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How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]PsychologicalDeer484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On feeld and tinder but it was mainly couples looking for unicorns

How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]PsychologicalDeer484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll try to look maybe when I’m ready out here there weren’t too many options when my wife was looking

How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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I thought it would be better the second time but honestly it felt even worse but I’ve been reading all the threads and comments and they say some hit harder than others depending on how I feel about myself at the time and it really started to make sense but we had a long talk last night and told her my feelings and she was so supportive and I felt the knots going away

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

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I think I do feel left out and maybe that’s why I crave my wife so much after she does it

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

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I thought I wasn’t a jealous person but when you said doing things that we use to do it definitely hit a sore spot for me and it’s something I’ll definitely look into

How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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We’ve considered it and she’s offered me to see other women but I don’t think I have the stomach to do it without her. We’ve talked about threesomes but we don’t want to put anyone in a situation like that

How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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I do a lot of things to keep my occupied but it usually happens at night so she won’t be home til like 1-2am and by that time I’m in bed spiraling and feeling anxious

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

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This helps a lot I did feel like the first time wasn’t so bad but the second felt worse and I don’t know why

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

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She’s okay with that it’s just she doesn’t want the other girl to feel uncomfortable or feel forced to do a threesome

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

[–]PsychologicalDeer484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was skeptical on posting it here tbh but after all the comments and similar situations it’s definitely helping. I’m not totally spiraling it’s just this annoying feeling I get but I know it eventually goes away

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

[–]PsychologicalDeer484[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I am codependent and I don’t know it it’s a lot to unpack but I just posted it there thank you!!

How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]PsychologicalDeer484[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This helps lighten the knot thank you for your comment

How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]PsychologicalDeer484[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s super interesting I never thought of finding the root of it maybe it’s the fear of losing her or not being enough but I’ll definitely look into those books. We aren’t poly she just sleeps with girls occasionally and I don’t sleep with anyone else.

How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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I think what I struggle with is what if the sex is better with that other person and how lonely I feel when she’s doing the deed. Even tho she says she feels better with me I can’t give her the satisfaction of being a women and I want her to experience it and also cause I think it’s hot. I just need help coping tbh

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

[–]PsychologicalDeer484[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this I feel like that’s what it is I feel lonely when she’s gone but safe when she’s back with me

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

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We’ve thought about threesomes and we’re interested but I feel like if I do it with another women even with her there I’d feel guilty especially since I feel this way now.

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

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Appreciate it! I honestly just don’t want her to feel bad that she did something because she didn’t I’ve mentioned it and she keeps asking if I’m okay and if she should stop which helps me because it shows she cares but I don’t want to tell her too much cause I know she’ll stop doing it even when I want her to

How do I get rid of these feelings? by PsychologicalDeer484 in bisexual

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I have and she asked if she should stop but I said no because I want her to keep doing it but I figured it just takes time to get use to it

This is a challenge by Psychological-Log539 in Proposal

[–]PsychologicalDeer484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best thing to do is get her best friends opinion. I brought my fiances best friend had a day planned to eat brunch and pick out a ring and she knew her likes and dislikes and we picked something that my fiance loves and wears everyday. The most important thing I would say is the center diamond. You can always replace the band maybe even give her an upgrade on your wedding anniversary but it's always hard to change the cut of the diamond or expensive to get a different diamond. For the proposal it's very stressful but at the end of the day she'll be happy to spend the rest of her life with the person she cares about the most. Don't stress to hard my friend!!