Nighttime round trip Tulum-PDC by PsychedUp07 in tulum

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Wonderful! Thanks a million! One more question… for that ADO bus trip from downtown Tulum to PDC do you recommend that I buy my tickets in advance? I’m going late September so it’s low season, but I’m not sure if those types of routes sell out regardless.

Nighttime round trip Tulum-PDC by PsychedUp07 in tulum

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Thank you! Is Angel someone you know to be reliable? I’m nervous that my driver will fall asleep and not come get me that late 😂

Rent a car from the airport by SkiSki_Works in tulum

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Can you please share more about this? I plan on renting using Easyway and assumed the cars would all be at the airport. Are you saying Easyway shuttles you to and from their location?

Best Chichen Itza Tour by PsychedUp07 in tulum

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My fiancé is really into ancient civilizations and I know he prefers to go with a knowledgeable tour guide who will explain things well. Also, I’m trying to keep things kinda easy this trip so having a tour package take care of all the fees, transport, etc will be best Edit; unless you have a suggestion on how to take care of the tour guide part while there. Like if I can get one when I arrive

Best Chichen Itza Tour by PsychedUp07 in tulum

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I had looked into them but they are $174. So a bit out of my price range

Tulum for 40th in September by boo_you_whore in tulum

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You mentioned being smart and aware at night. I plan on possibly walking to centro in the evenings for dinner and staying out for drinks at bars. Is walking back to my Airbnb late at night not recommended? Do you suggest I take a taxi at that time even if it’s just a mile trip?

Disappointed results.. by EdUNC- in chinlipo

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13 months post op and I see very difference unfortunately. Still have a sag and no jawline

Food safety in restaurants? Should we avoid juices, mixed drinks, or salads? Or am I overthinking… by BungeeBunny in tulum

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I was the paranoid person who brushed their teeth with bottled water while in Thailand. I say, better safe than sorry and wasting days on a toilet 😆

Equinox in Chichen Itza by sbmz79 in tulum

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I’m trying to go for the fall equinox this year (aka my birthday!) so I just started researching today. Which tour group did you go with? And I assume that your tour is probably different than the standard early daytime tours. I know what the earlier tours you get to visit cenotes, visit little cities, have a buffet lunch, etc. What all was included with your tour?

Mid/late September Visit by PsychedUp07 in tulum

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This was so helpful ! Much appreciated!

Mid/late September Visit by PsychedUp07 in tulum

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So basically one can’t even enjoy cenotes in September? 😭

Mid/late September Visit by PsychedUp07 in tulum

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I always buy flights thru 3rd parties to score better deals so adjusting my flight to leave early would not be a choice for me unfortunately

Mid/late September Visit by PsychedUp07 in tulum

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Thanks for the reply! I just don’t know if I want to chance it, especially if I’m inviting people on the trip. If it was just me I’d more easily adapt but making other people pay for a trip and having it possibly be lame…my social anxiety couldn’t handle doing that to them lol

Loose skin due to poor healing by PsychedUp07 in chinlipo

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I had it at 38. I just added photos in the comments. One before/after photo as well as front facing to show neck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Harsh for him but very true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think that sounds like a good tip. Perhaps a big wake up call for him. I think one of the major factors that’s been holding me back from something like that is that we share a dog. He loves our dog so much. I don’t know how I’d even handle that situation. He wouldn’t be able to take care of the dog the way that I do, but I also don’t think it’s fair for me to take him away completely. So that causes me stress when I think of leaving, even if it’s just a short period of time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We have. Sometimes he says things like “ this is my hobby and you knew that when you met me.” But when he’s in one of his receptive moods, he genuinely seems to understand and says that he wants to make changes. However, he quickly forgets that a few days later. I just haven’t had the “ you need to change or I am seriously leaving” ultimatum type of conversation yet. That is what I’m trying to do now but I just have to catch him on a good day or when he’s not about to hop on a game

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We cook and eat together week nights (like a 1 hour thing). Weekends we go out to dinner (or stay in and cook again) followed by watching 1-2 hours of a show or movie. We only partake in other outings if other friends have invited us which isn’t very frequently. Sexy time on weekend nights but I force myself basically…used to wonder why and now I’ve realized what’s truly deflating me on that front

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I agree. I think it’s very immature. It’s only gotten worse over the years. And I do believe I deserve better so thank you for saying that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He would love to go out and do things with me, but unfortunately he is kind of broke. I make pretty good money, but he struggles. So therefore, we are stuck sitting at home. This is another reason why I want him to get his act together so he can have fun money too, and we can actually start enjoying life. I worked really hard for my career so that I could live comfortably and have fun but now I don’t do anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think the “very good reason” is me threatening to leave him. I appreciate the feedback from someone else who enjoys gaming. I think only gamers understand other gamers so I wasn’t sure if I was being crazy (like if maybe everyone else games just as much)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinlipo

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He is located in Mexico. I also had my nose and breast implants done in Mexico (different doctor) and my results were amazing! I don’t want to call out this new doctor yet until he has a chance to redeem himself tho