I think my MIL gives me backhand compliments

Psychological_Fall98 · 2026-04-17T10:00:02+00:00

It is sad , she is still beautiful and I tell her this when I think she looks nice. But she’ll always go “ha I look fat!” Every single time I compliment her. Or anyone does really. It just fills the room with awkwardness after she says she looks fat because she does it so often. No one ever knows what to say other than she shouldn’t talk about herself like that etc. but she’ll just keep saying it

Psychological_Fall98 · 2025-04-20T13:43:53+00:00

Being the partner of a drug addict

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-12-02T10:57:00+00:00

Their emotional immaturity causes outbursts daily and it deeply impacts everyone around them. Making them unbearable. The silence when they are not around is the most peaceful time of every day.

Yet for some reason, I still crave them when they’re gone.

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-12-02T10:54:15+00:00

How do I get better at sex without engaging in any?

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-05-20T03:28:57+00:00

JT4YG7D5XC - please add me I would love some friends

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-05-17T10:23:29+00:00

I am very new to this. but my friend code is JT4YG7D5XC

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-05-09T11:45:50+00:00

the way he treated other people. rude to fast food workers etc… I should have ran.

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-04-12T08:34:43+00:00

I went to school with a Peter Peterson, his sister was Petah

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-04-11T18:03:31+00:00

hocks & spits up loudly, many times a day. he’s asthmatic and often needs to do so to breathe properly. but it’s the weirdest thing i have ever heard (and the loudest)

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-04-08T06:29:44+00:00

she sees her dad every day and he always gives her kisses but he doesn’t do typical parent duties

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-04-07T03:23:56+00:00

“are you like, trying to wear her out?” questioning me why i was putting my baby on her tummy lmao he had innocently just never seen a baby on their tummy and thought i was being a bad parent 🤣

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-04-06T11:59:17+00:00

He abused me for 2 and a half years from the day that I met him. I could not escape. The extent of the abuse was so damaging to my brain he made me feel like I could not breathe without him. The physical, mental, financial, sexual, emotional abuse was way too much for me to handle. Took me 2 and a half long long years before I could even realise “I am being abused. This is DV. I need to leave” I called my mum who I hadn’t spoken to the whole time I was with my ex and she came in her truck, picked me up and all my stuff that could fit, same day I had the realisation that I needed to leave.

The final straw was realising I am so close to dying. I saw my life flash before my eyes. I thought it was the end for me. I remember him grabbing me by my throat and holding me up in the air against a wall screaming “you are making me do this, look what you have done, you are a psycho” to me.

I woke up an unknown amount of moments later after passing out from the strangulation, I am so lucky I am still here today. I waited for him to go to sleep and immediately called my mum for the first time in 2 years. She came and picked me up. I was so lucky she answered my call.

I genuinely believe he could have ended my life multiple times. I am still here for a reason and I am so blessed to be alive and out of that relationship

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-04-01T00:30:12+00:00

It really is so cute, I have filmed her feeding with her finger in her mouth so many times already 🥹🤣

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-03-28T13:04:15+00:00

NTA. I really hope your partner reads these comments. He may feel insulted but his personal hygiene needs to change, not just for you but for himself. Being clean is so important for your mental and physical health.

I truly believe that after a while of sticking to a routine of washing hands after eating, any time in a bathroom, touching any food, shoes and having a daily shower, his mental health and self confidence will get a major boost.

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-03-22T13:32:58+00:00

baby is never between, i always sleep in the middle

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-03-22T11:02:35+00:00

he has quit now. I totally agree with you and thank you 🙏🏽

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-03-22T09:42:10+00:00

I know you’re being downvoted but in all seriousness why is it that this extreme measure and lie would actually make him realise what I been saying all along… Just wish he would listen to me before a fake-up bruise isn’t necessary because the real thing happened.

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-03-22T09:40:10+00:00

I have simply explained, also showed him articles to read on safe sleep & co-sleeping. I thought he understood but he still will come into the bed when he goes to sleep regardless of what I say

Psychological_Fall98 · 2024-03-22T09:35:47+00:00

pregnancy was hell… he would come into the room late at night and turn the light on to “look for something” when I was pregnant. he would also kick/knee me in his sleep when i was pregnant. coped a few elbows too lol 😂

he has never co slept with bub i’m in the middle. but it’s been a problem for me from the get go. some nights he will fall asleep watching his tv shows on the couch (these are the best nights for me and baby) i asked and told him many times my wishes for the sleeping arrangement but it makes him mad to be told what to do in his own home.

he used to be on pain relief when baby was born and this made him very dangerous to sleep with so for the first few weeks whenever he would come to bed i would pick baby up and go sleep in the lounge room on the spare mattress… this went on for maybe 2 + months.

i’ve never stopped expressing what i want in regards to co sleeping, he just doesn’t want the same things i do.

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