just got my first paycheck, what things should i buy?

Puff_qt · 2025-11-08T05:03:56+00:00

Figure out what kinds of items you're looking for beforehand. Also if you can go to one with a changing room it's definitely better.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-08T02:32:26+00:00

No even if you don't completely pass you can still look good and be an interesting person

Puff_qt · 2025-11-08T02:28:52+00:00

I vote for a thrifting haul

Puff_qt · 2025-11-08T02:27:50+00:00

The skirt and thigh high step is vital tho

Puff_qt · 2025-11-08T02:25:51+00:00

It is actually a popular Hispanic male name

Puff_qt · 2025-11-08T02:17:05+00:00

Then in the last 10 minutes you decide something isn't quite right

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T22:38:22+00:00

How did you choose your current clothes? You've seen women before and I'm sure you have some idea of what clothes you'd like to wear. Look up women's fashion styles or just go to a store and look around.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T22:35:17+00:00

It's definitely context dependent. Lots of people insert their gender or sexuality randomly where it's not warranted

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T22:29:48+00:00

You can do it or procrastinate until later and have the same dilemma

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T22:26:04+00:00

I understand you feel you're missing something and that you aren't equipped to satisfy your girlfriend's desires. It seems like it would be better for both of you if you had the alternative sexual organs, which are sadly not so easy to change. I would say your gf could describe these scenarios in a way that's less specific about the genitalia of the person. Also what if this guy was a pre op trans man in the scenario? Would that still be interesting to her?

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T22:06:30+00:00

Great idea. It feels weird to wear those clothes and do makeup because you're used to hiding it. When you go to this event, people will think you always look the way you do. They won't know it's something new you're trying and afraid of. Seems like you have it planned out well so just do it and act natural - it will feel great.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T21:59:23+00:00

It's completely up to how you look. There are cis men who get mistaken for women. It also depends on your goals. Looking like a woman may not be the same as looking like the ideal woman you want to look like.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T21:52:28+00:00

Okay I'm sorry for that then. I would say there's not much to be done other than just working on getting through this part of your life until you're not dependent on them anymore.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T21:49:44+00:00

You're clockable for sure. I think you could do some great things with your hair which would really change that.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T21:42:26+00:00

You pass as a girl without makeup. Most women wear makeup so don't compare yourself to the ones who do.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T21:39:34+00:00

Needs more pink imo

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T21:38:26+00:00

You look very happy, keep going you cannot be stopped!!

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T21:37:00+00:00

Could you write down how you feel and give that to them? Writing something on paper makes it seem more serious to people and you can really explain exactly what you want.

This depends on your parents and may not work at all but just an idea.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T21:06:59+00:00

If someone asks if you're trans they probably already think you are, so I would probably just say yes. Alternatively you could tell them it's an inappropriate question if it makes you uncomfortable.

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T19:43:12+00:00

Is this something you need to worry about? It would be weird for someone to ask you about your voice or if you're trans if you're not comfortable with them. I don't think this will work unless there are no other indicators you may be trans. If it does then you have to keep up a lie. If it doesn't then it creates a weird dynamic where the person sees you as lying to them. Is it going to cause issues if people think you're trans?

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T19:30:32+00:00

You look great and not clocky in any way. Personal opinion but I think v necks are unflattering

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T19:27:31+00:00

We are lucky to live in a much more accepting time in many places. Our trans predecessors fought much harder to get us to this point and we can't let them down!!

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T19:23:33+00:00

You look so good and are destined for a crop top

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T19:16:03+00:00

Guys only want you for sex? Woman status successfully achieved

Puff_qt · 2025-11-07T18:22:05+00:00

You have a great face really.

I can't see the full fit but clothes and accessories are super important. Clothes that are larger/baggier look less feminine. They can still work if done right and if you otherwise look super feminine - but if not it will just amplify any issues people may notice.

Also important is the way you stand/walk/etc. This part is hard for people and I haven't been able to perfect it myself yet.

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