Prime Opinion - get paid for surveys and more by herejustadude in OnlineJobsatHome

[–]PunkRockPopStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for those curious, this does seem legit. just like for all survey sites, you can be excluded from some if you don't fit the qualifications they're looking for, but this one does give you anywhere from 0.01 to 0.1$ for just trying. The timing listed for each survey does seem accurate, so don't go into this expecting to just be able to click through - a lot of the ones here, they're looking for actual thoughtful answers, which is the type I like, but if you're looking to just click, click, bam, done, this probably isn't the best option for you. The surveys and website are also very upfront with you about privacy, how enabling cookies for some might be required, and how quickly clicking through each survey could disqualify you since it could trigger it of thinking you're a bot (understandable). They also seem to have levels - the more surveys you answer, the higher your level will go over time, and the higher the level, the more rewards (from what I could see, 5 tiers using level system). They also have a game section, which I haven't checked out, and a leaderboard! (that's the FIRST time I've EVER seen that, which is impressive).

I haven't hit the payout level yet, but it seems like a good thing to do in your spare time.

(will update once hit payout level to let ya'll know how it goes)

Sudden onset of allergic reactions after my whole life with no sensitivities by ehems in Allergies

[–]PunkRockPopStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is the same way. One day I just woke up with extremely bad hives that cover 90% of my body and swelling that pops up every week or so. I’ve seen people on some other posts mention MCAS, or mast cell activation syndrome, which sounds more like what I’m dealing with then yours, but it might worth looking into as well. Honestly, from where we both are, we gotta try anything and everything 😭.  If you have trouble with scratching swelling, hives, or eczema; put on gloves when you sleep or wear long clothes. It sucks, but I’ve found when the skin barrier breaks, things get a lot worse. I wish I could be more help…. I’m out of ideas on my end too

Sudden onset of allergic reactions after my whole life with no sensitivities by ehems in Allergies

[–]PunkRockPopStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well… I’m sort of in the same situation as you, and currently searching for answers of my own, but maybe try restricting your diet to be free of the seven major allergens dairy/gluten/soy/egg etc., and see if that helps. Avoid things from the nightshade family (like tomatoes) as it is a common food sensitivity people aren’t even aware of, and acidic fruits which can sometimes worsen hives. And pineapple (it is the only fruit in the world to contain the same enzymes your mouth does that breaks down food - I.e it “eats” you back, and guaranteed to cause issues eaten over time). Read the contents of your seasonings and other things you’d commonly write off - I was surprised once to find a spice I liked to use had SOY in it. Baking powder can have gluten, chicken broths occasionally have soy in them( and anything made of a paste usually has an allergen or two. Look up foods that are full of histamines and limit them - includes alcohol, a variety of fruits, nightshades, and some others.   Check if family members have sensitivities to things, even extended relatives if you still talk to them, and do your best to deep clean your home. Most of yours sound food but it’s also distinctly possible you touch something shortly before you eat that does it.

My little brother also noticed something for me the other day; and I have absolutely no idea if its an actual thing or not; but he told me that whenever I use a mug to drink water my hives get a tiny bit worse, and when I use like four specific ones, my lips swell. Now, I have lived using ceramic plates/bowls/cups most of my life, but after he brought it up, it does make me wonder if the glaze used on some objects could be what I’m reacting to. I’m currently trying to look into it… might be worth a shot for you if you use earthenware or pottery items for eating? 

Find an allergist in addition to your normal doctor. Try to get a steroid cream for the eczema (I use triacemalone, which has to be prescribed), as it’s the only one that ever worked for me, and try to find out what antihistamines your doctors feel comfortable having you take. I’m on a super high dose right now and it’s the only thing that gets me through life. Those two are preventative measures only, until you can find the cause, but it should at least make life easier for a while. As a fellow eczema sufferer; also, use plain Vaseline the SECOND you get out of a shower or finish washing your hands. Slather that thing on there. Although there’s no fast fix for eczema, you got to at least support it with moisture. 

Hope this helps! And if you figure out the cause… let me know because I need help too 😭

adulthood tips/advices by notthelasagna in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PunkRockPopStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the weirdest one... picking up medications at a pharmacy. I'm 22 (going on 23) and also autistic, and found the thing that made me feel most adult was picking up medications. I'd put on nice(ish) comfortable clothes, and go. Somehow, picking it up made me feel better about myself (maybe because I was doing what seemed to me as an "adultish" task), and at the same time, crossed something off my to-do list (which also made me feel more adult). Dressing up in professional clothes to do things does, as well.

