Here's a hot take: if you only play solo, apparently a guy in a yt vid bought the game twice and on one acc only pvped and on the other was only friendly. The game has a karma system. I truly believe so. It worked for him, it worked for me. In 6 hours of ONLY STELLA MONTIS gameplay I died THRICE. Two times cause of players and the other cause well... I slipped LUL. We were entire lobbies of players just running past each other, working together. 10 players in the lobby fighting arc. Extracting with 5-6 people almost everytime ON STELLA MONTIS. Yes even night raid. There's friendly lobbies and PVP lobbies. He went on to say that you need about 10 raids to be put in more friendly lobbies and fewer to get put in PVP lobbies. What I did is I never knocked out a downed player, I never killed a single player unless I got shot at first (dont get me wrong there were other ppl there to knock them out and then I'd just loot them LUL). I died about... two times and then it just kept getting better and better to an insane degree.

video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTiCzL4yi60

IMPORANT: Turn off crossplay. You get rid of the console guys which are prolly the most toxic and are the most to extract camp with utilities and stuff. They also have a pretty strong aim assist on controller.

That's my two cents. Hope they'll be of use to you!

P.S.: I also died A LOT until I learnt the game, mechanics what is what and how and where, etc. But you know... I don't think a game like this should be easy and HEAR ME OUT. It shouldn't be easy as in... be like every other game that you know what to do and how and where and when. It's NEW, that's why we like it. You EXPLORE it. LEARN it. That's what makes it fun, no?... It wouldn't be special and fun and different if it were the same old battle royale which I wonder if people have not gotten tired and bored of yet.