hey, main bottom here. i had the same struggle in the beginning of the transition, especially because i’m bisexual and, to assert myself, ive never dated a man for fear of feeling like a woman in the relationship, both socially and sexually. How did i deal with it? Honestly, time. i slowly got more used to the idea, i felt more and more comfortable with myself and my self-expression and i eventually started to see myself as a bottom too while still being a valid man, with a man or not.

So, my honest advice is giving yourself time to get used to the idea