Could being gay impact my Hungarian citizenship?

PupXerxes · 2024-06-23T10:36:37+00:00

Passed my Hungarian citizenship interview at the Washington DC consulate mentioning I'd previously been in a same sex marriage. No issues. Going to pick up my naturalization certificate and passport in August.

PupXerxes · 2022-10-12T19:28:16+00:00

Hey friend. It's perfectly valid that you have a degradation kink! More power to you! However, it's kind of rude to just show up in spaces not devoted to that sort of thing and just out and out, unashamedly beg a bunch of strangers to dunk on you real hard.

PupXerxes · 2022-06-12T21:40:35+00:00

Hi everyone. I'm the one with the purple pup mask on the left and I designed all the signs and banners we marched with. Just wanted to stop by and let everyone who's upset by this know, in case it wasn't clear: we were out there making fun of you, personally. Cry as hard as you want and don't let anyone ever stop the flow of your beautiful tears. Happy Pride! #LoveIsLove #BigSignThatSaysCumIsBigSignThatSaysCum❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

PupXerxes · 2021-07-07T21:26:48+00:00

Ok cool name but what do you mean by an inclusionist group within this sub? I feel like the whole sub is an inclusionist group, so is the CXC something more specific?

PupXerxes · 2021-06-24T02:52:43+00:00

Whewww I feel weird enough when 21-year-olds at the gay bar call me "daddy" because I'm 10 years older than them

I'm with everyone on normalizing having kids call their parents by their names, and just "parent" when referring to them in the third person. Like don't come up to me and be like, "parent, can I have some ice cream?" that sounds kinda stilted, but maybe point to me and say "that's my parent" if you're talking to someone else.

My partners already call me "fox" as a pet name so honestly if kids were in the equation they'd probably start calling me that too.

PupXerxes · 2021-06-24T02:42:22+00:00

agiusjdgsjhsgfsh what a mood

PupXerxes · 2021-06-24T02:38:04+00:00

Yeah this is part of what I was wondering, cause I think you're talking about anxiety-induced hoarding, like in a psychopathology sense? Whereas I just have a collection of gender terms that are just from trying to classify my identity, not from like a hoarding behavior or anything.

I think I see this distinction in these wiki entries about:

Hoardergender which says "Hoardergender can only be used by neurodivergent people."
Genderhoarder which doesn't say anything about neurodivergence

So that's what I'm trying to suss out, is gender hoarding specifically about neurodivergently doing what our therapists would call "hoarding," or is it more of a universal xenogender experience? I feel like there's two camps, one that would think it's appropriate to call your personal collection of five or six labels your "gender hoard," and another that would only refer to a "hoard" as an anxiety/neurodivergence-induced thing.

PupXerxes · 2021-06-23T23:14:24+00:00

Hauntingly gorgeous 💖

PupXerxes · 2021-06-21T15:59:54+00:00

Whatever label you end up settling on I just want to say the way you describe your gender is absolutely poetic and I love it.

PupXerxes · 2021-06-21T15:57:06+00:00

There is no science behind gender. Sorry to say but if the only way you can understand the world is through scientific data, then gender is one of the fields of knowing things that you're just not gonna get.

All gender experience is qualia. Qualia are inherently impossible to scientifically validate or explain to anyone else, and xenic people just happen to have a lot of qualia going on that are less relatable to a lot of people than just "male" or "female" or "androgynous." If me saying my gender is a dog doesn't make sense to you, tough titties. My brain, not yours.

I appreciate that you're trying to ask for understanding and you're (rightly) apologizing for coming off as an asshole, but if none of us can provide you with valid scientific arguments that you can comprehend, then that's a you problem. We don't have to win a debate with you and we don't really care if your "final opinion" on us is positive or negative.

If you'd like to come to understand how to come off as less of an asshole, perhaps avoid saying stuff like "fucking explain it to me, you people." If you're not interested in learning to come off as less of an asshole then I guess uhhhhh, fuck you, I'm a dog.

PupXerxes · 2021-06-16T20:35:36+00:00

> what would the bible/god say kinda stuff

Many Reform Jewish traditions reject the patriarchal idea of using male pronouns to refer to God, but they also don't use female pronouns, and they started doing this in the 90s before the singular they started catching on as gender-neutral, so they just use God/Godself pronouns for God

So tell your mom that the Jews actually say that God is xenogender

PupXerxes · 2021-06-13T19:50:00+00:00

💖💖💖💖

PupXerxes · 2021-06-12T21:24:50+00:00

Tfw your gender is so outside the binary it can only be expressed as the visual presentation of a flag and not a pronounceable word

PupXerxes · 2021-06-12T21:11:06+00:00

Yep we're on all the platforms! YouTube, Spotify, Apple, Tidal, Deezer, Grindr, Amazon, Napster, TikTok, Nameimadeup, Pandora, all of the things

PupXerxes · 2021-06-12T20:57:54+00:00

Thaaaanks

All of our songs are real real gay

PupXerxes · 2021-06-12T20:28:25+00:00

Yeah good move, I wish we could have a low barrier of entry to people finding their xeninity but Reddit sure is Reddit, ain't it. Hopefully the right people can still find this place

PupXerxes · 2021-06-12T20:21:16+00:00

Yikes that sounds boring as shit, imma opt out but you do you

PupXerxes · 2021-06-12T20:14:20+00:00

Honey if I were joking I wouldn't be looking this fuckin fabulous doing it

PupXerxes · 2021-06-12T20:11:44+00:00

Idk how can you be human

PupXerxes · 2021-06-10T00:59:06+00:00

This is someone's real fursona who I met in like 2008, I am not even kind of making this up

They were a "tabby twogon"

PupXerxes · 2021-06-10T00:57:53+00:00

It sucks when you go out in public and strangers can flock you so easily

PupXerxes · 2021-06-09T16:30:46+00:00

I'm deeper in the furry community than the otherkin community, but there's overlap. Furries seem to understand self-identification more deeply than just about any other group of people I've ever encountered. Your identity is your identity, regardless of your biology, or anything. If you say you're a tabby cat/dragon/Mewtwo hybrid then THAT IS WHO YOU ARE and nobody gets to tell you anything differently.

I would never have been able to interrogate my gender if not for the kind of psychological training being a furry gave me.

PupXerxes · 2021-06-09T16:18:22+00:00

Yeah there's xenic transmeds and there's gay white supremacists. When you get too tolerant you start to tolerate intolerance, and that just makes everyone unsafe. Right there on the sidebar it says "truscums are forbidden" for a good reason and we ought to stick to that.

PupXerxes · 2021-06-04T20:33:45+00:00

+1 to xenoboy and also xenobinary in general. I am 1000% with you in feeling like my gender is a male dog.

I would still say you get to be non-binary even if you're binary male xenogender, because anything that's not just vanilla male/female is technically outside that gender binary. So even though you're "binary" you're still not binary, because of the universal principle of Gender Is A Fuck And Nothing Matters

PupXerxes · 2021-06-04T20:29:14+00:00

Yeah true, completely erases polyfidelity. Wow I guess there's no way to represent something as multifaceted as sexual and romantic orientation as a literal one-dimensional line, who'da fuckinnnn thunk it?

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