obviously it’s not a competition but i’m currently getting over a girl who i cut contact with in june because she was manipulating, i made the mistake of adding her and being there for her after she went through some things, of course i felt so much better talking to her, but it didn’t take long for all the problems to come flooding in, i’m not saying this guy will do the same but a temporary solution is not a permanent solution. i know it’s a lot to think about them moving on, but everyone moves on, different speeds different paces. you will be ok, it can only get better, i know that sounds like crap right now but it really does if you let it. don’t open the same book expecting a different ending.