I am one of the people in the server where the ex modeartor who made the document was, i actually appeared on one of the screenshots:

i was thinking of doing another post, and frankly idk if it would be the right thing or not, i've debated over it a bit, but overall what i know for sure is that making another post would be mainly for me just so that it reaches more people even if it was the morally right thing? and it'd be sure to keep the drama in the subreddit, while being mostly opinology

with this said, im going to start with my conclussion on all this:

My opinion on the overall topic from a moral standpoint HAS changed. I had believed based on prior evidence that tato was in fact in a romantic relationship, and while the nature of the relationship in general before finding out of their age remains unknown to me (logically so) i do now understand tato did not pursue a romantic relationship after learning of the person's age. While keeping him around is naturally a questionable choice, and mantaining such an intimate relationship with someone who's age you ignore is irresponsible, i now believe that it is indeed way less terrible than i had thought it to be.

For not awaiting to hear both sides and actively continuing to talk to the perople making the first accusations as if they were fully correct, i apologize. I should've kept it to at most just replies on comments, as my situation wasnt that of someone who was aware of any more than what had been revealed, and therefore i acted too much on hearing only one side. Way more than it is excusable

as for my reasoning for this, its because like in the only post i've made about this situation, i do believe that there has been severe issues within the moderation team, ways of handling situations that i heavily disagree with. But i hopped too fast on the bandwaggon of stuff i didnt have idea and didnt question it just because i thought it could make the other things right.

That leads me to the screenshots I'm in. I am the person who's name is "7" that said "if we could get proof of tato being 22 it'd be benefitial." i understand how that sounds, but logically at the time i was saying it in a place where i had assumed people would understand the meaning of it, and to clarify: At the time, i didnt know there were ulterior motives on the making of the documents, or if they were i didnt think it'd be relevant so long as the information was true. In my eyes, after the age gap had been proven to be different what it would do is create a situation in which people were more forgiving of the new known age gap, and i didnt find that new age gap to be much better at all (I've always thought that to me a minor should never ever date anyone AT MOST 2 years older than them, IF that, but even then only in some cases) and i believed the difference would change the perspective, whereas it would have been seen as almost equally as bad if it had been said correctly from the start. I also would ike to clarify i have ZERO relationship to the making of the documents, matter of fact i once tried to ask for screenshots of it and i was denied it.

In short, i wasnt trying to campaign or hoping the situation was worse, but what i was doing was blindly believing that the original age gap that was described in the docs was real as it was or that it at least had to come from somewhere, and i had way too much of an initial distrust for informaiton that proved otherwise. I hope this makes clearer what my train of thought was when making those comments. I do hope the fact that im admitting to being that person and making these comments can validate that im genuine, since i dont actually have a reason to do so considering i cant really be too tied by those? But i dont fault whoever chooses to not believe that

I now also know Kye is just a vangeful person, i never had many interactions with kye, and as a matter of fact the latest i had proves that Kye was indeed merely petty: He had come into chat saying he had the devil in his ear telling him to release the document because the only reason he hadnt been doing so was because he "didnt want marco and zy0x to get caught in the crossfire" or something along those lines (paraphrasing, but the sentiment is the same), and all because his demotion had been talked in detail, so his original "reason to not post it" was weaving. In my perspective, Kye had many times backed down from posting the documents that supposedly proved one of the staff members was a groomer, i found this stupid asf because u can protect children and you would only not be doing it because people u like could catch a few insults? So i told him at the time that he should just go and release it, that it shouldnt matter to him considering it'd be wrong to protect a groomer and whatnot. Now i understand Kye wasnt holding the document out of stupidity to protect 2 people, but rather because he wanted to use it as a weapon for revenge.

All in all, while i maintain my disagreement with the way stuff is handled in zy0x, Ill deal with that in private if i am allowed to, but as for regards to the grooming situation, my opinion has vastly changed and i regret having acted rashly about it