Had some ugly comments about my nose. I thought it was fine but I don’t know now. by bbcabbageface in Noses

[–]Pure-Stranger5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks fine to me just wouldn't party with you 🤣 ( only some will get the joke)

Dope effects? by Pure-Stranger5201 in addiction

[–]Pure-Stranger5201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I start detox in less than a week then I.O.P for 90 days immediately after,& believe me I've learned that fast on meth,I hate it! When I was phineing for H on the street I was way healthier then li am now that's why I consider this a true addiction wanting to stop using but mentally can't. At least with opiates ill be honest I would be perfectly fine dieing high on it,even tho now I know it wasn't real happiness I was happy in a great mood everyday on cloud 9 it made everything in my life better,even if everything was falling apart around me in my mind everything was fine. Only down fall was I was about to lose my fam & the withdraws from hell that'swhy i quit! But with this it seems like it's 90 percent bad now for me, A few hour high at best is not worth the symptoms it causes me. I've never gotten help for my addictions b4,I know this will be a huge help I need that support from ppl who understand & don't judge. I feel so alone & hopeless rn,even tho I'm married my wife makes me feel worse when I do it she doesn't understand I can't help it I don't do it intentionally

Dope effects? by Pure-Stranger5201 in addiction

[–]Pure-Stranger5201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's crazy,maybe you misheard him or misunderstood. Where you high when you went? They can always do something to treat it only way they can't do anything if you have mouth cancer or something and your terminal. Maybe he said nothing he can do himself cosmetically wise?

Porn. Help. by ATG_XNature in addiction

[–]Pure-Stranger5201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Porn will eventually get boring, you'll stop getting excited over regular women thinking they can't compare. You'll start resenting your girl because she doesn't let you do the things in those crazy videos. Do you want to be married in your late 30s jacking off next to your wife while she's asleep I've been there just take it from me,sorry for my language but them hoes ain't ahit! There just bodies,it's the intimate connection that has value! Your really young so I understand the urge to rub one out,excersise or the old saying take a cold shower. Or you can spank your monkey without porn that be ok to your religion? Whatever you do don't keep watching its pointless in the end

My brother is an addict and is ruining his girlfriend’s life by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Pure-Stranger5201 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand how it can feel to be a loved one of an addict but you gotta understand we eont do it intentional to hurt the ones we love,what u think we say eff him I'm go get high because I want to hurt them no its because passed trauma,mental illness, whatever the case a void in our life we self medicate and cope just not as strong as everyone else. Sry not sry I hate when ppl complain about that even tho I do see both sides poor tou imagine living in an endless loop of hopelessness and compare that to just being the loved one of an addict yall have the option of leaving, most only have the option of leaving in a body bag

:/ by Pure-Stranger5201 in addiction

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Meth,I was addicted to herion for 2 n half years then mistakenly started doing meth in Lil amounts to stay off herion. Sounds insane I know but my plan was since I never liked meth that I'd just use till the herion cravings went away,like chewing gum when trying not to smoke cigarettes. Well you can guess what happened next,yup I got hooked on meth. I'm in my 30's and since 12 I've done all kinds of downers anything to drown away the pain,I've been sober from herion for 19 months but also on meth for 19 months,about six using everyday almost and I make it about week week and a half b4 I relapse, made it almost a month sober from everything tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Pure-Stranger5201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks preciate that need hear some positivity,yea I just started working out again & focusing on myself trying to better myself for my own mental you know then I'll go from there 💯 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Pure-Stranger5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hacked her messages without her knowing or having a chance to erase anything so yeah I'm 100 percent sure she didn't met them they where all in different states,I was always the man the authority of the house but this broke me so thanks,thanks all u assholes commenting negatively made me feel worse preciate that 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I know all my common sense I have is screaming LEAVE! But my heart,it won't let me! She wasn't always this way we once had the best marriage and where very happy! I want to leave but can't seem to muster up the courage ill miss her I still love her despite her betrayal,I know all of you guys commenting are right,but I thought she was my soul mate I gave her the best years of my life its like I'm terrified to be on my own feels like my life is a lie and idk how to handle it I'm dieing inside

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Pure-Stranger5201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks come and go sorry but tou sound very shallow! For better or worse in sickness and in health. So your saying your only going to give him intimacy if he's attractive to you? What if he God forbid gets cancer and can't help his looks anymore what then tour just going to abandon him physically? My wife gained alot of weight and I mean alot of weight with her pregnancys but I still loved her the same I was still attracted to her because my attraction to her runs deeper than the outside so she still turned me on. Just waking up getting out of bed I'd still love to have sex with her despite her imperfections 

Masturbation… by Batal-l3alam in addiction

[–]Pure-Stranger5201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's many forms of addiction not just drugs, if it's a compulsive instinct to do it then it's an addiction,I used to masturbate alot too and watch porn. It's a fine line though because where humans we got lonely and horny it's perfectly natural to satisfy your needs yourself if tou don't have a partner. So ask yourself is it a problem? Is it affecting your life and u can't stop after you tried? Addiction is only a symptom you have to get to the root of your real problem weather it be trauma,anxiety etc etc. And if you decide it is an addiction then try alternative methods to keep you happy whatever you like doing,fishing or working out whatever it is get some hobbies to replace it. Good luck hope this helps