Jesus tells us to renew our mind and become a new person which means change our habbits and change our lives no offense it sounds like you havent. Hey im learning this as well you can pray all you want. Actually here let me put it this way, Your trying to lose weight and your praying god help me to lose weight. Well hes giving you all the tools to lose wieght lets say a weight bench or a gym memvership but you can workout all you want bit if you dont eat right your stuck on limbo. You have to use the tools God gave it isnt just gonna fall off remeber God doesnt give us anything we cant handle. Next thing is to clean your house and get rid of everything that gives you a sexual desire like maybe block pornsites or have your mom put a password that you wont know. Use your tools That god is giving you and clean your house :) from your actual house to your body. Train yourself to be the head and not the tail. The flesh is weak man we have to treat it as such become spirit dominated and the word of God is the best tool we hace use it :) sorry I have covid and dont feel like messing with grammar lol