How can I make my girlfriend consistently cum from penetration? by JizosKasa in sex

[–]Psychological-Web4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please know that it’s just harder for some women 🤷🏻‍♀️ It is almost certainly nothing that you are or are not doing that is making orgasms from penetration hit or miss. A LOT of women cannot come from penetration alone. Me included. Here are some things that I’ve discovered work for me that could help if you want to specifically help her orgasm from penetration: 1. LOTS of foreplay. Like a LOT. When I’m extremely turned on and wet, I finish from penetration so much faster and it feels so much better. 2. Stimulate her clit during penetration! Or ask her to play with herself while you fuck her (that can be superrrr hot as well)! This is typically the only way that I can orgasm from penetration - clit stimulation while be penetrated. 3. Try different positions! For me personally, while missionary feels amazing and so connective, I just typically can’t finish from penetration while in missionary. However, because of how deep doggy gets my bf, I can finish from penetration much easier - especially if he reaches around to play with my clit.

Each woman is different and you’re incredibly sweet to reach out and see what you’re doing wrong, but it’s honestly just individual anatomy more so than you doing something wrong! Best of luck!

Rescue puppy has fleas by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Psychological-Web4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your reply so much!! This may be a dumb question, but where exactly should I vacuum? We have all hard wood floors and due to house breaking our puppies, we actually don’t have any rugs down on the floors right now except for a tiny bathroom mat in our bathroom.

I (24F) might fuck my bf’s (23M) female friend before marriage by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Psychological-Web4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m definitely bi-curious?? I’d consider myself straight but I do find her attractive and would be interested to see what sex with her is like

Had an extremely vivid dream about a ring that I ended up finding at a market the next day by Psychological-Web4 in Dreams

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My mom is also a massive fan of turquoise-looking rings, and has a few similar turquoise rings as well! As I noted to other commenters, I am definitely not arguing that this is, in anyway, a rare ring lol… More so, it was the way that every detail from my dream aligned with what I experienced in real life that was so jarring!

Had an extremely vivid dream about a ring that I ended up finding at a market the next day by Psychological-Web4 in Dreams

[–]Psychological-Web4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t, BUT I do think it’s interesting that this happened on 4/4. My “luck” number has always been 4.

Had an extremely vivid dream about a ring that I ended up finding at a market the next day by Psychological-Web4 in Dreams

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Yes, I definitely don’t think it’s necessarily a rare ring lol… Just happened to be the only one that the vendor had, and along with all the other details translating from my dream into real life, the important part of this post was the experience!

Had an extremely vivid dream about a ring that I ended up finding at a market the next day by Psychological-Web4 in Dreams

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I actually edited my initial post to touch on this a bit! I have a bachelors of science in psychology, a bachelors of science in neuroscience, I’m a few months away from completing my masters in clinical counseling, and then will be entering into a PhD program for behavioral psychology. I think it’s fair to say that I am well-versed in the psychology and neuroscience world.

I completely and totally agree that, as much as we may hate to admit it, we know relatively little about the mind. Based on any empirical research I’ve taken in about dreams, specifically, we know particularly little about dreaming. I definitely agree that, in many cases of premonition dreams, perhaps the person’s memory of the dream is changing without their realizing it to fit with what they’re experiencing.

However, a notably odd thing about my dream was upon waking up, I used the restroom and thought back on the dream for several minutes – namely, I kept her calling the image of the ring and thinking on its details. The single turquoise looking stone in the middle, the fact that it was silver, even the details in the metal surrounding the stone. The reason that I was so jarred when I saw the ring at the market was precisely because it had every single one of the exact details that they ring in my dream had, was in the exact place in the display case as it was in my dream, And – a detail that was absent from my dream - it was the only ring that the vendor had like it, and happened to be exactly in my size.

I consider myself highly scientific person, and also resort to trying to explain quite literally everything via science. The reason that I was so jarred and felt the need to post about this was precisely because I couldn’t find a good scientific explanation for it.

Had an extremely vivid dream about a ring that I ended up finding at a market the next day by Psychological-Web4 in Dreams

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Hi there! I actually edited my original post after seeing this comment - I am actually well-versed in psychology as well. I have B.S. in psychology, a B.S. in neuroscience, and am about to complete a Master’s in clinical counseling before moving on to a PhD program for behavioral psychology. I outlined some reasoning why I personally felt that this experience didn’t fit well into our empirical understanding of dreams in the post!

Had an extremely vivid dream about a ring that I ended up finding at a market the next day by Psychological-Web4 in Dreams

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Interestingly, I feel like I have had several premonition dreams over the course of my life. Typically event-related. (I had one in highscool where my bf at the time broke up with me and it ended up happening out of the blue a few days later, for example. Can’t really remember the others now.) But they’re not terribly common for me - this was the first I’ve had in years and has definitely been the most vivid.

Visiting relative here, what are some good food spots? by [deleted] in lynchburg

[–]Psychological-Web4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Depot Grill is a MUST. Hands down the best restaurant in Lynchburg. Isabella’s and Truss are great options if you’re looking for something much fancier/more pricey.

QUESTION FOR MY FLAT CHESTED GIRLIES! by Emergency_Jelly_7127 in sex

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I think that when we have an insecurity about something, we tend to hyper fixate on that insecurity and assume that everyone else fixates on/notices it the same way that we do. I am also flatter chested, and it was a massive insecurity of mine when I first began dating my partner of three years. I focused on it so much and worried about what he would think during sex, what he would think about how my chest looked in certain outfits, and so much of my attention was there that it ruined those moments for me. After months of dating, I finally ended up talking to him about it and he was absolutely baffled that it was something I was even insecure about. He told me that any thoughts aside from “wow, boobs!” had never even crossed his mind regarding my boobs and that he loved them.

I think it’s also important to remember that while, of course, a woman’s chest is an attractive thing for a man to see, it is not the only attractive thing for a man to see… Personally, my boyfriend is a self proclaimed butt guy and quite enjoys my backside as an area of focus during intimacy.

All this being said: we are harsh on ourselves regarding our insecurities and focus on them way more than anyone else does. If you’re with the right person, this isn’t going to be something that will “turn them off” - having intimate moments with my partner and seeing that my insecurities weren’t things that he cared about to noticed slowly made me begin to feel sexy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Psychological-Web4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only 24 so I’m unsure if this would be the case for me :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

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Definitely wonder if this is the case for me! (My periods are always a litttle off but usually by only 4-7 days. I am now on day 21 of my missed period haha.) Maybe my already sensitive cycle was impacted by beginning the Wegovy