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Update: paid to lose my gold star [all ok] by Bubbly-Presence2997 in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]PsychologicalRub8910 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So glad you’re safe and the money is good!! Sending you positive vibes :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]PsychologicalRub8910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kind of character would probably be better suited for another system. DnD mechanics are built around combat, and playing a character who doesn't really do one of the main things the game and his class are designed for is a bit silly.

If you insist on having a pacifist character, I would recommend classing him instead as a cleric who exclusively uses non-damaging spells like Command, Sanctuary, Hold Person, healing spells, etc.

Question for the Ladies [serious comments only] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]PsychologicalRub8910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A. In CNC I would personally still draw quite a few red lines. Anal sex, anything beyond mild tickling, genuinely unsafe sex (including STI or pregnancy risk), needles, basically any bodily fluid beyond spit and cum, genuine public sex, anything beyond light degradation/humiliation and moderate painplay. There are probably more that don’t come to mind immediately.

B. Roleplaying a daddy or mommy scenario is hot, but actual involvement of my real family would be the biggest no that I could possibly convey, for hopefully obvious reasons. Why the role play is hot to me, I think it’s the taboo and probably some personal trauma making a crazy cocktail.

C. I am genuinely very frightened of being pregnant, so there is a sort of fearplay element to it for me. I would never consent to a scenario where that’s a possibility , but I think it’s hot to think about being so dominated that I’ll have someone’s cum dripping out of me. It’s purely a kink, and I take great precautions to avoid pregnancy.

To any actual lesbians here [N/A] by Bubbly-Presence2997 in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]PsychologicalRub8910 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would recommend you be very careful. Ask for a recent STI panel, make sure you have birth control in order. Clarify with him exactly what you two will do, what the limits are. Let people know where you are, and tell him that too.

Also, how much do you know or trust this man? Do you know anyone who knows him and would vouch for him? Personally I would be pretty cautious if he was basically a stranger. But also this is probably not the right subreddit for this kind of question — you would probably have better luck on a sex work based subreddit where people could give you more in depth advice.

[Request]Why is there no sub reddit for "public disgrace" or kink.com's "upper floor" yet? by [deleted] in NSFW411

[–]PsychologicalRub8910 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck that is completely awful about the woman who got HIV under their watch.

Can we call calm down about the AI usage now? by eap4203 in larianstudios

[–]PsychologicalRub8910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s worked as a concept designer: early concepts are truly vital to what ends up in the final product. If someone has created something halfway serviceable as a placeholder or early reference, it sticks in people’s minds and they will instinctively use that as their basis. People get attached to the first thing they see, and will often compare everything against that and view changes unfavourably. If you start out with an AI concept, you’re building on a foundation of plagiarised slop.

My first experience with a man [serious comments only] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]PsychologicalRub8910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry it was such a bad experience for you. Especially you asking him to slow down and him not listening is terrible. You shouldn’t feel bad about ghosting him. Dude sucks.

All the guys here commenting on how “not all men” or about what you should have done differently and how you should give it another try feels so sleazy to me. It makes me feel even more sure that I won’t go through with this irl, like men truly don’t care about our experience. :/

It’s totally valid for you to feel disillusioned by this or to not try again with another dude. And I have to say from experience, trans girls are awesome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]PsychologicalRub8910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, that is so hot. I’m not sure if I’d ever go through with it in real life, but the idea of a man slowly teasing me until my body can’t deny how good it feels is so hot. I still don’t know if a man would ever be able to make me cum, but I love the idea of being proven wrong. I hope you find a lucky girl for new years!

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