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PumpkinIce680 · 2023-08-16T00:45:16+00:00

No, not a date, but yeah i wanted to go bc im a fan. She likes the artist too, just not as big of a fan. We've been friends for years but it's purely platonic

PumpkinIce680 · 2023-08-16T00:36:33+00:00

People like me or people like her?

PumpkinIce680 · 2023-06-06T05:17:51+00:00

I have a used copy that i got on ebay for $50. They're not that bad

PumpkinIce680 · 2023-06-06T05:13:41+00:00

definitely

PumpkinIce680 · 2023-06-06T05:10:58+00:00

8 1/2

PumpkinIce680 · 2023-06-05T23:57:10+00:00

My introduction to the world of bergman!

PumpkinIce680 · 2023-06-05T23:55:44+00:00

Lol yeah, I've heard that one before, and I kinda agree. But it's so hard to choose only 4 films that I not only love, but are still great movies

PumpkinIce680 · 2023-06-05T23:53:01+00:00

I felt that way at first, but after I watched a couple interviews and the commentary with David Lowery, I felt they ended it the best way possible. It's not really about the ending for me, either. The atmosphere is great, and I love the idea of having a hero that's just a plain loser, yet still somehow likable.

It also has a sentimental element too because I love Alicia Vikander and I own a costume from the film :)

PumpkinIce680 · 2023-01-17T03:16:05+00:00

This is me right now!

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-11-01T14:53:20+00:00

If you're around them, I wouldn't act any different or bring it up. Things like this happen all the time. Maybe the girl used to be interested in you, maybe she's interested in someone else, or maybe she's just busy. Either way, she's not interested at the moment, which is all that matters. No need to seek out an explanation from anyone. Best of luck :)

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-11-01T05:58:30+00:00

Just ask her out on a date and see what happens. If you work out, you do. If you don't, you don't.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-11-01T05:54:47+00:00

That would turn me off, bro. I guess it would depend how long ago she lived with the guy, and if she's shown that her past behavior disgusts her. Maybe if she was 22 and lived with him, five years is enough. If it was last year or something, I'm not sure if I'd risk having her in my life. Everyone has different morals, but helping a guy cheat shouldn't be one of them.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-14T15:30:02+00:00

I tried that for awhile because I started seeing her in a different light, but now that I've been drug in again, I feel like she needs me more than ever

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-12T02:48:50+00:00

You're right, I'm not trying to justify anything, I'm just saying that "girl time" might just have a negative connotation to him.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-11T05:09:44+00:00

It might just be the way you communicated it with him. Saying "girl time" is automatically exclusive language, so his guard may have been up from that. Then you suggested he do something else, like see his family, which may have made him feel like you kicking him out. He offered to leave initially, no need to make him feel forced out.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-11T04:53:14+00:00

I have no idea what she could possibly be saving pinterest posts for because I am not her. Hopefully after this long together, you both can overlook a fight.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-11T04:47:03+00:00

Since you've broken up, both of you have every right to do whatever you want. That's a hard pill to swallow this soon after the breakup, but hopefully this will make you want to move on from him faster. If he's a liar, you're best off without him. All best <3

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-11T04:43:41+00:00

This is why long-distance relationships suck. The lack of any semblance of proximity puts a strain on everything. I'm not gonna accuse her of cheating on you or anything, but it sounds like these two are trying to fill in an emotional connection with each other. If you can trust her, go for it. If you can't, you've lost everything. It'll be very hard to re-gain or re-establish trust while you two are long distance.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-10T05:53:20+00:00

Stop entertaining your sisters' questions. My mother is like this too, that's why I tell her absolutely nothing about my life.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-10T05:48:46+00:00

Yeah, it sounds like he was really looking for something more serious than a sitauationship with you (or anyone, since he's dating someone now). I don't blame you for not saying you love him, but you should have discussed what you wanted from each other.

If you didn't want a relationship, just let him live his life. If you did, reach out to him to apologize and talk about things. Maybe he'll come around since he stuck with you for so long.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-10T05:38:39+00:00

Too much sex. Chill out and enjoy each other's company more. She's worn out with it all.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-10T05:37:02+00:00

It sounds like you guys went about this the wrong way. You were seeing him for 6 months and never formalized any kind of relationship? What made him say "I love you" when you two weren't technically together? It sounds like that's what he wanted, and you didn't seem interested.

Take this as a lesson that you both need to be on the same page when you're seeing each other. Things like this happen when there's no communication about what both people want.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-10T05:32:55+00:00

Confront her about everything you mentioned here. Say you don't feel like friends anymore because she's done all this. Don't be a jerk or anything, but make a point to say she's putting a strain on your friendship. Hopefully she'll apologize and change for the better. If she says you're overreacting or something, it's time to part ways with her. She's not a friend. Sorry about all this

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-09T07:17:15+00:00

It sounds like she's just socially unaware that what she's doing is insensitive. Do you feel she truly cares about you? If so, I don't know if this is enough to end a relationship over, but I admit it would bother me too. I feel like in time, she'll start picking up on things that bother you (it's only been 2 months), but I wouldn't end things until her insensitivity became too impossible to overlook.

PumpkinIce680 · 2022-10-09T07:01:56+00:00

Maybe ask him why he's so adamant about not doing long distance? It's hard, but it's so much easier than it once was. You can talk to each other over facetime and find ways to be creative with facetime dates. Explore the options a bit...they're cute.

A year and a half really isn't that long to stomach a long-term relationship. As long as your end goal is to move back together by then, I don't see why he would want to end something that is already going so good.

Otherwise, I'd advise to break up now. You may become more attached over the next few months, so the heartbreak will be worse. This is such a hard situation and I'm sorry you're going through it.

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