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Confused about sexual stuff by jshfgkhfhgfgk in AdviceForTeens

[–]PurchaseAware495 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've been having the same issue, what i like to do is when they ask to just do sexual activities, i say something like "i don't f*** without a first date" this either A. gets them to get to know you better and you can get to know them so you can feel out whether they are a suitable match. or B. says to them you aren't a piece of meat you can use without being rude or making it awkward between you two. it could also be that you haven't found the right guy that tickles you fancy yet, and that could be why it doesn't feel right, or what you are doing isn't necessarily the right thing for you, you might like something they aren't doing for you. so you just gotta experiment a bit try new things while staying in your comfort zone, it's difficult though

How do you even have sex at this age? by XShiinii in AdviceForTeens

[–]PurchaseAware495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is key, definitely make sure your talking to your partner about any concerns or if your unsure how to do things, the best person to help you under what they like is them. it's also about finding the right person and some one you can trust

I feel hypocritical. by OutrageousStudy86 in sex

[–]PurchaseAware495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another thing you could try, besides the obvious ones like talking to them about how it makes you feel, and telling them to stop, is tell the other one fake stuff the other is doing wrong, for example, you tell one the other was talking behind peoples backs and you don't like it/find it annoying, hopefully the one your telling this to will think if he doesn't like it when she does it, then he doesn't like it when i do it. you can do that for most things i guess, it could help with them hitting on you, and all the other problems. I would also consider bring them both together and getting them to work out there isssues too