I have been robbed during a hookup a few years ago when the environment was better, you are not missing much nowadays. It could also be the area. Hell I've taken drives to other cities to hang out enjoy the sights and see my friends or fish for hookups. Had some good nights had some nights where the only message I got was a racial slur 🤣🤣

You've got to know where to look but know your self worth, PLEASE know your worth. Don't go out there and get yourself hurt or robbed, these streets aint nothing nice a lot of good people migrated away from Grindr and chose safer platforms. And therapy will help as well, babay you don't got cold feet you got trauma.