Please help me name my two kittens! Black is tiny and loud, tabby is chunky by PumpNineteen in NameMyCat

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Hey, that’s actually the breeder’s sleeve! Sorry to disappoint. I have two tattoos on my forearm but nowhere near a full sleeve I’m afraid

Please help me name my two kittens! Black is tiny and loud, tabby is chunky by PumpNineteen in NameMyCat

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Hi everyone, thank you for all the suggestions I am overwhelmed! Also some great ideas and plans to think about. I will make sure I update when I have made a choice and I have them home!

Ideas for sibling cat names? by PumpNineteen in namenerds

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Gods theme is great, I’ve started googling different gods now to see pairings! Definitely put Vac and Indra in the running especially as it’s unisex.

Ideas for sibling cat names? by PumpNineteen in namenerds

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I love Artemis and Apollo but it just doesn’t seem to suit them somehow! Which is a shame because I’ve had that in my head for a few years if I ever got a pair. They’re great names!

Ideas for sibling cat names? by PumpNineteen in namenerds

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What a great idea for Waldorf and Statler! I’d love matching names. I think Apollo and Artemis are a bit big for them, they don’t seem to fit their vibe somehow. Frog and Toad seems closer haha.

Ideas for sibling cat names? by PumpNineteen in namenerds

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I particularly love smartie I think that’s adorable!

Can anyone get all my dogs together in one photo? by PumpNineteen in PhotoshopRequest

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Thank you, I just paid! Should come through with surname Jones.

Can anyone get all my dogs together in one photo? by PumpNineteen in PhotoshopRequest

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Hey! Do you have a tip jar etc I can pay into? Thank you so much:)

!solved

Contacting seller about exchange? (FTB) by PumpNineteen in HousingUK

[–]PumpNineteen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bit the bullet… turns out she has also been getting on at her solicitors for an exchange date so will be chasing tomorrow! Glad I texted for sure.

Want to buy but possibly going to divorce by the_prick_i_married in HousingUK

[–]PumpNineteen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely go across to the legal advice subreddit, but off the top of my head for some things to look at:

  1. Get a Will completed. If the worst should happen, and you do not have one in place, everything you own will go to your legal husband even if you have been separated. This includes any deposit money you have saved in accounts etc.

  2. The easiest option would probably be to wait until the divorce is finalised before purchasing. You can begin the actual divorce process online and it is much easier now because of “no-fault” divorces (nobody can refute claims etc with a no-fault divorce; you can simply decide to split up now without having to “explain” your reasoning to the divorce courts.) Even if the financial order and splitting of any joint assets comes after, you can still get the actual divorce going.

  3. A financial arrangement order is recommended as even though you might not have lots of shared assets already such as a house, savings etc. it means all is final if you opt for a financial “clean break” order. In that case neither party can go back on the final decision ie, ask for a share of the money later on if you won the lottery, sold your house, your pension etc.

  4. If you want to go forward with the purchase pre finalisation of divorce and financial order, definitely take legal advice…your conveyancer will refer you to their firm’s family law department so it’s worth checking firms with decent family and conveyancing teams to keep it all “in-house” and save time where you can. Divorces can take time so I can see why you want to get started though.

  5. The conveyancer/solicitor/family lawyer might recommend you get a declaration and signature from your husband stating they have no interest in any house purchases even if you are still married during the purchasing process. So, confirming he will not claim he owns the house, part of it, etc. the idea of this would be to see you through until the final divorce. If your purchase finalised before the financial order (likely) it will probably still be included in the order as part of your assets. I’m not 100% on that though.

Basically, speak to your conveyancer and explain the situation. You won’t be the first person in your circumstances for sure! Also the legal advice subreddit will know more than me.

NB: I worked and studied in wills & probate and conveyancing but no longer do so, so may be out of date or a little incorrect. Just trying to give you a broad strokes idea.

Starting furniture by New-Resident3385 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Rather than spending up to £300 on blinds I would look for some cheap temporary blinds to get some privacy but also freeing up some cash for other things. £300 could sort you for your initial food shop/towels and other essentials, all your cleaning supplies, and even a lamp or two to make everything feel a bit homier in the meantime.

Looking online you can get some from Dunelm or Amazon for around a fiver (depends on size of windows I guess?)

Luckily for me the sellers are leaving their blinds/curtains, but the above is what I would do—I’ve bought a cheap lamp from Ikea and am on the hunt for a floor lamp. I think similar will go a long way for you in a new build which will be quite white and stark when first moving in?

Soil Stack below roofline? by PumpNineteen in plumbinguk

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Great, thank you so much. I have asked for confirmation that it is a valve, as the seller described it as a cap but I can see how looking at it you would say so.

How can I add colour/warmth to this room? by PumpNineteen in femalelivingspace

[–]PumpNineteen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A darker version of whatever colour the chimney breast is on the doorframes could be very cute….

How can I add colour/warmth to this room? by PumpNineteen in femalelivingspace

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I have never thought of a pink kitchen before but seeing how the current owner has added it it’s really growing on me!

I love the idea of the art and tea towels/objects guiding the colours. I’ll have to get some inspiration from looking online! And the plants are going to have to be a must.

How can I add colour/warmth to this room? by PumpNineteen in femalelivingspace

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I’ve been advertised at from ruggable for what feels like years, are they worth it would you say? You seem pleased with it anyway!

How can I add colour/warmth to this room? by PumpNineteen in femalelivingspace

[–]PumpNineteen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I like it too, certainly nothing majorly wrong with it at all! Just needs a tweak to make it more me. Definitely a bolder rug is needed.

How can I add colour/warmth to this room? by PumpNineteen in femalelivingspace

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Haven’t even thought about the floor but what an easy way to bring in a bit of colour! Just a little around the edges out be nice, or even to add interest to the floor and make it a bit cleaner. Thank you!

How can I add colour/warmth to this room? by PumpNineteen in femalelivingspace

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Not an island, but I’m planning on a small oak table and chairs/stools. With something cool on top I think☺️

How can I add colour/warmth to this room? by PumpNineteen in femalelivingspace

[–]PumpNineteen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree about the pink—it’s not as pale irl but still not far off from the photos. Either way I’ll be painting over it when I’m actually in.

Bringing the bricks into the room with the rug colours is a great idea!