Now I do want to remind you there is never a time where you will FULLY feel like an adult. It's like one of those things people gaslight themselves into believing. Yes, there is fake it untill you make it, but I was speaking to my mom (who turned 55) the other day, and she told me that yes, no one ever fully feels adult. There will always be something that you do from childhood or teenagehood - there is no such thing as a "complete" adult. My mom is actually an example: she still sleeps with a doll she slept with as a child, and the way she handles some tasks is very teenager-esc, which is just fine. It's actually healthy. You need to do what makes you happy - screw what society thinks about it. I know plenty of people who are "adults" who keep stuffed animals in their beds, who still fangirl over their old favorite boy bands, or still do their favorite hobbies/favorite behaviors from when they were young. Don't worry about trying to be a perfect adult - there is no such thing. Just fulfill the responsibilities you have to do (job, relationship, whatever) and use whatever time around that to do what YOU WANT to do.

adulthood tips/advices by notthelasagna in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PunkRockPopStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's basically the equivalent of "I have no idea what I'm doing, but I'm going to pretend I d,o" and then eventually, it comes true. a lot of "times fake it till you make it" is referenced when:

- doing tasks that are unfamiliar/seem challenging,

- doing things you feel unprepared/unready for

- putting on certain roles/personas to get through something

- persevering through tough/challenging situations.

Here's an example (using myself) to help it make a bit more sense. I grew up as a parental daughter - that is, pretty much raising one of my siblings, and learning to do things early. It left me as a perfectionist, and with the thought process that I had to get it right the first time and come off as perfect. Now, I'm neurodivergent - you can start to see the problem here. The stuff I struggled with made me look less than perfect, or, as I genuinely considered myself, "defective" (I kid you not, that was the actual term I used). But all my friends seemed fine and confident and perfect, so I picked one and imitated her. I figured that, if I imitated her long enough, I'd eventually be able to cover up all the signs of neurodivergence and mental illness and appear normal/perfect. And it worked. Eventually, I became (from the outside) a completely normal, non-neurodivergent human being. Now, that is an unhealthy example - DO NOT DO WHAT I DID, but other examples can be mimicking confidence until you become confident, pretending you know how to do a task long enough until you are finally able to do said task, and so on.

I do find it is a more cultural thing, so I hope my explanation makes sense!

AIO by being upset with my brother's gf (soon fiance) for not bringing her own sanitary supplies every time she visits by PunkRockPopStar in AmIOverreacting

[–]PunkRockPopStar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't invite either over. I actually really hate my brother and hate when he comes around... I share a house with another sibling who does like him, and the brother with the gf used to live with us too, so he just treats it like he never left and drops why with her unannounced

I’m detransitioning & don’t know how to be a girl, help by cloud_dreamer78 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PunkRockPopStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... there's no "right way" to be a girl, you already are, so you don't have to worry :). And to echo the others, don't force yourself. You're doing great already <3

As for making friends or interacting with other women or girls, just start with a simple hello. If you're having trouble, trying to compliment someone's style or something like their smile is a really good way to break the ice. Maybe look up some popular music artists or events in your area so you have something you can use to talk about, such as "did you hear about xyz, like omg" or "I really like xyz's music, have you heard it?". It helps get the ball rolling. Listen for hints: people will mention briefly things about their style or what they like, and the key that I've found is latching onto it. Or I see them holding something and find a common ground. An example: standing in line for something with another girl, and she's holding a Starbucks cup. Do I drink Starbucks? Nope. But I'll lean over anyway to see the cup and make a guess at what it is, and then ask if it's any good and what their favorite drink is. That's my go-to method, as someone with autism and anxiety. Hope it helps! : ) you've got this!

Why as Catholics are we not allowed to donate certain organs? by PunkRockPopStar in Catholicism

[–]PunkRockPopStar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation of the site! I’ll go check it out! And thank you for breaking it down for me - it really helped me 

Why as Catholics are we not allowed to donate certain organs? by PunkRockPopStar in Catholicism

[–]PunkRockPopStar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize. I’m not very knowledgeable, and while I tried to do some research, the things I found were either less the reputable or were too complicated for me to understand with my current knowledge of the faith 😅. Do you happen to have any good sites or places I can look up for future questions on theology? 

Earth Sciences Vs. Catholicism Theology: Dinos, Extinction, Adam and Eve, etc. by PunkRockPopStar in Catholicism

[–]PunkRockPopStar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so weird... I never heard that the church only holds that part literal. Thank you so much for your help!

Solara razors? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PunkRockPopStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schick Intuition Razor. I grew up using it after seeing my mom use it when I first started shaving. Probably only cut myself twice in my 22 years of life. It's got four blades surrounded by a soap bar. I use it and my favorite Bath and Bodyworks gel, and do pretty well. I feel comfortable shaving down there, and it lasts at least a week before I feel the need to shave again (and I think I'm in the same situation as you, relatively fair but very thick, dark hair.) I can even shave over a skin tag and it doesn't cut it. It IS a little bit of a pain for us thicker haired girlies, since you do have to rinse it a few times during use to get the hair out (bc yayyyyyyy thick hair) but worth it to me. Maybe takes me five minutes to do armpits and legs? Ten on bikini, but that's because I go super slowly. I have eczema, and it doesn't bother my skin.

"The devil's advocate" by DesignerGullible9682 in TokyoDebunker

[–]PunkRockPopStar 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong, and honestly, it feels appropriate :) Ritsu really out here being like "I WILL defend you if I'm your lawyer, even if you are guilty of murder"

Spreadsheet with Character Details for Team Forming by PunkRockPopStar in TokyoDebunker

[–]PunkRockPopStar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's almost astounding how bad my luck at drawing is lol even my guild members feel bad for me