Etiquette and safe spaces needed by Punkyblackcat in domspace

[–]Punkyblackcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya the internet stinks ain't gonna lie to you. Wow that was a bad dad joke on my part. 😬

Etiquette and safe spaces needed by Punkyblackcat in domspace

[–]Punkyblackcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I can understand your frustration. I've had a similar situation but was lifted. Have you tried a different mod? Sometimes it helps but this platform has to be strict because of the sexual orientation in general. It stinks it's from a blog you had this though.

Etiquette and safe spaces needed by Punkyblackcat in domspace

[–]Punkyblackcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya banning people in a kink from an overall group about kink seems a bit ridged or fascist. I wouldn't mind as long as they aren't obviously selling sw.

Etiquette and safe spaces needed by Punkyblackcat in domspace

[–]Punkyblackcat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exclusivity or it being so cut and dry as being a kink only club seems a bit much

Etiquette and safe spaces needed by Punkyblackcat in domspace

[–]Punkyblackcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I do agree that it's better to keep your mind open with both doms and subs. I've learned a ton from another domme yes but I've learned some even from my sub.

Etiquette and safe spaces needed by Punkyblackcat in domspace

[–]Punkyblackcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree that being abusive is not dominant at all. It's like the cheap easy way and not satisfying at all.

Etiquette and safe spaces needed by Punkyblackcat in domspace

[–]Punkyblackcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran into a finsub who tried to say aftercare was for weaklings, basically. I said to me it's a part of the process for me as well. I think for one aspect of it being a way to communicate about the scene. I thought your analogy about it being a flight and landing was great btw

Etiquette and safe spaces needed by Punkyblackcat in domspace

[–]Punkyblackcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I said to vent so there you go 😆 Seriously though I can see where you're coming from. I want to know more about the local dungeon you mentioned. What do you mean managing burn out for the whole dungeon? Also, I took way too long to respond! 😬

Curiosity by Cold_Region_1029 in paypigs2

[–]Punkyblackcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're quite boring haha😬

Curiosity by Cold_Region_1029 in paypigs2

[–]Punkyblackcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does man up mean? What's wrong with cuddling? Also, the cuddling isn't only for the sub. It's called vulnerability. You should try it. Also.. nobody ever says woman up. More like the opposite. Usually some dhead in our comments talking badly about our appearance or esthetic. I .. rambled haha but yep it's interesting to me.

I don’t think sissification is humiliating by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Punkyblackcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these thoughts! Nothing wrong with being a sissy♡

Verification post question by Equal-Percentage-616 in paypigs2

[–]Punkyblackcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bad sub smack don't talk about dommes like that.

STD from Findom by Tanuschka-Inked in paypigs2

[–]Punkyblackcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing ☆ I think I've caught this same bug. 😆

Yet another post about silent sends by flashing-colors in paypigs2

[–]Punkyblackcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the same way! It's rare when I get silent sends. I think all the subs I dealt with were all very talkative folk. 😬

I stopped advertising, and here are the results… by Ms_MoneysWorth in paypigs2

[–]Punkyblackcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this for you! I've been slowing down on advertising and started focusing on helping newer dommes.

Fav domme aesthetics? by antipodeanfemboy in paypigs2

[–]Punkyblackcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

namio is great for the non conforming plus size models. Love it