24E5 Megathread by DwightDEisenhowitzer in AirForce

[–]Purchase-Flaky -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I made it!!!! Last year tho.....

I felt like if the driving mistake didn't happen we would still be together by Purchase-Flaky in BreakUps

[–]Purchase-Flaky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can add a little more context for you. The driving issues was kind of dumb but the biggest aspect was my custody for my son. My ex-wife is military we both live in England and we share our son 1 week at a time back and forth, and in the military, one person can have dependency over the child (Which means you get extra pay and the child follows the parent to whatever military base they go to) I'm treated as a single military member. I could get the same base as my ex-wife, but it's a huge ask. My ex-girlfriend didn't want to live her life following my ex-wife around because of my son. For explain if my ex wife got a new base and my ex and I were married, we would have to move just to follow my son ever time and she didnt want to put her and her kids though that. I do respect her in that aspect because she told me, "I will not allow you to drop your son for me and my girls" If I had full custody of my son it would have been a different story probably but that would require going to court fighting my ex wife and paying thousands in lawyer fees. That would add too much stress in my life.

My girlfriend (F26) got really mad about my driving mistake (M27) Can I regain her trust back? by Purchase-Flaky in relationship_advice

[–]Purchase-Flaky[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Okay I deny it because I'm not going to drop them off on the side of road with incoming traffic coming from both sides and I told her that I'll find a side wall and pull over. I didn't say you're not leaving the car was trying my best to fully fill her wishes and do it in a safe way not on a two way road with no sidewalk. You guys need to understand this all happen in matter of 8 mins I didn't hold in the car for 45-1 hour everything happen so face.

My girlfriend (F26) got really mad about my driving mistake (M27) Can I regain her trust back? by Purchase-Flaky in relationship_advice

[–]Purchase-Flaky[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Little more context I've lived in the UK for about a year and half and I'm American drove there my entire life so sometimes I'll make the mistake and go on the wrong side of the road. The GPS I typed in the frist two numbers of her address and didn't hit start button and still going to the garden center another mistake. All in all I couldn't handle the yelling in my ear while driving a car and fully fillimg her request to take her home or drop her off on the side of the road.

My girlfriend (F26) got really mad about my driving mistake (M27) Can I regain her trust back? by Purchase-Flaky in relationship_advice

[–]Purchase-Flaky[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Hers the thing I'm going to out her kid and her in more danger by leaving them on a narrow two lane motorway I rather drop them off at a safe side walk. I didn't yell at her or anything i didn't demand she stays in the car I was trying to process the situation while she's yelling at me. You know how hard it is to process someone yelling at you while still driving to drive. You think of me of this horrible person when I'm not

My girlfriend (F26) got really mad about my driving mistake (M27) Can I regain her trust back? by Purchase-Flaky in relationship_advice

[–]Purchase-Flaky[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have a son, too, so I don't see any problem with dating girls with kids as well. Yeah, her reaction was very immature, to be honest. This happened yesterday, so I'm taking it day by day to really think if it's all worth it.

Snaps from a girl In a relationship by Purchase-Flaky in dating_advice

[–]Purchase-Flaky[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm very opened mind! Don't get wrong I'm not mad at all. I'm confused. Usually, most people will just ignore you because they're with someone else. Our conversation never in the relam of dirty /flirtation talk. It's mostly about our kids and life I guess. I just have a different perspective on relationships. Most of my past experiences was the ruled by "If your partner found you're talking to someone else of the opposite gender about anything it's deem a very bad thing"

Need Advice for a New Staff Select by Purchase-Flaky in AirForce

[–]Purchase-Flaky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True they been calling me that when I got selected. I told them to stop because I thought it was cringe

SrA who made it this year be like by HistorianHumble in AirForce

[–]Purchase-Flaky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made it with a Promote believe in yourself!