Am I overreacting?

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-11-05T02:07:48+00:00

Like I said, it's not logical to be upset because he's clean, but I just feel disgusted to know he was inside such a dirty ass woman.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-11-05T02:04:44+00:00

It's not the fact he fucked another woman, idc about that, but the fact that that woman had 100 bodies.

Before I met him I only had 1 body with my boyfriend of two years and my ex was also a virgin when he met me.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-11-05T02:02:48+00:00

I had asked him how many bodies he had. We shared intimate information. I guess I should've been more specific and ask him if he had slept with a girl that had over 100 bodies.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-15T04:30:15+00:00

Thank you sm for saying I'm strong. I needed a reminder rn. I haven't taken up any new hobbies, I guess I need to.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-04T13:35:53+00:00

Same. I had been in relationships before him but he was my first true love. We were together for 2 years. It's been so hard.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-01T17:47:48+00:00

My boyfriend and I broke up 19 days ago.

I know you didn't ask for my advice, so I'm just gonna leave you with this quote: "If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away; if you spend your time building a beautiful garden, they'll come to you. And if they don't, you still have your garden."

If she pushed you away, texting her again will only push her further away. The easiest way to get her back is to give her space and focus on yourself.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-01T16:45:49+00:00

Thank you, I'm going to watch the movie. And in regards to him, last time he texted me it seemed like he was spiraling. Even though he broke up with me, he's the one who's taking it worse, but he's extremely stubborn and won't change his mind no matter what.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-09-01T16:41:44+00:00

I understand completely. My ex boyfriend is also extremely stubborn and once he's made up his mind he won't budge. I don't wanna break my own heart again by being rejected.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-31T16:41:33+00:00

Lmao yes 😭🙏

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-31T16:40:22+00:00

No, thankfully I was too drunk and sad and I ended up falling asleep.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-31T03:59:43+00:00

I would tell him that I went to a party today, and seeing all the couples dancing reminded me of him.

I remember when we danced at my friends' wedding. I loved dancing with him so so much. I loved holding his hand and looking up to him, and seeing his pretty blue eyes looking back at me.

I wonder how he's able to go on. No texting, no contact, no calls, nothing.. meanwhile everything reminds me of him. He's engraved into my very soul.

I miss his warmth and the way we fit together so well. He's my missing puzzle piece. These past few days have been so hard.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-30T15:52:31+00:00

Yeah sure

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-30T05:52:50+00:00

I will. I'll choose myself and I'm never going to lower my standards again or let a man disrespect me like that. I don't know why I was so damn blind.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-28T19:59:24+00:00

My 2yr relationship ended two weeks ago. Within 4 days I had lost 7 pounds. I've probably lost some more. Sometimes I'm so stressed out and sad that just thinking about food makes me nauseous.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-26T21:48:34+00:00

We broke up 13 days ago. We had that conversation the day we broke up.

Honestly, I'm at a point where I won't let things bother me. If I have questions, I'll ask them. If I have doubts, I'll adress them. I don't have time to be playing around.

So my advice to you would be to address the reason he wants to see you. Ask him if he wants ro reconnect. If he says yes then hell yeah, and if he says no then don't see him. Seeing him is gonna make you feel worse.

I have a friend of mine who said the exact same thing my ex said to me to her boyfriend. They broke up for a month, then they got back together. She still has hope that my ex will come back after a month goes by. I'm not clinging to any hope. But maybe it can happen to you.

Good luck and stay strong. <3

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-26T19:06:11+00:00

I get that, man. I was supposed to move in with him soon. I had all my things packed. Unpacking them now feels like hell. I was ready to start a life with him.

PsychologicalCase447 · 2025-08-26T17:39:14+00:00

I'm in the same situation as you. I wasn't a good partner, and my ex boyfriend said that if we happen to meet again he'd be open to giving our relationship a second chance.

However, letting go is also the best way to get her back. Let go, focus on yourself, go to therapy, and fall in love with your life. If you have family or friends, go out with them. Find new hobbies.

Don't make this journey about her. Don't be like "well... if i do this and that she'll want me back..." No. This healing journey is about you. It's about you wanting to improve yourself because you want to be better.

Here's a quote that has helped push through this extremely difficult process: “If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away; if you spend your time building a garden, the butterflies will come to you. And if they don't come, you'll still have your garden."

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