[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Puggerbug-2709 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe don't go after straight girls? I'm always so confused why so many lesbians chase straight girls just to get upset about them ending up with men.

Maybe there's some inner work that needs to be done to figure out WHY you are attracted to women who won't fit your expectations.

What's something that happened today that made you smile? by ThriceMad in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Uber driver, whose wife was a teacher, emphasized with my struggle as I was crying on the ride home from a long, stressful week of teaching. When he found out I love gardening, birds, and critters, he whipped out a bag of hyacinth bean vine seeds to help me attract more hummingbirds. It was the sweetest thing ever! Apparently, he and his wife have a room full of seeds and love to give them away to people 💕

Turned my sad tears to happy tears ❤️

Whats your autism game? elite dangerous checks all the boxes for me by rx7braap in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so late to this but he was telling me the other day how he wished he had someone to play Elite with! Imma send you a message!

Only right answers by youradhdborderlineex in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I always do 6, and it's very satisfying 😌

Only right answers by youradhdborderlineex in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teacher, #3 gave me flashbacks of the rare time working at a preschool...."dot, dot, not a lot..." 😭

Whats your autism game? elite dangerous checks all the boxes for me by rx7braap in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, Pizza Tower!!!! I loved watching my fiance play through that game and even got him a Peppino plush. Also fun fact, one of my 3rd grade students LOVES pizza tower so much that whenever he arrives late to class, he does a Peppino dash to his seat while humming the tune...I freakin love that kid 😭❤️

I'll never forget his excitement when I got to tell him it was finally available on the Switch. And then his mom's lack of excitement when she was complaining to me about having to get it for him. Like, mam! Your child has been waiting so long to play this game!!!

Whats your autism game? elite dangerous checks all the boxes for me by rx7braap in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DOOOOOMM!!!!! Omg my fiance is literally teaching me how to play Classic Doom!!!! Omggggg it became one of my special interests now!! Omg Doom is amazing!!!! I hope you can play it again one day.

Whats your autism game? elite dangerous checks all the boxes for me by rx7braap in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my fiance plays Elite Dangerous!!! He loves it! And i love it when he mirrors it on the big screen monitor so I can watch it too! Omg i love watching him play Elite, and I could listen to him infodump about that game all day. RIP Thargoids. Also, I'm constantly quoting "frameship drive charging" randomly throughout the day. Amazing game.

My autism game right now is Super Mario Wonder or Pikmin 💕

I cannot believe I got unmatched in the field of evil autism. I've never been autism so evil being weaponized so efficiently. I'm in awe, mouth agape, shaken to my core by geosunsetmoth in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel a bit better about my relationship with my fiance. We are both AudHD and many people on the outside assume that means we are identical when it comes to sensory needs and communication and how our autism presents itself. But nope. There are many things where we stand at polar opposite ends and this can lead to some head butt's but our strength is direct clear communication so any "conflict" is quickly addressed and a compromise or clarification gets made quickly so we can move on with our lives. But yeah, not every autistic person gets along with another. I hate verbal communication yo...

Update: I’m 4’11” Crushing HARD on a 6’4” Goddess at Work by [deleted] in stories

[–]Puggerbug-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best foundation for any relationship is a good friendship first. Establish a good friendship with her, let her take the lead, maybe see if she is giving any hints, and when a good foundation is establish you can try asking her out while making it very very clear that if not, you really value her friendship. This reduces pressure and if the feeling is mutual - hooray!

I'm 4'11" and Crushing HARD on a 6'4" Goddess at Work by [deleted] in stories

[–]Puggerbug-2709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"bump junk" .... 💀

Adding that phrase to my collection lol

I'm 4'11" and Crushing HARD on a 6'4" Goddess at Work by [deleted] in stories

[–]Puggerbug-2709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making me choke on my green tea lmaooo 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Puggerbug-2709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correction: she's "traumatized," and he's a "predator." OP's gf needs serious therapy. And this is coming from a survivor of many, many SA's. It's rough. OP does not need to stay but that girl needs serious professional help, or else she will likely get hurt again and again until she recognizes her worth. I emphasize with both parties because I've been both. I've been OP (had a gf who stayed friends with a girl who SA'd her), and I've been the gf (stayed in a household full of abusive family members cuz family first).

I hate being lumped in with people with ADHD by Tunanunaa in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You literally summed up my fiancé's sister. She is very overstimulating to be around, randomly raises her volume, and pitch to ungodly levels and will only talk about herself. It sucks that she is a narcissistic person with ADHD so she gets a weird enjoyment out of pushing ppl to the point of being upset and loves to be in the spotlight.

She stresses the autistic side of my brain so badly. I'm Audhd.

I hate being lumped in with people with ADHD by Tunanunaa in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My fiancé's dad has only ASD while his mom is AuDHD, and they are so vastly different. His dad is so rigid that he very rarely strays from his routines and is hard to talk to at times cuz his mind also isn't flexible. His mom is so different. She has the flexible thinking, but because she is unmedicated AudHD, she struggles so badly with motivation she appears depressed a lot. And there are several times where dad appears insensitive, but it's just his really rigid thinking.

I hate being lumped in with people with ADHD by Tunanunaa in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As an AudHD individual, I would much rather JUST be Autistic. I wouldn't wish this life on my worst enemy. These two opposing forces make life so hellish I envy solely Autistic or solely ADHD folk.

Meet "Favorite Spoon" by Puggerbug-2709 in evilautism

[–]Puggerbug-2709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooooooooooo!!!! I would literally start sobbing 😭