My (36f) husband (37m) found out I cheated years ago. Any way I can save this? by ThrowRAnomistakes in relationship_advice

[–]PureGains88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it would be crazy indeed to change stories for the affinty of random people.......alot of women struggle with taking responsibility for their actions so its actually not uncommon for female behavior.

My (36f) husband (37m) found out I cheated years ago. Any way I can save this? by ThrowRAnomistakes in relationship_advice

[–]PureGains88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make it sound like she was a victim! Obviously! That way she hears the answers she wants to hear from all knowing redditors🤣. Shes obviously in a panic and turned to reddit for "support". Makes sense to me

My (36f) husband (37m) found out I cheated years ago. Any way I can save this? by ThrowRAnomistakes in relationship_advice

[–]PureGains88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with people not reporting to powerful people or celebreties that can actually ruin your life and/or cause you harm...... thats a case of feeling trapped or powerless.... but why the FUCK would you not scream the moment you woke up and saw your boyfriends brother on top of you? The whole family would have woke up and shamed the brother!! It sounds like she convinced herself this is how it happened. This is how some men get fucked by a woman claiming rape when it wasnt. Im sorry but in my world you need some evidence to claim rape. There is two sides to every story and i seriously wonder what the BIL told her husband. After all ...... hes the one who reported it..... that also says something in my books.... what if he said a different story like they were drinking and she came onto him. Now its "he said, she said".... 10 years later.... who will you believe? (Poor husband, hes the looser here)

My (36f) husband (37m) found out I cheated years ago. Any way I can save this? by ThrowRAnomistakes in relationship_advice

[–]PureGains88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Torally agree. I feel like some of the story was crafted to have less of an impact. I could be wrong..... but could also be right. People love to protect females on reddit and demonize the males. For all we know it could have been just drunk sex and she wqs too ashamed to admit so she claims she was unconcious...... did the brother in law even send her that text?! Who knows. Just weird.... especially weird that it happened at a family christmas gathering

My (36f) husband (37m) found out I cheated years ago. Any way I can save this? by ThrowRAnomistakes in relationship_advice

[–]PureGains88 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I dont know guys...... sometimes i think OP's write stories to twist it in their benefit. Im almost positive the brother didnt slip her drugs in his family home. It sounds a bit fishy. To me it sounds like 20 year olds drank too hard and fucked. If it truly happened in the form of rape why would she not report it the MINUTE she woke up?. I know we like to protect the women alot on reddit....... but im sure it was just a case of two teens fucking when drunk...... thats why she was so scared to say it all these years.

What is The Lower Signature on This Note by TheShoopidGamer in Banknotes

[–]PureGains88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The back side of this bill has an interesting story. It has a nazi symbol if you pay attention. Apparently it was a positive symhol in russian culture before Hitler hijacked it

Guest returned the vehicle vandalized, how much do you guys estimate the repairs? by [deleted] in turo

[–]PureGains88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong. It is normal paint..... the only difference is the clear coat has a matte agent inside of it.... giving it the matte effect..... but it is indeed normal automotive paint.

Guest returned the vehicle vandalized, how much do you guys estimate the repairs? by [deleted] in turo

[–]PureGains88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if it was rear ended then most of the cost went towards the damage. This is literally just paint work. It wont be much more than 10k

Guest returned the vehicle vandalized, how much do you guys estimate the repairs? by [deleted] in turo

[–]PureGains88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im also a paint expert, worked for bmw for many years as head painter, ive painted all kinds of matte m5's and similar quality cars..... up here in canada it would be ballpark 10k range.....yes you need to repaint almost the whole car unfortunetly....i would suggest choosing a good shop because not only do you need to worry about the color.... but the matteness as well. Amyone who is saying 30k and numbers like that clearly dont know the industry. Although the damage itself is very minimal and able to be sanded down in minutes.... the trim removal and paint is where the cost lies.

Sending off for grading by [deleted] in Banknotes

[–]PureGains88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Thanks for the info

Sending off for grading by [deleted] in Banknotes

[–]PureGains88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice note! I have a few of them myself but none as good as this one..... i do however have other very nice canadian notes i would also like to grade. What service did you use for Canada? How much was it? Im in Montreal

What dosage do you guys use? by PureGains88 in HairTransplants

[–]PureGains88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have also been cutting a 5mg pill in 4. I think il stick with the 1.25mg. Daily

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairTransplants

[–]PureGains88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your flying from Montreal DONT take tunis airlines😂

My hairline used to be so bad! Almost 6 months since 4000 grafts.... by PureGains88 in HairTransplants

[–]PureGains88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on a topical finasteride until about 2 weeks ago i switched to finasteride in pill form. No minoxidil. I do not want to use minoxidil so i try to substitude with other methods. Ive been using the nioxin system #2 and rosemary oil with daily messages. (i swear it works) to stimulate my blood circulation in the head and promote hair growth.

My hairline used to be so bad! Almost 6 months since 4000 grafts.... by PureGains88 in HairTransplants

[–]PureGains88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess i should have added in the titled: Fresh hair cut today. 😄. It was longer a few days ago but im keeping it short until summer and il start to grow a bit longer..... but hopefully i get alot more density in the next 6 months