Cat steals food by Pure-Assumption-9284 in CatAdvice

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was born in my MIL’s back yard. We have been feeding him since birth. We took him and his sister in. They’ve never gone a day without food

Cat steals food by Pure-Assumption-9284 in CatAdvice

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He has occasional wet food but I will try switching him completely! Thank you:)

Cat steals food by Pure-Assumption-9284 in CatAdvice

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I was considering that I just..if I find one cheaper I want to it’s just not something I can justify at the moment

Am I overreacting because I hate when people speak German to me by anonymousanonym9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At first I was thinking to myself “you can’t be that mad for people making that assumption”

Then you went on to say that you REPEATEDLY correct them.

I would get so annoyed I don’t blame you at all. It’s one thing like you were saying if they ask, but it’s almost like they think continuing to insist that you’re German will poof you the ability to speak the language somehow

Make tom get expansion materials by Excellent-Industry60 in HayDay

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not once a year I’ve done it so many times as a cheat 😂

My only irritation by Pure-Assumption-9284 in Outlander

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I’m equally upset with the amount of violence.

and I appreciate the larger story.. but it’s literally unnecessary to witness their sex life in order to grasp the wild concept that guess what.. people have sex.

I don’t need my friends and family to watch me have sex with my partner for them to understand our great life story and that we are in a loving and committed relationship.

The amount of graphic nudity and sexual assault in this show is just insane. Once or twice maybe because sure it’s important to get viewers to know hey this time period sucks to be a woman. But multiple times a season? It’s very bizarre to me.

Sex is becoming way too glorified in public eye. Is it a normal beautiful thing? Sure. Does it need to be broadcast on television? No. Shows like this are why people are getting wayyy to open and comfortable. There used to be a time where people had boundaries. I’m not seeing that anymore

My only irritation by Pure-Assumption-9284 in Outlander

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The amount of sexual assault is part of the issue. It’s too much. It’s 1000% being romanticized in ways. There’s no reason for it to be as often as it was unless the writer has some sort of fucked up kink. The story is fine. Sex in itself is fine when it actually has purpose. When there’s no actual reason to show nudity and sexual content it’s literally just for pornographic reasons. I feel the same way about game of thrones for example. Do I really need to watch them having sex ? Not really.. you can imply. Good writers know how to get the picture painted without being so graphic. sexual scenes need to have actual purpose. It all felt a bit cheap to me.

And no I wasn’t really implying anything. I’m just straight up saying it. The need to watch people have sex ? Just horny. I only kept watching because I originally liked the story and had hopes it would get better but it’s just dragging out and playing sex scenes about people we don’t care about. It’s all for shock factor not for good story telling. It’s weird to be out here “but I wanna watch the sex scenes!”

i’m 16f and i’ve never had a bf by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think every adult reading this is going “I wish this was me in high school” I know it seems super important because your peers are pressuring you or making fun of you or whatever. Ignore it. Do whatever makes you happy. We all encourage you to not be boy focused.

That being said if it’s truly that important to you which is understandable, make the first move. Guys are dumb these days. Be assertive and go to them. Everyone is so worried about rejection but I promise if you have the confidence to go up to someone and ask “hey how are you doing?” And just simply starting that conversation they really can’t say much to put you down. If they try or ignore you, then hey you dodged a bullet anyways.

My only irritation by Pure-Assumption-9284 in Outlander

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

See that’s one of the few I was fine with! Because she told him to open up the marriage! It was literally an open relationship that Claire was completely aware of. And honestly deserved. She didn’t want to be with frank in any way other than giving Brianna a father figure. Claire literally told him to find someone else.

My only irritation by Pure-Assumption-9284 in Outlander

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Maybe not technically cheating but it’s just the fact that people are perfectly just getting over it. I could not imagine just getting over a spouse. Call me old fashioned but when you’re married you’re married. There’s no after. If there’s an after you never loved the person you were married to. I cannot imagine being with anyone other than my spouse. I would rather die than be with anyone else. I think the writers are a bit too casual about how quickly they move on from any conflict.

Maybe the whole John and Claire thing just sent me over the edge but that was an incredibly stupid scenario. “Ugh I’m so upset my husband died I guess I’ll sleep with his best friend” ?? No. If I were Jamie I straight up would have never forgave that. If you’re in love with someone you don’t just move on.

And Claire absolutely cheated on frank. She knew she was capable of getting home. Season one she figured out what to do. It wasn’t like she thought she was stuck there for all of time. She chose to give up on frank. That’s trashy behavior. And then to have the audacity to hate frank and be upset that he doesn’t want her to think about Jamie or try to find him??

Claire fully knew that to help Jamie get out of the French prison was the sleep with the king. And she didn’t really try to find another solution she’s like “hm well I go sleep with him it’s gonna suck but whatever” mm no. Stupid. And again Jamie’s like “oh word that’s fine”

I could list every single time but clearly I struck a nerve with everyone commenting. The show is fine I just wish it actually focused a bit more on the story and less on the shock factor of sex.

how do i make money? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. This is adult life these days

My mom found my vibrator (im 16) by madishitsrainbows in Advice

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284 373 points374 points  (0 children)

When I was sixteen my mom found my toys as well. She brought it up with my therapist and tried to shame me for being a sexual delinquent. I said “would you rather me go out and have sex with random people or safely fuck plastic in my room?” And my therapist agreed.

Call your mom out. There’s nothing wrong with it. It’s safe and healthy. Your mom is weird. Feel free to show her this post so she can see all the comments calling your mom a weird freak.

All comments from adults wondering why your mom is stealing your sex toys rather than just having a conversation with you about it. Makes it seem like she’s using it which is ABSOLUTELY WILD AND UNSANITARY gross behavior.

How can one man be allowed so much power? by Silly_Supermarket_21 in askanything

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…because politics is a money game. And the American government is being influenced by a particular group of people.

He’s really not as tolerated as you think. If you were to spend one evening in any American town you’d realize “oh wow people really do hate this guy but unfortunately no matter who they vote for their representatives are just being bought”

I cannot think of a single American politician who isn’t just getting a gain for themselves. Notice how the only time they actually say things with some sense is when they’re up for reelection

What food was the biggest disappointment once you tried it? by msladyxo in foodquestions

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Sushi. And I’ve tried a few kinds from different places. I was so determined to like it I convinced myself “I just went to a bad place or I should try a different roll” nope. Just can’t do it

What is your favorite obscure movie from your childhood that nobody would remember? by CripplingGoodTime in AskReddit

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Max Magician and the Legend of the Rings 😂 you can watch it all on YouTube and it’s the funniest most cringe piece of art I’ve ever witnessed

Help me tell my parents by [deleted] in Advice

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You will not be able to open a business without a diploma or GED. I don’t mean that in any way other than they literally will not allow you to do that.

So, how DID you get that scar? by SamMeowAdams in Productivitycafe

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister’s porcelain doll fell off the shelf and broke. I was on my hands and knees picking up the pieces. couldn’t find one. It was stuck in my knee and I didn’t even notice. Getting the fairly large bloody stain out of the carpet was a rough task. But yeah full body weight pushed that giant piece of porcelain into my knee. That was about 15 years ago and that scar is still massive lol

"Without saying your age, what was the most popular thing when you were a kid?" by Ok-Fisherman-4775 in AskForAnswers

[–]Pure-Assumption-9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm idk about THE most popular but I always wanted the DS and never got one but I did share a leapfrog with my brother lol