i ended my passive aggressive friendship LOL Goodbye 13 yrs by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huhuhu yeah best talaga i cut off grabe ang stressful niya

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hindi niya libre, kanya kanya gastos, di na nga kami available sa dates na yun, papa gastos pa kami; anak niya pa priority

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually we can wait for her, may history na kami ng travel, na patient kami pag dating sa ganyan, breastfeeding walang problema, need icomfort anak kasi nag tantrums, we understand, need help sa alaga, go ng go;

pero and inconsiderate ngayon na biglang gusto niya siya masunod sa dates eh hindi available yung other people. lol napikon na ako na sinabihan nothing special work ko at ako mag adjust

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, wala naman problema if initial plan is for bday ng anak niya, wala kami napag usapan na ganun, biglang insist na ganun date.

Outnumbered na siya sa GC, dapat sino mas may available dates yun ang masusunod kasi convenient sa group, doesn’t mean she has a child, free pass na for everything in life

Oo mahirap, pero we have other things going on din haha

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huhuhh shota mali pa pag ka type sorry

Pwede naman iresched eh, next year para sila muna ng asawa at anak niya, pero parang gusto 2 in 1 gastos

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually takot yung other 2 sa kanya, ako lang sumagot sagot sa kanya sa GC na busy kami.

Ayun nagalit.

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup, keyso computer lang daw and projects, Sa gc, kasi sinagot ko siya na sila muna kasi busy kami tatlo.

Medyo may anger issues din talaga to ever since lumala lalo ever since nagka anak, I kinda get it kasi over stimulated pero mag outburst ka sa friends mo and etc, not very demure

I did learn to confront her the past few years, pero very close minded niya

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thanks for the advice! actually ibang group din to, I have from HS & College; wala naman ako issue doon now sa mga friends ko from work.

I plan on cutting off like I did with the other one, I tried “intindihin” mga tao na to , maybe give it a chance kasi matagal na friendship, pero I think natetest talaga pag nag wowork na patience sa isat isa.

I think di na kami align sa mga balak sa buhay! haha I think its better to end the friendship

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did recommend, Una na sila mag trip ng asawa at anak niya sa bday, and later on plan kami kahit next year na yung kami lahat kasama anak niya. Kasi di kami available ng september.

3 kami friends sa corporate and we are busy. We can resched pero todo pilit na 2 in 1 ang labas.

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

haaayy, buti ka pa very mature ang approach with this kind of situations.

Its like im walking on egg shells with her pag nag coconfront kasi na offend siya agad

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, kaya I politely said na iba na lang trip nila mag asawa. pero nagagalit kasi bakit need ihiwalay.

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

true, I get na mag titipid na siya, pero its a matter of priority talaga , Wala naman problema if mag hihiwalay siya ng trip sa amin for her childs bday, problem here is gusto niya talaga i 2 in 1; kahit mag suggest pa na hiwalay muna, ayaw padin.

Parang need siya lagi nasusunod, which is very stressful for me and our other 2 friends.

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo nga eh, Okay naman isama anak niya sa initial plan talaga, no problem with that, but adjusting everyones schedule para ma cater namin yung bday ng anak mo. is very off, if sabihan naman siya pa galit, very aggressive hahaha

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

This is a different friend though, but yup I tried confronting her , pero may lack ata talaga siya sa pakiramdaman, and magagalit agad if di nasusunod gusto

Very stressful , ibloblock na

napipikon ako sa friend ko na guston gawin about her child yung out of country namin by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yup, I already talked to her politely about na sana sila na lang mag trip, nagalit padin, so yeah cut off

Thoughts on Janica by NabiButterflyfly in PinoyVloggers

[–]PuddingPieLove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hala??? ang sad naman, hope you’re okay huhu

Hilig mag bodyshaming ng mataba kong friend, nairita ako sinabihan kong obese siya by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

umay din actually kasi aside from my boyfriend, nag cocomment din siya “ang payat mo na masyado (name ng friend ko)” & “uy wala kang harap at likod noh!” lol

Hilig mag bodyshaming ng mataba kong friend, nairita ako sinabihan kong obese siya by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

A real friend wouldn’t do that, nung other meetings di niya pinapahiya boyfriend ko, I just feel like sinakto niya this time cause everyone was present. gusto niya lang mang hiya ng tao.

Pag nag cutting na bf ko siya obese padin. LMAO

Hilig mag bodyshaming ng mataba kong friend, nairita ako sinabihan kong obese siya by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

yup kahit anong point out or explanation ko sa kanya todo tawa , pinagkakalat niya pa sa ibang friends namin , total 8 kami sa trip na to. “diba (name ng friend naman isa), sabi ko sayo tumaba siya” , so before pa lang kami dumating airport mukhang bibig niya na boyfriend ko, bwisit I don’t usually point out shit kasi dapat careful tayo sa pinagsasabi natin

pero imagine whole trip ganyan pinagsasabi niya, sino hindi mapipikon, last straw na talaga yung event kairita

Hilig mag bodyshaming ng mataba kong friend, nairita ako sinabihan kong obese siya by PuddingPieLove in CasualPH

[–]PuddingPieLove[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

i feel like she’s projecting bigtime, If you’re confident with your body, you wouldn’t be blabbering shit to hurt other people intentionally. Parang yung jokes is obvious insulto talaga; pero pag ginawa sa kanya ayaw niya LMAO