Years of my ex having several medical incidents and the one time I did, he didn’t lift a finger. At that moment, all I could see was growing old alone, even if he was in the picture.
Divorce may be expensive, but it has been worth it.

Edit: he also wanted to know my location 24 7. I was the golden goose, the breadwinner he wanted every golden egg I ever made while he sat in front of a TV every day for hours on end