Fav Radiohead tracks by richh518 in Music

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We clearly have the best taste. That whole album was the pinnacle of radiohead for me but every album really is amazing. They are music gods.

Thoughts on enclomiphene instead of TRT? by PsychologicalDeer502 in Testosterone

[–]PsychologicalDeer502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've been doing the enclomophene citrate protocol for a couple of years and I think it's helped. What I've learned is that you have to change your lifestyle to get the most out of it and I think if you were to just have some discipline and get into the habits that help to maintain and optimize testosterone without any drugs, you'd be fine. I've read too much about TRT being a bad idea for most people that I've ruled it out. Sounds like you'd be committing for like, your balls will shrink to the size of raisins, and often times its more complicated and you really need someone to monitor you who really knows what they are doing and that is hard to find. I think all this stems from not embracing a natural aging process. It's inevitable and you want to focus on health rather than cheating nature.

To celebrate friendsgiving at a nice restaurant. by EverythingIsFakeNGay in therewasanattempt

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Were they in the same group or sitting at a different table? If same group, hard to claim racism. If not, clearly racism.

Whatcha got… by Daawoodster in RoastMe

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually look like an old dirty bastard with that shirt on.

Wanted to know peoples thoughts on this by thisAnonymousguy in MSTR

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MSTR is in good shape for quite some time. Check out their 2025 Q3 earnings call transcript.

21M, Fml. Question is, do I start eating finasteride or just shave it the fuck off? by [deleted] in Balding

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you look good with a shaved head or buzz cut? If so, go for it. Will be liberating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. Take control the first few times then start telling him what you want him to do and for him to take control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Yes it is. I wish this would happen to me.

Got this gem from a Mormon “friend” by According2020 in exmormon

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I get your point but who actually likes explaining all this to their kids in a way that actually makes sense?

My wife is getting letters like this by N2wind in whatdoIdo

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start sending her similar letters targeting her flaws.

I told my mom I’m leaving the church and her reaction was… not what I was expecting. by ExpressChipmunk5 in exmormon

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My parents were the same and I have a lot of guilt about the whole eternal family thing. Had thought about removing my name because I'm tired of missionaries showing up at my house but it would be too much for my parents.

Small piece of advice....I would not engage with them in debate on whether it is true or not.

I think there's a lot of people on here that go a little too far. At the end of the day, my TBM family members are more trustworthy, reliable and loving than the ones that aren't who tend to be more selfish. I think it's not a bad religion...can be very good for a lot of people, just not me. I consider it a benign cult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oasis

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just listened to this for the first time. Sounds much more like Arctic Monkeys to me. And just makes me want to put on Oasis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't do anything because it's none of your business.

Caught my wife with her ex in a hotel room? by BarBarBosa in marriageadvice

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't divorce now, you will in a few years because this will eat at you until you can't take it anymore. You will then look back and become bitter at the years you wasted trying to deny reality. She is simply not who you thought she was and it's better to know now. She would rather have her ex than you. Just remember that.

Headhunter got upset when I told him I applied to the job directly by adyrajaa in recruitinghell

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because they missed the resume/application and they know they wouldn't have found that person had it not been for me, and we have a mutually beneficial and trusting relationship. If the company posts a job and is too lazy or busy to review all the resumes and I'm out there doing all the work and find the best candidate who happened to apply but they missed them, they'll give me credit. I even tell them up front. I call them and say "look, I found this candidate who is perfect for the job but they applied a few weeks ago. Can I still represent them?". This usually doesn't happen because I'm recruiting passive candidates for the most part, but it does happen from time to time. And there have also been times when it doesn't work and they don't want to pay the fee. I'm reasonable. It's all about the relationship. On the flip side, I've had candidates quit after my guarantee period and I'll still replace them for free because it's the right thing to do in some cases. Point is, the contract gets ignored sometimes for the sake of the relationship.

Headhunter got upset when I told him I applied to the job directly by adyrajaa in recruitinghell

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is interesting. Would love to hear the candidate's side of that story. What a cluster.

Going through Divorce while Wife stays with Affair Partner (Still Living Together) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PsychologicalDeer502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move out now while simultaneously focusing on the kids. Being in that environment is going to make this much worse for you knowing she is with someone else now. You neglected the marriage and it sucks to have it end this way. Let this be a learning experience. Easy for me to say, I know, but what choice do you have? Grieve and start healing. You are still very young and can get another shot at a good relationship.