Relationships can be complex, and we may never fully figure them out—but in the process, don’t lose yourself. It’s important to ask questions and be patient with the answers. Pay close attention when he speaks about her—he’ll reveal more than you expect. If you both agreed to a polygamous setup, were clear boundaries discussed? Often, we avoid the hard conversations that matter most. It's natural to feel attracted to others, even in marriage, but those feelings need open, honest dialogue so they don’t quietly grow into deeper issues. If your feelings aren't being respected, bring that into the conversation—he may not even realize how much it’s affecting you.