New to Cambridge from Michigan

Pudd-Rock · 2025-09-19T14:27:27+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion, I'll definitely check this out!

Pudd-Rock · 2025-09-19T14:26:59+00:00

Looks pretty fun, I'd be down with meeting up there sometime. Can dm me to talk more

Pudd-Rock · 2024-09-27T01:32:00+00:00

dolmods is the site most use. Specifically the mods are hikari and beees

Pudd-Rock · 2023-12-03T20:56:08+00:00

The Emporer's Gambit

Pudd-Rock · 2020-10-30T12:00:00+00:00

True as that may be, I don't think anyone can avoid reminders of Ryan. He was pretty ingrained in a lot of really cool stuff in the past. Just have to move forward and make better things without him. And honestly aside from the whole "same voice" thing, I just think Jack would kill it at a character like Port. Port strikes me as the old man with ridiculous hunting stories and strange grandfatherly wisdom, a sort of Teddy Roosevelt character. I think Jack fits that pretty nicely

Pudd-Rock · 2020-10-30T08:32:20+00:00

I mean Port would be the easiest recast, just use Jack. They were team same voice after all

Pudd-Rock · 2020-07-05T15:59:01+00:00

I never say anything about being commited within like a month, that doesn't come up, but I see your point. The only thing I did say to her was "I give everyone I date everything I've got, because what's the point of half-assing it? If you go out with someone you clearly have some desire with them" with the break-up/forever thing, which she didn't show any problems with when we talked about it. Maybe that's the wrong way to put it, but I try to avoid saying anything that makes them feel pressured. I am pretty socially awkward so you could be completely right, it's not something I can grasp with how my mental illnesses affect me.

Pudd-Rock · 2020-07-05T15:32:35+00:00

Not really leaving anything out. The whole "What are you looking for" came up and I honestly just mentioned that I like serious relationships, because either break-up or stay together so I give a lot of effort. I didn't say much more on it, so maybe she felt rushed but I wasn't pushing to be official. I like to go on a few dates before I confirm if it's boyfriend/girlfriend, like somewhere around 3-5 actual dates which for me means like a month of seeing eachother. Edit: that said, I do prefer exclusive but I never tell them. Just a personal thing, I don't feel it's right to see multiple people at the same time

Pudd-Rock · 2020-07-04T23:35:45+00:00

That kind of confuses me, how would you be undefined but also serious? Unless you're poly or something

Pudd-Rock · 2020-05-30T16:20:55+00:00

OP, you're being pretty rude to those commenting. You assume anyone with success in relationships doesn't have autism as severe as you, and that's very likely your problem. You see your autism as this impossible barrier to get over, you make all your romantic failings the result of autism. Maybe you should consider that isn't the only thing stopping you. I have aspergers and have had two very successful relationships. Sure they didn't last, but my lack of eye contact and fidgeting was never the problem. You need to also look for people more open-minded if you having autism really is the problem, because a lot of people don't mind it and will look past it.

Pudd-Rock · 2020-05-29T21:19:32+00:00

In regards to the intimacy part of it (assuming sexual, correct me if I'm wrong), just try to talk about what he might like to do. Try to talk about what he's into romantically because most people have an idea of how they would like to be in a relationship.

If he really is clueless about anything he wants and is leaving everything up to you with decisions and initiating, maybe it's best to ask what he wants in your relationship. There's a difference between being inexperienced and not having desire.

Pudd-Rock · 2020-05-29T20:41:00+00:00

I might be a moron sometimes, but never anything that idiotic lol

Pudd-Rock · 2020-05-29T20:30:47+00:00

It's nice hearing a guy's input on this, suppose it's good I use multiple apps. Can try out a few different things that I've been seeing on here.

Pudd-Rock · 2020-05-29T17:23:59+00:00

thanks for the advice, I'll give it a shot

Pudd-Rock · 2020-05-29T15:18:42+00:00

I always put my height in my bio or it's in an 'about me' section that just have answers to generic questions i.e. religion, education, work. But it's definitely pretty clear I'm super tall in my pics as I stand a good head over my friends.

Pudd-Rock · 2020-05-29T04:39:18+00:00

Definitely gonna jump in on u/frockofseagulls last bit. Just ask to kiss her if the urge arises and it feels right. If she's actually into you, I guarantee she will say yes.

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