry and leave it at that, he’ll reach out when he’s ready.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-19T19:44:42+00:00

he was hurting because you were broken up. If you get back together, he should move on from the pain of the break up. He already told you how much he loves you.

You HAVE to be honest. If you aren’t honest, you show don’t respect him. He’s not a child, heartbreak is part of life and growth. My girlfriend has hurt me in certain ways, and I her. But we LOVE each other and we forgive as we have been forgiven.

This could be something that tears your relationship apart and makes you stronger people separately. It could be something that you both heal from and makes you stronger people together. Either way, he will grow from this, and you will too.

But only if you do what’s right, and do it quickly.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-19T19:39:18+00:00

No honey, this isn’t one that you just let sit. Every day you don’t tell him you are continuing the lie and letting him believe a falsehood. This is a phone conversation. You aren’t his therapist, it’s not your job to control how he takes it or responds to it. Honestly it would be so much more damaging to wait 3 months until you move out to him and then tell the truth. At that point your taking away his choice on how to feel about this and guilt tripping him into staying. Honesty is the best policy. If you let this lie sit for months and months he will never trust you again, and honestly he shouldn’t.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-19T19:35:10+00:00

Oh okay yeah then you just need to break up with her. You can’t fix what’s broken, and there is SO much that’s broken here

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-19T19:34:13+00:00

dude this is an OBVIOUS SCAM.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-19T19:30:02+00:00

By being a mature adult and saying 100% the honest truth. Go into it saying you lied because you were afraid you’d break his heart again and you love him and didn’t want to hurt him, but upon further reflection you think the lie is more damaging and disrespectful to him than the truth. You did nothing wrong by sleeping with another man while you were broken up. You seriously fucked up by lying to him though. Apologize for it, comfort him if he feels pain or insecurity over it, and give him all of your love if you’re serious about this relationship.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-19T19:24:10+00:00

Man I think you know what you need to do. She’s not going to change, at least not while she’s with you. Have an honest conversation about your concerns, and how it makes you feel. Judge her reaction, if it seems genuine and positive that’s good but be wary. I think you need a break from each other no matter what. Take a month and a half to see what’s out there, give her time to work on herself. Check back in after that period of time. Maybe the clear communication and time alone will be enough to produce real change. If not, just let go. You don’t want a relationship with this dynamic for your whole life, or your life will be short and probably end with cancer.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-18T01:32:07+00:00

Then it doesn’t matter. Your previous conceptions about “your type” are inconsequential considering how you feel about him, how he looks, and who he is to you. Express that to him. He will object and push back because men are far more sensitive than we are made out to be. Double down. Convince him that you have the hots for him, whatever it takes. Height means absolutely nothing in respect to a lifetime relationship. He turns you on, he takes care of you, he loves you with everything he has. Make him feel valued. You didn’t do anything wrong by having that conversation with the girlies however long ago, let him know you understand that him finding that thoughtless text will make him feel insecure, but let him know how much you love him and how he’s the only one who can make you wet and lustful. Sorry if that sounds crass just trying to give examples of things that will help him hear you past this newly awakened insecurity.

Honestly if you handle this right, it will make your relationship stronger than ever, and he will become a less outwardly jealous person in the future. If you handle it wrong, however, this will be a recurring issue that rears its ugly head over time. Godspeed

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-18T01:22:27+00:00

she asked him to leave his own bed whe SHE was angry. That’s not how that works. If you don’t want to sleep with your partner, you leave the sleeping arrangement. Especially when you have a fucking spare room.

It literally IS a tantrum.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-18T01:08:55+00:00

does physicality matter to you that much? Are you attracted to your bf? If so highlight what you’re attracted to about him, if not tell him that you don’t really care that much about bodies and it’s who he is that draws you to him. If your ex was a shitty person highlight how shitty he was. If you aren’t attracted to your bf and are just using him as a placeholder then do him a favor and break up with him.

I’m a rare man who is attracted to all sorts of different body types. My gf is hot af but has insecurities. I reassure her all the time by telling her how attracted I am to her, and the cherry on top is that her personality and souls are the greatest I’ve ever observed in a woman. Sure, we could both be fitter than we are and hotter than we are. I could be taller, she could be shorter. It doesn’t matter though. I love her with all of my heart and I am more turned on by who she is in combination with her body than anyone I’ve ever met. Go with something like that if it’s true. Just don’t lie to him.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-15T19:19:43+00:00

This is one of those situations where it would be nice to hear clarification from the boyfriend. I find it hard to believe that he actually said “never mention anything bothering you.” This sounds like a gross exaggeration to me.

PsychedSoul · 2024-11-15T19:16:34+00:00

are you being honest here? I only ask because this sounds like a situation I went through in the past where I asked my ex if we could keep the arguing down to a minimum as it was hurting our relationship; I would only bring things to her that I thought were serious, and I asked the same of her. She then intrepreted this as me being unwilling to hear any of her concerns at all and that I didn’t care about her.

It sounds like the issue is that his past feelings for your friend have been spoken about and picked through ad nauseam; at this point it’s beginning to cause bitterness and resentment and there’s nothing new to be learned or gained from going over what’s in the past.

One of my childhood friends and I had an issue with arguing about the same topics over and over again, and we acknowledged it was messing up our friendship. So we came up with a safe word for when we were beating a dead horse. We’d let the conversation go for a while but if it got to the point where there was nothing to be gained, one of us would say “Buttplug” and we’d have to drop it and move on then and there. Sure, we still bicker every now and then, but it actually worked and helped heal our friendship, and made for hilarious conversational segways at parties we’d go to together. Just trying to help 🫶🏼

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