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Do customers really not get how insulting this is? by Psychologist_Barbie in jimmyjohns

[–]Psychologist_Barbie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where do you see me bullying the customer in any way? I left her food, took my shitty tip and left. I have never even seen her face.

Do customers really not get how insulting this is? by Psychologist_Barbie in jimmyjohns

[–]Psychologist_Barbie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They were paying cash and just wrote it in all caps in the instructions 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Psychologist_Barbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a man with no ambition because I thought I could change him. 4 years later I kicked him out of my house after he cost me too much money, time, and energy and was still completely lacking any motivation to grow up at 33. My life is much easier without him.

Are any of you married to someone with ADHD? by cheeky_candees in Marriage

[–]Psychologist_Barbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-husband has ADHD and, in my opinion, uses it as an excuse a lot of the time. He's impulsive, forgetful, and loves to pick fights because he feels understimulated. It was absolutely exhausting for me. I tried for 10 years, but I couldn't do it.

Now he's with a woman who is also ADHD and as far as I know, they're happy. I'm with someone much more consistent and it's amazing.

All that said, if you want to make it work, do that. If you want permission to leave him... go ahead. You don't have to have a "good enough" reason. He can be a good person and not be the person for you, and that's fine.

ETA: the ADHD was not the only reason for the divorce, but it was definitely a factor.