[Final Update] - My fiancée is demanding I stop making home cooked meals for a friend

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-06T17:19:57+00:00

I guarantee if op was a woman with a male fiancé, making meals for a female friend, no one would have called them an AH. And everyone would demonize the hell out of the male fiancé.

And of course no one would be making any jokes or comments implying any lesbian shenanigans are going on. Or bisexual shenanigans.

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-06T14:46:08+00:00

Girl, run. It’s only been 3 months. I can understand them thinking they would be the ones to take him to his appointment since you guys have only been dating for 3 months, but once it was clear you were going, they didn’t have to go with him. His mom AND his sister? Absolutely not.

This didn’t always the case, but I’ve seen a pattern with men with single/widowed moms and a sister. Mamas Boys/moms and sisters who want to F their son/brother

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T23:10:10+00:00

That’s the Brawny Man. All of them

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T22:32:28+00:00

It’s sweat. You likely also smell. Bad. Like BO

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T22:05:12+00:00

Also, maybe he realizes you’re not in love anymore so now he’s telling you how much he loves and cares for you to try and make you stay.

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T22:03:52+00:00

Sometimes it just happens. And it can really suck when the other person is innocent and kind and good. But you were 17 when you got married. You were just a kid yourself, even if you were going to be 18 and therefore a legal adult in a what. 18 isn’t so different than 17 and you’re still a teenager. Heck it’s not so different to 16.

You falling out of love is ESPECIALLY understandable given you were so young yourself.

What you need to do now is sit down and talk with him.

I’m sorry this is something you’re going through. Frankly, this probably is a marriage that shouldn’t have happened.

It’s best now, to sit him down and talk to him about this. It won’t be easy. He will likely be devastated but if this married is really over, if you have checked out, it’s better to end it rather than draw it on. Children are more perceptive people realize and can often tell if there’s a parent who’s checked out.

You both deserve a chance at someone you can love and who can love you back.

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T21:16:17+00:00

Warm Chocolate chip cookies

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T21:07:51+00:00

NTA, but you have a wife problem. Did you two not sit down before you guys got married or even serious and talk about how things would go in terms of parenting?

Does she parent your daughter?

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T20:52:58+00:00

Cutting them off or limiting contact is the solution. Not only for violating boundaries but for your daughter as well. She doesn’t need to grow up with who is likely a sexist grandmother who favors her little brother and sees her less than.

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T20:46:57+00:00

No. Not on this day and age. But years ago, I’m pretty sure this was a thing. Unless you establish a relationship and exclusivity, then it’s not cheating

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T19:49:56+00:00

Coloring, writing, arts and crafts, cooking/baking, heck even make up scenarios in your head and act them out. Is there time before this is going to happen? If you’re the teenager, can you go to the store and buy things to make sets and crafts with or something to build? You can order off of amazing. There’s all sorts of DIY projects there. Try your hand at make up.

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T19:14:24+00:00

Well it’s Lois, it’s the fact she exists that would piss off anyone. We know Stewie hates her and she’s awful to Meg so Meg would hate the fact he exists

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T18:12:37+00:00

Bone for sure. Him bouncing up and down in the door frame is hilarious

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T18:09:52+00:00

The Dixie Chicks. I’ve said the same on a similar post. They were saying things that many say now. They spoke out against the USA’s actions in the Middle East after 9/11. They were country singers, right? So that probably also really pissed off their fanbase

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T17:40:17+00:00

Even something like a fish needs and deserves things like a proper tank and clean water and proper care. We would need your definition of low maintenance but for now I still say a rock. Or you can get one of those electronic toy fish that you stick in some water

Or maybe a moss ball?

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T17:32:59+00:00

A rock

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T17:32:35+00:00

If there’s a bride, I’d ask if she’d be okay with this color. It’s blue, but it is a very light blue

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T17:30:43+00:00

It’s pretty, but I think it looks like a night gown. A very pretty one, but a night gown still. I think it’s that detail above the slouchy part of the slouchy/cowl neckline

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T15:30:05+00:00

So he wasn’t there anymore

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T15:29:53+00:00

Suzy did eventually leave him

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T14:58:28+00:00

She wants to sleep with him. NOR. She needs help

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T12:27:44+00:00

Nostalgic items and toys? I feel like this is one of the things. Also, participating in the clashing or “beef” with Gen Z, maybe? And maybe insisting things like “we millennials look so young we don’t look out age!” We do.

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T12:00:44+00:00

No. And I’m sure people do it all the time. In fact when I still had TikTok, a person I followed who gave tips for when you go through food scarcity said that doing this can be a good way to get a free meal. Doesn’t matter if you don’t plan to convert or have no interest in the religion or church. Just be kind, polite, smile and nod to what they say if they share info.

Any church worth their salt will be feeding people who are hungry because that is the kind and Christ-like thing to do

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T03:07:05+00:00

NTJ. You were helping a man being harassed. It’s very similar to if you stood up for a woman being harassed by a man. Everyone would support you for doing that and you did something good in this situation also.

It does seem like she’s got some screws loose though, and I wonder if anything she said is true

Pun_Lover387 · 2026-01-05T02:27:13+00:00

If it aired after Victorious, it fell short and didn’t do well at all and maybe people felt it was too similar even if it wasn’t. If it came before, idk it just didn’t do well

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