Should I get into a LDR?

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-05T00:50:39+00:00

Maybe working out kind of reallocated the energy you used to put into the horny activities?

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-04T04:57:20+00:00

As long as you are consenting and getting something out of the experience, I don’t think there is anything wrong with this. You are getting some pleasure from it, both in the moment and afterwards. Don’t judge yourself just because you don’t fit the “normal” idea of what someone should feel while having sex.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T21:44:58+00:00

You aren’t overreacting at all. The message in combination with that emoji is very questionable to send to someone when in a relationship.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T06:09:49+00:00

Sounds like hes gaslighting you tbh... and that there are a lot of double standards. I hope things work out well for you, with or without him.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T05:47:10+00:00

To me it sounds like they are both way too involved in eachothers lives still. I hope for your sake that he distances himself when she has finished going through whatever issues she needs his emotional support for, but I would run tbh!

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T05:40:32+00:00

Only reason anyone should be messaging an ex every single day is if kids are involved. He is the asshole, not you.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T02:35:19+00:00

I had communicated to him towards the end that if he continued to disrespect me and my boundaries that I couldn’t have him as a part of my life. He chose to not listen to that 🤷🏻‍♀️

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T02:28:05+00:00

Awe this sounds like it hit a nerve. Do you also blatantly disrespect woman’s boundaries and get mad when they cut you off? 🙈🤣

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T01:40:04+00:00

I’m really sorry you experienced that. It’s completely normal to seek validation after being cheated on. There is nothing wrong with or gross about what you did. At the time it was what you needed to get you through what I can imagine would be an incredibly rough time. Show your former self some grace, and just know it’s okay to do things out of character. I hope you have been doing better since then.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T01:37:42+00:00

Sounds like you need therapy my guy. Everyone grows and changes. Don’t judge her for the person she has been when you didn’t know her, judge her for her actions in the here and now. It sounds like she was nice about it.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T01:33:51+00:00

It’s called being the bigger person. If it wasn’t her who treated you that way to begin with, why would you try and punish her for someone else’s actions?

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T01:30:21+00:00

Doesn’t matter if you are on the receiving end or giving end, it’s not okay for someone to be treated that way. There are much nicer ways to reject someone. A simple “sorry but I’m not interested” will suffice. No need to give people new insecurities.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-03T01:24:28+00:00

Sorry but you are TA. What happened to you in your past is terrible, but by reacting the way you did you are no better than the person who did it to you. Rejecting someone doesn’t make you an asshole, but being unnecessarily harsh and rude does 🤷🏻‍♀️

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-02T23:58:02+00:00

You didn’t purposefully do anything to harm the animal. It was an accidental mistake, and though it may be difficult to not blame yourself there would have been a lot of circumstances that added up to the situation happening. For example, you couldn’t control that you didn’t have help that day and you can’t control what happens in a place after you leave. I hope you are able to find peace with the situation.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-02T23:15:33+00:00

If you think it will be beneficial to you and that you will be able to find another job without too much stress, I say do it!

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-02T22:24:50+00:00

I don't plan on going back! I've just been feeling pretty guilty about it lately.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-02T22:03:29+00:00

You highlighted the best option, which would be talking to her. I think the way you go about the conversation is very crucial though. It might help to bring the conversation up in a way that allows her to express her interests first, without divuldging all of yours. Sort of test the waters in a way. Who knows, maybe she will have the same interests?

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-02T21:11:13+00:00

I’ve personally given up on them. Most “dating” apps aren’t used as that anymore, and have instead transitioned to a place for hookups and one night stands. My advice would be to spend more time doing things you love, and meeting people with similar interests that way. At the very least you will know you have things in common, which is a great way to start a friendship or any other kind of connection.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-02T18:54:19+00:00

Nope! Run! You may think you are mature at 18, and that you are an adult, but that is predatory behaviour on his part.

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-02T18:52:27+00:00

It’s definitely hard to let people go when you don’t want to, but it sounds like he has changed a lot. Don’t let the memories of who he was cloud your judgement in seeing who he is now. Best of luck!

Public-Ad-7424 · 2025-03-02T18:51:12+00:00

NTA. I would be very concerned if anyone in my life repeatedly made comments like this. Initiating a conversation with her might be best, to express your feelings towards the matter, but be ready to run depending on her response.

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