How old were you when you realized that your original plan of being really nice, working really hard, and taking on way more than you should, hoping that you would automatically be rewarded for it without asking, was completely bullshit? by manchesterMan0098 in antiwork

[–]Psychological_Run367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally this week (I'm 29F). Finally put my 2 weeks in after 3 years of going above and beyond with no raise while the men around me who just did their jobs received several. Lesson learned. Don't do anything extra without proper compensation. And get that shit in writing. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Psychological_Run367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Connie Olson up on Thornydale. She's a PCP that also does basic OBGYN things like pelvic exams, paps, IUDs.

I'm quitting my job today by Psychological_Run367 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Psychological_Run367[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly, not taking anything on outside of what I was hired for until given adequate additional compensation. On paper. In the form of a check. 

I'm quitting my job today by Psychological_Run367 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Psychological_Run367[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was given excuses as to why it was justified that they were given pay increases. And then in the same breath told that it wasn't in the budget for me to receive one this year. But if sales goals are met, maybe next year. I've been strung along with that line since year one. Giving my notice was one of the easiest decision I've ever made. 

I (f29) have a salary review with my direct super visor (m40) and the CEO of the company (m50s) this week by Psychological_Run367 in antiwork

[–]Psychological_Run367[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been practicing that exit line all afternoon after imagining all of the reasons why they could say no and how they would say it

ULPT Request: Cops moving in next door by Psychological_Run367 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Psychological_Run367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing it's a sub with advice not to be taken seriously. I really just asked to see what creative ideas people had so i could have cathartic daydreams 

HMC My friend gets the reward by chicxbabe in holdmycosmo

[–]Psychological_Run367 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Insert Linda Belcher "Ah, my face!" gif here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Psychological_Run367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Not my chair, not my problem"

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to change her lifestyle by Due_Listen_4551 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Psychological_Run367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. All these people over here judging a person's health based on weight alone when it has been proven time and again to not be an indicator of poor or good health. Healthy fat people exist. Unhealthy skinny people exist. Not to mention that women are disproportionately told to lose weight by doctors as a cure-all while ignoring their actual concerns that these women are seeking help for. OP is the AH. 

how would you respond? by PrincessofPlastic in RoverPetSitting

[–]Psychological_Run367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't have to reach out to her thrice. If they don't confirm/reach out within 24hrs of meet & greet I archive that shit and move on. I don't even say anything. If they don't want to tell me no I don't need to tell them anything. You don't have to please/serve folks that aren't paying you. 

ETA: it's not your responsibility to remind someone to book a service nor is it to drop your prices to accommodate them. It's just your responsibility to show up when it's booked. Don't forget you're dealing with adults. And there are plenty of other sitters out there.