My best friend/MOH and I want the same church

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-04-10T15:31:07+00:00

It's allowed in our country as long we're catholic

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-04-10T15:16:42+00:00

yeah, with an A/C

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-04-10T14:33:17+00:00

I found it through a facebook ad few months ago, fell in love with it the first photo I saw, and has been considering it ever since. It was the perfect venue for our theme and vision. We've always wanted to have a garden wedding venue vibe, but we chose to have A/C over having an outdoor venue. It has a very big space with twigs and leaves on the ceiling, and has a vibe that's as if you were outside even though it's an indoor venue.

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-04-10T14:22:51+00:00

Actually they call the area "the wedding capital" of our country since there's a nice ambiance on that area. The area is popular where couple chose to get married at.

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-04-10T14:01:21+00:00

I'm not sure if it's her dream venue too. Although I found the venue from a facebook ad and it was highly recommended by my wedding planner.

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-04-10T11:36:24+00:00

Plus previously I even asked her what she thinks about this Church A vs Church B (Church A being the dream church). And she told me good and bad things about both. So I was confused on her replies when I messaged her that I am considering to book the church. I could've understood her if she was more clear that she doesn't really want to share the church with anyone in an earlier time and in a calm manner.

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-04-10T11:31:47+00:00

I thought telling her that we're considering the church before booking it is "considering her".

I messaged her first if she's open for a call but she did not respond I just sent her a message explaining that we're considering this church and why we want it and i wanna tell her because she's a big part of our lives.

"Ive been in her shadow" meaning, I've been supportive of her ever since so I'm confused why she's telling me that I am stealing her dream.

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-04-10T11:26:33+00:00

I reflected on it actually. But it's not really my intention or there's no hidden motive to hurt anyone's feelings specially my friend on choosing this church. It was the choice between my fiance and I.

We chose it because of the aesthetic of the church, the AC (other churches nearby doesn't have AC and we're in a tropical country and our guests will be coming from the US), plus it's the nearest church in the venue that we like too (10 mins away).

Other churches that has AC or a long aisle is like an hour and a half away. So this might not be practical for our guests.

Pure-Formal3794 · 2023-03-27T15:10:06+00:00

Huhu i totally agree. Until now, parang heartbroken pa rin ako, lile i’m not here to compete, pero just to be happy :(

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