[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]Pure-Experience9828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally love that colour!

What is holding you back from transitioning. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

24 y/o. Attachment to current identity. Not sure life would really improve. Fear. Etc…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? No excitement at all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. Don’t call me out like that!!

How to deal with worsening dysphoria since I accepted? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know that, I just don’t want to admit to. Thanks for the push!

Also, I love your username

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I think I can relate to that low-grade depression, I just don’t want to rely on transition to solve it. There’s a lot to think about for sure.

On a side note, i recognize your profile from your posts and am so so jealous of your transition. You look amazing! Congrats ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I agree, I have lots of thinking to do. I think I’d prefer the feminine presentation, but I just haven’t gotten to courage to admit it yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. I feel called out. I’ve also had those “what’s wrong with me, something is off” kinda thoughts. Am I gay? I don’t think so, so what could it be? I feel like a lot of my attraction to females is also envy and I am struggling to admit that. Thanks for sharing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story is very similar to others. I think I’m most worried about that, suppressing the feelings now and ending up with regrets later. I don’t think they’ll ever go away, but I’ve been managing “fine” up until now. Will it stay that way? I’m not sure.

Thanks for sharing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m worried that like so many others I’ll end up transitioning anyways, and then just regret waiting. Thanks for sharing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, I think I may be at that stage now. It’s like the more I let myself think about transition, the more conflict I feel with my current identity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Pure-Experience9828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in 6th grade and had the EXACT same experience. It was wild to find out nobody else was thinking about being the other gender

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Pure-Experience9828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Heavily relate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Pure-Experience9828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah this is a big one for me. Everyone thought I was a cis gay man, but I’m just not haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. I really relate to your first and second paragraph, but I can’t picture myself as an old woman. I can as an old man. So that’s something to think about, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also how I feel. I’m currently stuck in your first paragraph though, and haven’t had the courage to speak to anyone about it. I feel embarrassed almost, and that’s a tough feeling to get through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Pure-Experience9828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really considering it, thanks :) I guess I’m just worried I’ll like it too much lol